Finding out secrets about someone after they died

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Found out my dad’s cousin was actually my uncle at his funeral… found out after my grandmother passed away that she was raped by a family member when she was young resulting in said uncle who my dad and his siblings thought was their cousin.

 

[Art Barr]

This is deep, but stuff like this was not uncommon in previous eras. Families would quickly sweep it under the rug and never speak on it.

They should've been sweeping that nikka into a incest pine cover box.
at the bottom of a body of water chomped into chum.

fukk is wrong with people protecting real criminals in their family victimizing people.
You cover up for somebody like that in my fam.

Imma be covering you like a db on route too tho.

Then wrapping you up in coverage tho.




Art Barr

 

[Tr0yTV]

No one died but my great aunt had an affair with her sons wife. It’s an evil world we living in

 

[Ashley Banks]

Same. Except my grandpa married my grandma who had kids already from another marriage and he got her oldest daughter pregnant with my “aunt” and “uncle” I think she was 18 then but I’m not sure. Supposedly he got another woman pregnant a few blocks over too. It was the 50s and 60s so my grandma raised them and said nothing because she had nowhere to go. All this time I thought we called our “cousins” (what I thought they were), aunts and uncle out of respect for being older when in reality they actually were aunts and uncles (technically both smh). When my grandma passed she didn’t want to be buried next to him, asked to be buried next to her first husband

I remember you telling this story. I would just kill myself. But people swear up and down that people were happier back then because they stayed together. They were just as miserable they just didn’t have anywhere to go.



anyways I haven’t really had any scandalous stuff come out after someone dies, my family tends to sin in your face.

 

[Ozymandeas]

I remember you telling this story. I would just kill myself. But people swear up and down that people were happier back then because they stayed together. They were just as miserable they just didn’t have anywhere to go.



anyways I haven’t really had any scandalous stuff come out after someone dies, my family tends to sin in your face.

I agree somewhat especially in my grand mom’s sense. I think her first husband was her true love but he died early whereas my grandpop was supposedly a mean muthafukka (never met him). I used to help care for my grandma in her older years and I felt bad for her sometimes knowing he did her greasy and was abusive but because of the time she was in she was stuck with him. Didn’t help that she was my mom’s twin in terms of looks. My family barely talk about my grandpop so I know he wasn’t that liked.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

Discovered my grandfather was mixed after his funeral.

 

[Koapa]

My dad died when I was eight. I found out I had two other sisters by two different women at the gathering after the funeral. One sister was a couple months older than me. The other sister was a couple months younger.

I was completely baffled at the time.

 

[Rekkapryde]

This is deep, but stuff like this was not uncommon in previous eras. Families would quickly sweep it under the rug and never speak on it.

yup, black people are notorious for this shyt.

 

[Rekkapryde]

Found out my uncle was actually just a stranger who chilled with my family sometimes

again, common nikka shyt.

 

[Orbital-Fetus]

This is pre-social media. People were living double/triple lifes out here with ease.

as late as the 90's you could move to the next closest city and be an entirely different person.

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

Have some respect for the dead y'all.

This is exactly why I don't talk to anyone in real life..

One day I'll just disappear from thecoli and there won't be anyone to bad mouth me at my grave

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

Found out my uncle was actually just a stranger who chilled with my family sometimes

*Looks at username.

 

[Orbital-Fetus]

i was talking to my pops recently and he told me he's not sure if my mom is my real mother.

 

[Bud Bundy]

i was talking to my pops recently and he told me he's not sure if my mom is my real mother.

Your father is a slut

 

[ABlackMan]

Respectfully young man


That was too much honestly and we didn’t need to know that here on the coli.

No disrespect in the least but damn

I thought so too because somebody gonna hit em with a troll one day. Can bet that. Yet OP isn’t wrong because at the end of the day this is some sort of a safe space for many users.

We have large community why not be able to say things like this and have discussion about it or possibly even be introduced to a few folks that have went through it.

We here where it’s only people like us here (minus trolls and lames) yet we be shytting on each other at any given moment. I don’t get it.

Get on the coli and try to get online cool points and striking at each other. shyt whack.

this ain’t about you I’m just replying