Finding something she's interested in and using it to get close to her

[BrehWyatt]

A younger, more wayward (read: pre-Coli) BrehWyatt did this more than he'd like to admit.

Now that I'm older, a tad wiser and a tad bit more enlightened, I realize that it's just best to be yourself. And those who fukk with you, will fukk with you. Those who don't, won't.

 

[Orbital-Fetus]

no, ask her about what she is interested in and let her talk to you about it.
be honest about the fact that you don't know about it.

don't fake the funk.

 

[Dwolf]

I haven't uploaded anything since I was drawing stuff in random request threads on gaia ()
last summer, before my hd died and took my scanner/printer with it, since parted magic doesn't seem to recognize printers. Here's the photobucket: http://s1353.photobucket.com/user/cucumbercollins/library/ . Those are requests, except for the first one, I'm not normally so heavy on super pale skin, haha (kind of embarrassing)

Let me see your stuff now

I would need to do something, I dont keep stuff. So a little bit later

 

[RealAssanova]

i don't see anything wrong with that

nikkaz lie all the time b, telling girls they beautiful and shyt even if they ain't besides, if you think about, we goin that extra mile by doin shyt like finding out something about shorty...so if anything, ya'll shud be appreciative of that.

at the end of the day, we just wanna fukk and we gonna find the most efficient, economical way.

 

[wet landscapes]

I would need to do something, I dont keep stuff. So a little bit later

you ain't gonna get me to post my weeaboo art and not post something too, you better get out them drawings
I'll be waiting

 

[Canon]

hope you enjoy boxing and muay thai

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

@PhonZhi what I mean is when a guy can tell that the girl is not interested yet he's still trying to find ways (things she's into and he has the opportunities to share) to be around. Like she's going to change her mind

If the girl takes what's being offered but knows his intention from the get go and that it's not going to get him anywhere is she wrong for that?

He hasn't come right out and said it but it's pretty obvious.

Please stop making these kinds of threads

It's my forte you'll get used to it maybe even come to like it

 

[Turbulent]

@PhonZhi what I mean is when a guy can tell that the girl is not interested yet he's still trying to find ways (things she's into and he has the opportunities to share) to be around. Like she's going to change her mind

If the girl takes what's being offered but knows his intention from the get go and that it's not going to get him anywhere is she wrong for that?

He hasn't come right out and said it but it's pretty obvious.



It's my forte you'll get used to it maybe even come to like it

it's kinda whorish.

 

[Max B]

i don't see anything wrong with that

nikkaz lie all the time b, telling girls they beautiful and shyt even if they ain't besides, if you think about, we goin that extra mile by doin shyt like finding out something about shorty...so if anything, ya'll shud be appreciative of that.

at the end of the day, we just wanna fukk and we gonna find the most efficient, economical way.

I lie for p*ssy always


It is what it is

 

[karim]

That works if youre both like 17.

op thinks like a 17 year old, so this might actually work for the guy in question.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

it's kinda whorish.

That's extreme. It's not that black or white. She has skills and contacts and could add value (it's a business thing) but she's not certain that he would have reached out if he wasn't into her.

As a female there's a fine line when it comes to sorting through men who just like you and you click as a human being and want to have a human connection form the ones who have ulterior motives. If you are too much to one side you become extremely big headed and full of yourself and too little makes you naive. To take that further you can't make someone bushes status just because they're on that line but this is the first time I have been in this particular situation, the opportunity sounds interesting it's not anything with financial value, it's my time for new CV-worthy experience we'd just need to communicate more often

If I say yes am I leading him on, if I say no am I the most arrogant female who needs a reality-check/to be knocked down a peg

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

op thinks like a 17 year old, so this might actually work for the guy in question.

Why you gotta be so rude

 

[karim]

Why you gotta be so rude

sometimes the truth hurts

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

sometimes the truth hurts

Not this comment, this is more funny than anything but you are just generally rude to and about me.

 

[Turbulent]

That's extreme. It's not that black or white. She has skills and contacts and could add value (it's a business thing) but she's not certain that he would have reached out if he wasn't into her.

As a female there's a fine line when it comes to sorting through men who just like you and you click as a human being and want to have a human connection form the ones who have ulterior motives. If you are too much to one side you become extremely big headed and full of yourself and too little makes you naive. To take that further you can't make someone bushes status just because they're on that line but this is the first time I have been in this particular situation, the opportunity sounds interesting it's not anything with financial value, it's my time for new CV-worthy experience we'd just need to communicate more often

If I say yes am I leading him on, if I say no am I the most arrogant female who needs a reality-check/to be knocked down a peg

it's a slippery slope but do you.i'm not the absolute authority of anything, just stating my opinion.