Fine ass Female wants to know why men have to initiate everything :ohhh:

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Disagree with the bolded.

You'll have to substantiate that. I don't know one mom whose whole exist isn't encapsulated by her children.

I know maybe a handful of men in that circumstance and that's an option for them not a requirement. Just being a weekend dad will get you labeled as a "good" father.

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

Oh hell no.

I realized awhile ago that, in terms of relationships, things that are beneficial to men are not beneficial to women and visa versa.

I stopped dating over 2 years ago and haven't looked back.

Don't give up hope. It's good nikkas out there

In here too

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Don't give up hope. It's good nikkas out there

In here too

fukk no. That's line is for stupid women sir. I don't chase fantasies.

You could be a "good" man and nothing about that changes what I wrote in my first post.

 

["It Was Always Jerry"]

You'll have to substantiate that. I don't know one mom whose whole exist isn't encapsulated by her children.

I know maybe a handful of men in that circumstance and that's an option for them not a requirement. Just being a weekend dad will get you labeled as a "good" father.

Do you think Gloria James regret being a single mom as she raised one of the greatest players ever. Ditto for Ann Iverson. I'm sure there are more examples.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Do you think Gloria James regret being a single mom as she raised one of the greatest players ever. Ditto for Ann Iverson. I'm sure there are more examples.

Where in my posts does it say anything about regrets?

And what do those 2 women's regrets or nonregrets have to do with the billions of mothers who have existed on this planet?

If you wanna go that route...

Do you think the mother's of serial killers, rapist and murders regret being single moms? Far more of those than elite athletes.

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

She's right in my opinion, but realistically most women don't feel that way.

The majority aren't going to initiate and the most they'll do is drop subtle hints that most men will overlook. Obviously most isn't all.

Facts.

Plus.....women only initiate in an obvious/overt way for men wayyyyyyy out of their league.

1991 Michael Jordan walks into a club in Chicago. Every sista, pawg, exotical and chica is bee-lining straight for him. It's 20x worse if they know in advance that he'd be there. Women are perfectly fine initiating if it's "worth it."

An average breh that makes $90k working at the post office with good benefits? Not a chance, especially if she's single and young with no kids.

If men waited on women, only the Top 5 or 10% of men would ever get laid. Above average brehs might get a shot with average/below average women, but that's it.

Women don't know have the guts to face rejection from an average man....but they'll be a side piece or ONS for a baller.

 

["It Was Always Jerry"]

Where in my posts does it say anything about regrets?

And what do those 2 women's regrets or nonregrets have to do with the billions of mothers who have existed on this planet?

If you wanna go that route...

Do you think the mother's of serial killers, rapist and murders regret being single moms? Far more of those than elite athletes.

Far less serial killers, murders, rapist than non. Maybe I see different as a successful person raised by a single mother. Hopefully, I'm blessed to have one or some, one day. If not, I'll adopt or marry a single mother.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

​

 

[DatBoiHawk]

Sounds like reverse red pill

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Far less serial killers, murders, rapist than non. Maybe I see different as a successful person raised by a single mother. Hopefully, I'm blessed to have one or some, one day. If not, I'll adopt or marry a single mother.

But what does that have to do with my original statement?

It was about moms, not what YOU want or how you would feel good about being a parent.

And why are you talking about single moms? I'm talking about mothers in general. Why are you highlighting that?

I feel like you either didn't read what I said and/or you are attempting to have a completely different conversation than I am having.

 

[JNew]

Remember when social media was for celebrity gossip


Now people get life and dating advice from randoms in their cars And wonder why they’re miserable and their lives are a mess.

 

["It Was Always Jerry"]

But what does that have to do with my original statement?

It was about moms, not what YOU want or how you would feel good about being a parent.

And why are you talking about single moms? I'm talking about mothers in general. Why are you highlighting that?

I feel like you either didn't read what I said and/or you are attempting to have a completely different conversation than I am having.

I read it and shared my thoughts. You stated "you pretty much lose your life" I disagreed. I gave examples of single mothers being that single mothers have more responsibility than non single mothers. I don't see how a woman would pretty much lose their life and a man wouldn't, in a 2 parent household.

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

fukk no. That's line is for stupid women sir. I don't chase fantasies.

You could be a "good" man and nothing about that changes what I wrote in my first post.

Stupid women don't attract me ma'am. I love a woman of substance

But you right though, it don't change the risks unfortunately

Since I'm a man, I could never fully see what it's like from a woman's POV. I do try to be better since I ain't really have a lot of examples of men who treated women well. Some decent, but I can kinda see why yall don't trust us

We all got room to grow, but it's a toss up of who actually will. Like, it sucks when I get wrote off by a chick for xyz reason, but I can't really get worked up about it. Only so much time in life, so can't really afford to waste with someone you ain't sure on.

I think my bro and cousins are doing well with their kids, so it makes me hopeful for the future. In that that generation won't repeat a lot of the things us and prior gens did wrong

And finally put this gender war shyt to an end

 

[summwunn]

Oh hell no.

I realized awhile ago that, in terms of relationships, things that are beneficial to men are not beneficial to women and visa versa.

I stopped dating over 2 years ago and haven't looked back.

....til death do you part ?!?!!! . . .

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I read it and shared my thoughts. You stated "you pretty much lose your life" I disagreed. I gave examples of single mothers being that single mothers have more responsibility than non single mothers. I don't see how a woman would pretty much lose their life and a man wouldn't, in a 2 parent household.

No you started talking about regrets.

You don't understand how a woman would lose their life and a man wouldn't when you're literally in a community (assuming you're blk) with a massive absentee father issue?

I feel like you're being disingenuous. Everyone knows women take on the VAST majority of child rearing throughout human history.

Respectfully, I'm not willing to have a dumbed down conversation with you about that. Seems like you just wanna be a contrarian, and honestly, i'm just not in the mood.