Fine ass Female wants to know why men have to initiate everything :ohhh:

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....til death do you part ?!?!!! . . .

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Stupid women don't attract me ma'am. I love a woman of substance :jawalrus:

But you right though, it don't change the risks unfortunately :manny:

Since I'm a man, I could never fully see what it's like from a woman's POV. I do try to be better since I ain't really have a lot of examples of men who treated women well. Some decent, but I can kinda see why yall don't trust us :francis:

We all got room to grow, but it's a toss up of who actually will. Like, it sucks when I get wrote off by a chick for xyz reason, but I can't really get worked up about it. Only so much time in life, so can't really afford to waste with someone you ain't sure on.

I think my bro and cousins are doing well with their kids, so it makes me hopeful for the future. In that that generation won't repeat a lot of the things us and prior gens did wrong

And finally put this gender war shyt to an end :why:
There is actually a scientific term for it. It's called "sexual conflict". It's apart of nature.

Rarely do you see animals of the opposite sex cohabitation for significant periods of time. Usually they come together to mate and then go their seperate ways.

People think the "gender war" is social but it actually biological. That's why monogamy is such a struggle for humans. They only way it can be sustains is through oppression and social controls. But even then it breaks down because we know "cheating" is rampant.
 

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Stupid women don't attract me ma'am. I love a woman of substance :jawalrus:

But you right though, it don't change the risks unfortunately :manny:

Since I'm a man, I could never fully see what it's like from a woman's POV. I do try to be better since I ain't really have a lot of examples of men who treated women well. Some decent, but I can kinda see why yall don't trust us :francis:

We all got room to grow, but it's a toss up of who actually will. Like, it sucks when I get wrote off by a chick for xyz reason, but I can't really get worked up about it. Only so much time in life, so can't really afford to waste with someone you ain't sure on.

I think my bro and cousins are doing well with their kids, so it makes me hopeful for the future. In that that generation won't repeat a lot of the things us and prior gens did wrong

And finally put this gender war shyt to an end :why:
I'm afraid it will never end(gender war). :mjcry:
 

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Issa lotta miserable people actin' like they happy 'cause they wanna be fake. That's Saul.
 

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Women have truly lost the plot. Men approach you and then proves himself to you because you have everything to lose and he has nothing to lose.

1. Women's "dating market value" (I hate that term) goes down by you just associating with a man because whether you do or not everyone assumes you are fukking him.

2. You're more likely to get a STD from him than he is from you.

3. You can get pregnant which can kill you. Not to mention all the ways pregnancy can cause so much harm to your body which most women aren't even aware of.

4. If you do have the baby you are stuck with the majority of the responsibility. He can literally walk out whenever he wants. The worst he will lose is some money. You pretty much lose the rest of your life.

5. Sperm literally has chemicals that cause women to become attached to men; but not the other way around.

The list goes on. Imagine auditioning for a man to put you through all that. Nonsensical.
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She's right that a lot of women push themselves away from potentially a good man by assuming things and having a lack of patience. A genuine dude with good intentions could be in their DM talking to them, trying to get to know them, and out of bloom by day 2, in the middle of a conversation, trying to learn more, they'll ghost him.

I mentioned in a thread last week that women these days don't take the time to get to know a man, y'know, like the way our mothers, grandmothers, aunties, etc, took their time in meeting our fathers, uncles, and grandfathers.

Women of the past would actually appreciate a man who takes his time, but these days, not so much. Y'know, making sure you both have an understanding of what it is you are getting involved with.

I dislike when a woman makes me feel like I'm “on the clock” in terms of pursuing her; it's like they're rushing and pushing a man to make a move on them before he can learn about them (characters, hobbies, etc.) as a woman/person to know whether or not both of them are compatible for each other.

It's ironic in a way because women have a lot more to lose rushing into a relationship, yet nowadays, it's men who have more time, patience, and interest in investing in getting to know a woman.
 
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