First date ideas?

[Malik1time]

You can’t go wrong with bowling…especially the ones with the arcade in the same building
I went go karting on a first date and we both had tons of fun she never done it and she was having more fun than me

 

[blockburna420]

Depends on how much you willing to spend, take her a to pizza joint n ball game. bytches love shyt they don't care about. Specifically if nobody else can say they went there


If the game boring as hell leave early and hit the bar.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Pool
Batting Cage
Mini Golf/Go Carts
Art Museum
Indoor Skydiving
Arboretum
Wine and Paint
Movies on the green
Hiking(if you both are the active type)
Farmers Market/Open Air Market
Festival/Carnival

 

[Streetcar]

Pool
Batting Cage
Mini Golf/Go Carts
Art Museum
Indoor Skydiving
Arboretum
Wine and Paint
Movies on the green
Hiking(if you both are the active type)
Farmers Market/Open Air Market
Festival/Carnival

For a first date ?

I’d suggest something light like a coffee or lunch for the first date. Get a feel for the woman and if she’s feeling you like that. If she is smash immediately (get it out the way) and then begin courting her properly.

 

[NYChase718]

Secretly Record her all day, buy her a purse, then tweet “this my bytch now” and ask her to be your gf

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

For a first date ?

I’d suggest something light like a coffee or lunch for the first date. Get a feel for the woman and if she’s feeling you like that. If she is smash immediately (get it out the way) and then begin courting her properly.

First dates should be fun
Coffee is cool but these activities give both parties a chance to let loose, build chemistry and enjoy themselves
nikkas forget they are in competition just like women are
Separating yourself from nikkas in her orbit is always a win
But hey what do I know
My first date with my current was a Escape Room
And I smashed 3 hours later
And she’s my wife now
Do you my guy

 

[Streetcar]

First dates should be fun
Coffee is cool but these activities give both parties a chance to let loose, build chemistry and enjoy themselves
nikkas forget they are in competition just like women are
Separating yourself from nikkas in her orbit is always a win
But hey what do I know
My first date with my current was a Escape Room
And I smashed 3 hours later
And she’s my wife now
Do you my guy

Congrats fam you did well. I think once you know you value the woman and you’ve smashed is the best time to pull out these more enjoyable/exciting activities. That’s when you’re separating yourself.

Also I’m from Melbourne and the woman here (black/white/whatever) are usually taken aback by forward shyt like extravagant first dates or even cold approaches.

 

[Caca-faat]

Bowling
Trust

This a terrible idea in 2021. A lot of girls have long ass impractical nails and will decline a bowling date with quickness. My nails are long naturally and still tear up in a bowling ball. This one may be a no go for OP.

 

[Caca-faat]

Pool
Batting Cage
Mini Golf/Go Carts
Art Museum
Indoor Skydiving
Arboretum
Wine and Paint
Movies on the green
Hiking(if you both are the active type)
Farmers Market/Open Air Market
Festival/Carnival

Alll of these are good ideas and waaay more likely to have a girl interested in going on a second date with you whilst still on the first.

Think outside the box. THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO IS TAKE A GIRL ON A SIT DOWN DATE WHILST SHE WISHES SHE WAS SOMEWHERE ELSE AND YOU TRYNA FIGURE OUT HER FAVOURITE COLOUR. Have an activity where her mind is occupied where shes too busy having fun to think about picking up her phone. Make the date fun so you also have a good time so even if shes not the one YOU still had a good time.

Some of ya'll in this thread are hustling backwards cos ur tryna cheap yourself out of a good time then wonder why ur dikks stay dry.

Activity date is the way to go OP, theres lots of free things to do thats easy on the pockets. Theeennnnn you go eat after, even if ur walking in the park eating hot dogs,your going to be goofing off and laughing at each other from the previous activity.
After the date is over DO NOT PRESS HER FOR SEX. You want her to think about it, if she wants to kiss give her a kiss but make it something shes gonna think about. ( This is where you show dominance.) Grab her lightly by the neck, lift her up, but LET HER LEAD THE KISS. Then you take ur ass home jerk off then text her before you fall asleep. Thank her for coming out with you and that you had a really good time.

She will show interest by letting u know when shes free. She will drop it into convo. PAY ATTENTION to shyt shes babbling about over the next few days. THIS IS WHERE THE GEMS ARE. "Omg i loove Moroccan food, my cousin went to some place on xxxx avenue. (This is 4th date information.) PAY ATTENTION. You've only been on date 1 , but you are planning ahead cos this is the day you gonna get some p*ssy. Because you would have fully laid the groundwork.

Second date. Plan this with her by midweek after the first date. Cinema and nibbles and drinks. If she offers to pay (which she should) then your onto a good thing. More kissing, she'll allow you to go further this time.

Third date ask her what's shes up to she may plan this date. By this time you guys will be talking on the phone often figuring shyt out you like etc.


4th date, by this time you guys should be onto a good thing. Make your reservation at the Moroccan place, tell her to wear sumn nice dont tell her where you're going, this should be the night you get some p*ssy. She'll be crawling out her skin to give you some.


Kanyes work out plan.

 

[African Peasant]

Ice tea or coffee plus walk in the park or museum.

Cost you nothing and you can TALK.

Doing too much does not give you cool points.

 

[I Really Mean It]

As long as you’re dating the right kind of women, coffee or a walk in the park are still fine.

 

[Soundbwoy]

It’s summer there should be summer festivals going on, take her to one

 

[east]

my current we went to the zoo and made up stories about what they'd done to earn a stay in animal jail :3

saw some brehs mention hiking and other long activities, i can't imagine a woman would wanna go alone in the woods for hours with a guy she just met. plus she's gonna have to choose between being comfortable or wearing frumpy hiking clothes.

 

[Spiider]

Dave & Busters

 

[D.C Young]

Alll of these are good ideas and waaay more likely to have a girl interested in going on a second date with you whilst still on the first.

Think outside the box. THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO IS TAKE A GIRL ON A SIT DOWN DATE WHILST SHE WISHES SHE WAS SOMEWHERE ELSE AND YOU TRYNA FIGURE OUT HER FAVOURITE COLOUR. Have an activity where her mind is occupied where shes too busy having fun to think about picking up her phone. Make the date fun so you also have a good time so even if shes not the one YOU still had a good time.

Some of ya'll in this thread are hustling backwards cos ur tryna cheap yourself out of a good time then wonder why ur dikks stay dry.

Activity date is the way to go OP, theres lots of free things to do thats easy on the pockets. Theeennnnn you go eat after, even if ur walking in the park eating hot dogs,your going to be goofing off and laughing at each other from the previous activity.

yeah I agree with this, women need mental stimulation cause they get bored very fast

there's this girl that I work with that has been giving me heavy choosing signals for a while now

and for a first date, I'm going to take her to something called a escape room

Celebrity Escape Room (Full TV Special) - YouTube

its not going to be cheap, but I'm not just doing it for her, I'm doing it for me too, because last thing I want to do is just a boring walk in the park....

a activity date checks all the boxes

- bonding through fun activity
- loosening up through physical exhaustion, when a group of people are physically tired, they're more likely to open up and bond with each other because mental and physical barriers have been broken
- emotional stimulation - women need their emotions involved with things...so something like a escape room is perfect


and just like you said, once you are done with the physical activity, THEN, you do something light as the icing on the cake

so I'm going to take her to a mall, buy some drinks and talk, this allows for more bonding and laughing from the previous activity




but at the same time, I wouldn't recommend doing all of this for a girl that hasn't giving you any heavy choosing signals

if it is just some chick you have randomly met, I think doing shyt like this is way too much