Hardest Since MC Ren
Kizz My Black Azz
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Go back to st0rmfr0nt...u don't belong here
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@Flywin Lannister,on which planet a c00n like you is considered Pro-Black???
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Flywin Lannister
Superstar
I 100% agree with you and appreciate your postThere are black barbie dolls—that’s all my mom bought for me growing up, so yes my name has nothing to do with some preoccupation with white dolls or white women. But if you want to go in on me because of my name, that’s on you. It still won’t negate the many posts that the op posted.
And I understand the basis of the position you just posted. And I agree with it. But what I don’t agree with is how you can talk about pawging in peace, in numerous posts(the op posted them), but then focus on what bw are doing and even be mad at it. If your pawging in peace, then focus on your pawgs, and not on bw.
Oan, a lot of WW have done things(in actions more so than words) that support how they feel about the average bm, so even though they dont say nikkas ain’t shyt, what they did, when they saw you on the street and crossed it just to get away from you, used y’all for dikk only to go on and marry wm, called the police on y’all, and so on, and yet.... yet, a lot of y’all don’t hold any of this against em. But will go in on bw, based on the vocal minority of bw that have made comments about bm being shyt. What I don’t understand is how you don’t take issue with the numerous white women that are racist as fukk(and are therefore doing or supporting the damaging things that are done to y’all by their fathers, husbands, brothers, or white peers) just because they will fukk you, and sometimes marry you.
I actually don’t care when bm date/marry ww, or when bw date/marry wm. It’s only when they feel the need to shyt on bw or bm because they’re with tom or Becky, or when they aren’t applying the same critical standards that they apply to their own, that I feel.
Many white women have done shyt that's straight up racist: cross the street when we just want to get to our destination. Cheat on a white guy with a black guy.. white guy finds out and scream rape. Black men have without question died because of white women who WANTED black men. A lot of white women go through their 'black men' phase. You know like how white chicks have the 'experimental' phase in college and say shyt like 'I had a girlfriend in college' 'I once kissed a girl, ok well a little more than kissed..'. They will think it's cool to flirt with 'danger' because tv teaches them 'black men are dangerous'.
And there are black woman who are straight up queens and any black man lucky enough to date a black woman like that, his life will get WAY better even if he's already doing good.
So yeah: there are horrific white women and there are great black women, no discussion.
My issue is with black women who treat black men (I'm one of them) like we ain't shyt, and like we are all the same and are all fukked up. And they are all over social media literally screaming 'nikkas ain't shyt!'. As a matter of fact: when you Google #nikkasaintshyt there are 141.5K posts with that hashtag on IG. Now, a lot of white girls nowadays like using the n-word but let's say half of these are from black women who think we ain't shyt.
And these SAME women... LOOOOOOVE when Serena gets married to a white guy. WTF?
I think all men have the right to date whoever they want regardless race and that personalities of people can be such a turn on or turn off that you can't just say 'hey, if you're unhappy about black women, and you want to pawg.. then pawg but don't discuss black women'. But.. I might meet the woman of my dreams and she could be a black woman easily.. so I'm talking about behaviors of a certain subgroup of a group, I'm not saying 'I'd NEVER date a black woman'. Ok then I should just be quiet.
And just for clarity I DO take issues with white women who are racist af (we had a whole line of them lately: the Starbucks chick, the woman who called the cops on the girl leaving her Airnbnb, the white chick who called the cops because a black girl was sleeping near her dorm, the BBQ in Oakland). These women are horrific. I don't place white women on some pedestal.
Flywin Lannister
Superstar
I am black you retard. Just stop @'ing me breh.
You go back to defending white women who use the n-word like yesterday.
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Ok and I get that. I posted my opinions on that shyt, in another thread about Megan Merkle. I think it’s pathetic when BW claim to be pro-black, or scream black lives matter, or are vocal on black things, but only fukk white dudes. Or when bw were upset with Donald Glover but cheered on Serena. I thought it was stupid and very telling but being that I don’t care about Donald or Serena, or insecure bw and bm that put whites on pedestals, it had no bearing on my life. I’m not on social media, so I can’t comment on what’s being said on there. All I can say is that you can’t let other people have that type of impact on you, or partake in that level of dysfunctionality too. If you like white girls, then date them, just don’t let the vocal bunch of bw on social media influence your feelings on bw.
A lot of bm and bw are hurt.
What self respecting black man would have a white man in his avi...?
Hoe ass nikka posts be too long any damn way. This a forum, not your personal blog fukk nikka and negged
Hoe ass nikka posts be too long any damn way. This a forum, not your personal blog fukk nikka and negged
Flywin Lannister
Superstar
Great post, pure facts only^
We can't deny the impact of social media. I don't get black women walking up to me saying 'hi, nikkas ain't shyt!'. I wasn't even aware of this phenomena. I had seen some things about how some black women behaved around white men especially that gave me the 'wow she really needs approval' vibe but in the last years - because of social media - it's all over the place (meaning bw spouting their hate for bm). YouTube plays a role in that too.
@HopeKillCure just said that those black women saying this are the really loud minority, this is not the average bw.
It's just that when you see videos pop-up, comments, posts, tweets all around 'black men are worth nothing' and 'nikkas ain't shyt' black men start thinking 'ok how many black women think this, what % of black women think this?'. I think that's a natural reaction: you see it a lot.. so many people think it right?
It's of course not necessarily like that.
I think you're right, a lof of bw are hurt (and they lash out, especially the 'ok so Donald Glover couldn't date 1 of us!?' narrative shows you that and it has merit not re: Glover, but black women have it really tough in a white-dominated society where 'white woman' is the poster child for 'beautiful and desirable')
BM are hurt too, they see black women on one side blasting them and then wanting approval of white men. It's confusing of course.
I'm curious though: you don't have any social media. I was on a holiday the other day and the screen on my iPhone died and that was a blessing, that was 1 laid back week. My question: did you consciously turn off all social media, did you never jump on it?
Flywin Lannister
Superstar
Fukk you too LuckWhat self respecting black man would have a white man in his avi...?
Hoe ass nikka posts be too long any damn way. This a forum, not your personal blog fukk nikka and negged
Ya' Cousin Cleon
OG COUCH CORNER HUSTLA
Why do you lame nikkas compare ya'll selves to Donald Glover tho?
Ya'll in two different leagues. He's a public figure. You some nikka who gets to live it up in Sweden and smut cac bytches.
Please believe me bruh, nobody , I mean, nobody is caring about the fact you fukk white bytches.
The problem with so called pro-black cats like ya'll is, on top of being half-stepping, ya'll put tooooooo much stock in what other people think about who you're sleeping with.
And women been saying "nikkas ain't shyt" for fukking decades at this point, and yet, black women, are more likely to end up with a black man than anybody else.
Goddamn some of ya'll asses all need threapy or some shyt. Our community in shambles, yet ya'll up here
at black women going in on one celebirty fukking white bytches, because you think they gonna turn that ire on you when they don't know you from Adam.
Flywin Lannister
Superstar
Would never compare myself to Donald Glover. He's just a talking point to point out obviously hypocrites.Why do you lame nikkas compare ya'll selves to Donald Glover tho?
Ya'll in two different leagues. He's a public figure. You some nikka who gets to live it up in Sweden and smut cac bytches.
Please believe me bruh, nobody , I mean, nobody is caring about the fact you fukk white bytches.
The problem with so called pro-black cats like ya'll is, on top of being half-stepping, ya'll put tooooooo much stock in what other people think about who you're sleeping with.
And women been saying "nikkas ain't shyt" for fukking decades at this point, and yet, black women, are more likely to end up with a black man than anybody else.
Goddamn some of ya'll asses all need threapy or some shyt. Our community in shambles, yet ya'll up here
I don't give a fukk what people think about who I sleep with, but cook homie cook lol
You lost me at the end pal, but if we need therapy you need an English tutor
Have a nice day
Ya' Cousin Cleon
OG COUCH CORNER HUSTLA
Would never compare myself to Donald Glover. He's just a talking point to point out obviously hypocrites.
I don't give a fukk what people think about who I sleep with, but cook homie cook lol
You lost me at the end pal, but if we need therapy you need an English tutor
Have a nice day
If you didn't give a fukk, you wouldn't still be here trying to justify your c00ning ass, ways 9 pages and counting
You can't even be honest with yourself. Sad.
Hardest Since MC Ren
Kizz My Black Azz
Mods taking too long
If this racist cac pretending to be black isn't bushed,banned or both by the time I get home I'll post more receipts
And if you are reading this and haven't negged this piece of shyt YOU AIN'T BLACK
If this racist cac pretending to be black isn't bushed,banned or both by the time I get home I'll post more receipts
And if you are reading this and haven't negged this piece of shyt YOU AIN'T BLACK
Yeah, I think BM and BW are both hurt, for the reasons you said. And a lot of us treat other as the enemy. It's sad to me. I grew up around whites, my whole life, so I know how they are, and I can see from both sides(BM and BW) why they still seek validation from whites, and why we can be so hard on each other and get so hurt by each other too.
But to answer your question: I'm 30. I grew up in a time were social media wasn't a big thing. Matter of fact, facebook was just gaining traction when I was a freshman in college. By the time it took off, like really took off, I was just about to graduate and was working, and didn't really have the time to spend on it. I was only on facebook at that point. I eventually got off of it, when I lost a few loved ones, and was grieving TBH, it was hard to be in a dark place and then see other people shining. If that makes sense. lol. I never got back on it, because by the time my life did get to a "new normal", I was older, and way too busy. And now? Well, I think it's really strange. I see people out eating, out with their family, always on their phones, always taking selfies and pics, and it's honestly disturbing, when your on the outside seeing how people can't even carry out normal day to day functions without taking a selfie. I also, have sisters that are on facebook, and all these other social media sites and they tell me all about family members posting attention getting sick posts about suicide attempts, and men cheating, and all kind of drama, just to get attention and posts. It just too much to me.
Even the online dating. None of these things, seem organic to me. People post the things and the images they want people to see and hide what's really going on, or put filters and photoshop everything. No one's having real connections, or experiences(because how can you, if your on your phone the whole time your out? lol). I feel like so many things have changed for the worse, because of social media. That's why so many young people are struggling with friendships, relationships, even jobs. But I digress--overall I'm just not with it.
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Flywin Lannister
Superstar
I only really noticed this when my phone stopped working like - damn... people are really on their phone ALL DAY. Was at this super nice park and there were these 3 girls who had met up to chill there and they sat down on the grass... backs turned to each other.. all on their phone. OK then what's the point of meeting up.
I get that people want to share, but as with always, people take it to the max. Like you said: posting their drama for the entire world to see - some things you handle privately and only discuss with those in your circle.
Your last paragraph: that should be a post that's stickied.
People are taking pictures to impress people that don't actually really care about them, only to get likes because the neurons of 'acceptance' go off in their brains with each like but if there are not enough likes... depression sets in.
This is why it's so awesome to meet someone who is actually ORIGINAL and isn't living for the gram but living to live life and share it with cool people. People get so much validation and confirmation out of social media that they'd gladly be someone they're not if being that persona is what's popping. So at that point: who is actually real on here..?
I think The Coli (even though there is friction here too) is realer though and in general people keep it realer. They may be wrong or right, but they do believe what they are posting.
I remember times when you went to a concert, you saw a concert. Now you see a sea of phones and an artist. Change is good but I think social media will have a long-lasting negative effect on many generations to come. It's not like 'TV'. It completely kills interaction. This afternoon I was getting into my building and some 16-year old was waiting to go in so I opened the door and let him in. Normal people say 'Thank you'. He said nothing. I said
'Oh of course he's a kid, he can't speak if there's no keyboard involved'
Sign of the times, I feel you though: people are disconnected and it'll only get worse. So when you meet those few awesome people, you gotta cherish the real ones now even more.
