For my young brehs thinking about kids, this is how much child care cost for us

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Get married before having kids and move close to one of your parents...problem solved
That but i always stress DON'T DATE BROKE CHICKS.

If a woman is stuggling to get by and you fukk around and put a baby in her...You're just begging for it.
 

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You guys who want to pawn your kids off on your family members are grimey as fukk

But that's what generational suffering is all about.
:stopitslime:
The trend keeps rolling from generation to generation because it's taught and reinforced that "This is the way".
I see all my other family members doing it...and I'm the first to stop that bs trend.
I got family in their 30s and 40s still relying on their parents for everything. And I mean EVERYTHING!
Phonebills, food, roof over their heads, cars and gas money, clothes...it's pathetically ridiculous.
How the hell you a grown ass man/woman and still asking for handouts??
:beli:
Don't that shyt get embarrasing when they have company over to their parents house and gotta ask for money to go out and eat or put gas in ya car?
How you livin? What kinda friends do they have that find that bullshyt acceptable?
:patrice:

Couldn't EVER be me.
I left everyone behind to make it on my own...and never asked a soul to "babysit" or watch my son.
If I can't handle it myself...it doesn't need to happen.
Period.

In my eyes....the moment you HAVE to rely on someone else to support you...is the moment you're no longer an adult.
:martin:

When my parents and aunties die...there's gonna be a large group of grown ass children and relatives of mine that will be sleeping on a curb or in a shelter.
:ufdup::smugdraper:
 

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why ya'll take glee in someone's suffering and misfortunes i'll never understand.

But that's what generational suffering is all about.
:stopitslime:
The trend keeps rolling from generation to generation because it's taught and reinforced that "This is the way".
I see all my other family members doing it...and I'm the first to stop that bs trend.
I got family in their 30s and 40s still relying on their parents for everything. And I mean EVERYTHING!
Phonebills, food, roof over their heads, cars and gas money, clothes...it's pathetically ridiculous.
How the hell you a grown ass man/woman and still asking for handouts??
:beli:
Don't that shyt get embarrasing when they have company over to their parents house and gotta ask for money to go out and eat or put gas in ya car?
How you livin? What kinda friends do they have that find that bullshyt acceptable?
:patrice:

Couldn't EVER be me.
I left everyone behind to make it on my own...and never asked a soul to "babysit" or watch my son.
If I can't handle it myself...it doesn't need to happen.
Period.

In my eyes....the moment you HAVE to rely on someone else to support you...is the moment you're no longer an adult.
:martin:

When my parents and aunties die...there's gonna be a large group of grown ass children and relatives of mine that will be sleeping on a curb or in a shelter.
:ufdup::smugdraper:
 

Behind-the-wheel

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so that means it's ok to for them to suffer or be taken advantage of

They don't have to suffer or be taken advantage of.
But it ain't my responsibility to lead them to the point of being competent human beings...
:sas2:
I'm just saying that their parents have failed them by creating a dependency.

NOTE: I always enjoy conversing with you. :myman:
 
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