UserNameless
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Very true . That has gone overlooked in here but again , a truthful statement .
For my young brehs thinking about kids, this is how much child care cost for us
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Very true . That has gone overlooked in here but again , a truthful statement .
Wait Did you say that you lived 10 mins from that Minnieland that I posted,????the one near spriggs rd? If so, we might be neighbors lol...
Controversy
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I live in Montclair so Spriggs Rd is close
GoAggieGo.
getting blitzed.
That monthly daycare bill came out my account today 
Wifey wants a lil getaway this weekend to Charleston and I hit her with the
Can’t be hitting me with that right as I get that text notifying me of the payment.
Still gone take her though
Wifey wants a lil getaway this weekend to Charleston and I hit her with the
Can’t be hitting me with that right as I get that text notifying me of the payment.
Still gone take her though
Atsym Sknyfs
Superstar
He’s right
Don’t do what I did
My oldest is 8
My youngest is 4
I got two more on the way
I’m staring down the barrel of potentially paying 1600 a month for day care. That’s 19600 a year
Wife can’t stay home from work. She’s a high earner
My four year old is in private school. Tuition is cheaper than daycare
Hopefully she test well enough to go to the school my 8 yr old is enrolled in. It’s free
Im seriously considering getting a nanny next year.
I had to get that off my chest
Welcome to the 4 child club
This is why I don't want any kids. I'm selfish and the little fukkers cost too damn much.
Behind-the-wheel
Living dead
That daycare racket is for suckas and single moms...
My wife and I did it the traditional way and banked tens of thousands.
She stayed home and raised our kid, while I worked and got promotions, certifications and networked.
Then when our kid was school age we were able to not only send him to private school, but he entered at an emotionally well adjusted and financially privileged position with no damage to his spirit, body or mind. The kid is just an amazingly good and smart human...my greatest achievement in life!
Then my wife went back to work and we were able to start our personal businesses together now that our son was flying on his own.
He's on track to be a future leader currently and has our backing in everything he does...while we ensure the legacy of our family (and eventually his) with our personal businesses.
We don't consider ourselves rich...but there ain't anything we want (or need) that we don't have...and that's all because of living according to the plan and good financial planning.
You gotta plan these things out right if you want to be successful at them...
On the other hand, my sister did things the "Worlds way" and had kids outta wedlock without a good job and a piece of shyt boyfriend and struggled from the jump. Then decided marrying the guy and having another kid was the way to go. Daycare expenses eating them alive and homeboy won't work right so she has two jobs and two neglected kids and a husband that's up in every other females face with 3 other baby mommas in the tri-state area near them (who I have a good feeling he's still fukkin).
But I'm just the black sheep of the family...Whatever.
I'll be that black sheep in a happy field of green.
My wife and I did it the traditional way and banked tens of thousands.
She stayed home and raised our kid, while I worked and got promotions, certifications and networked.
Then when our kid was school age we were able to not only send him to private school, but he entered at an emotionally well adjusted and financially privileged position with no damage to his spirit, body or mind. The kid is just an amazingly good and smart human...my greatest achievement in life!
Then my wife went back to work and we were able to start our personal businesses together now that our son was flying on his own.
He's on track to be a future leader currently and has our backing in everything he does...while we ensure the legacy of our family (and eventually his) with our personal businesses.
We don't consider ourselves rich...but there ain't anything we want (or need) that we don't have...and that's all because of living according to the plan and good financial planning.
You gotta plan these things out right if you want to be successful at them...
On the other hand, my sister did things the "Worlds way" and had kids outta wedlock without a good job and a piece of shyt boyfriend and struggled from the jump. Then decided marrying the guy and having another kid was the way to go. Daycare expenses eating them alive and homeboy won't work right so she has two jobs and two neglected kids and a husband that's up in every other females face with 3 other baby mommas in the tri-state area near them (who I have a good feeling he's still fukkin).
But I'm just the black sheep of the family...Whatever.
I'll be that black sheep in a happy field of green.
Behind-the-wheel
Living dead
Hell yeah!
The profit margin is unfukkinbelieveable!!!
The way to get rich in this "lowest common denominator" based country is to find what lazy people don't want to do...and charge em out the ass for it.
No fukks given.
They're too lazy and dumb to do it themselves...theyre gonna pay for it.
ultraflexed
Superstar
Get married before having kids and move close to one of your parents...problem solved
Dwayne_Taylor
Superstar
Ive seen much worse ...dude should be grateful
Dwayne_Taylor
Superstar
Part of the problem is that on 2019...auntie isn't retired anymore