I prefer adulthood. I make my own money, answer to myself, make my own decisions, get what I want, do what I want, am in the career that I want, pursuing the hobbies I want, accomplishing the things I’ve set out to accomplish and continuing to learn, improve and grow. I have more wisdom, more life experiences, and plenty to look forward to with a more realistic frame of mind.
It’s very freeing tbh, my only issue is that time often feels too short. I be feeling sorry for my son, who is in a much different boat. But I guess this is where things will be subjective, if you’re not living the life you want or thought you’d have, and aren’t doing that well economically then I can see why it would feel like an overrated experience. I can’t imagine feeling that way, it sounds incredibly depressing.
Stress does suck, but I’ve found that everything is fleeting and temporary, you’ll have periods of times where you always feel stressed, and other times where things feel like they’re going right and working out. You’ll have happy times, hardships, accomplishments, failures etc. that’s apart of life, and I think that’s what builds character and helps us grow.