For the brehs in relationships, do yall give out monthly "girlfriend allowance"?
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Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
This is why when these goofy nikkas bih cheat
Their only thought is murder SMH
Their only thought is murder SMH
Ezekiel 25:17
Veteran
Wait y’all really don’t give y’all gfs/wives money.
Every serious bf I’ve had has given me money for hair/nails/clothes/daily coffees. My husband and my ex both paid my rent in addition to that. Do y’all even like y’all gfs/wives?Y’all really don’t give them anything?
Some guys get used Ashley. Are you really this dense?
Who Not How
Superstar
My current girl is probably the one I marry so I am investing in her. She invests in me in ways as well. I'm not doing an allowance thing tho. That sounds sketchy.
You shouldn't be splurging on a temporary chick tho. I don't care if she is my GF, if I know I ain't marrying her I do the bare minimum to keep her. Dudes get mad when they spend a bunch of money on a chick that will be gone by next year.
You shouldn't be splurging on a temporary chick tho. I don't care if she is my GF, if I know I ain't marrying her I do the bare minimum to keep her. Dudes get mad when they spend a bunch of money on a chick that will be gone by next year.
Let’s just break this all the way down.
Last time I checked, we live in a country/world dominated by Europeans. This idealistic scenario of every man being able to be the sole bread in a marriage applies to a small minority. Unless you managed to be financially free from the matrix, we’re all under a European system. There’s no shielding or running away from white supremacy.
Most couples are barley surviving on a dual income. Very few people have the luxury to depend on their husband to provide complete financial security.
This idea of an “allowance” is nonsense. If you both have a joint account or split the bills, there’s no need to treat your wife like a Hooker/sugar baby.
The funny thing is, although I don’t like discussing my finances, my lady and I could live off my passive income alone until we retire.
But I don’t date bum bytches who expect handouts. If I even said “here, take 300 bucks and treat yourself”, she’d spit in my face and feel insulted. She likes getting her own money. She’s smart enough not to be solely dependant on any man.
That’s how these single mothers end up destitute and bitter, because their trash baby dad absconds and if they do somehow get him on child support, it’s merely a pittance.
That being said, I have no issues buying gifts, treating my woman, going on vacations. That’s all on me. But an allowance like she’s a prostitute?
So you think a joint account is better than allowance
? You talk about destitute baby mothers. Wait til a woman cleans out the life savings in "yalls account". That takes alot more trust than an allowance to me unless yall have no savings.My righteous attachment has her own account. I used to feel the same way as yall before I had knowledge of self. I am definitely still a slave out here on the plantation so to speak. But I take on the harsh realities of that rather than send my woman out there. If your woman has to work for yall to survive(not you). Im not going to condemn anyone. Maybe both of yall even work so you can both get out of this system faster. Im only telling you of the risk you take. Sending your woman,and possibly future mother of your children out into this world. Same with the use of social media. Her mind will not belong to you,it will belong to the many. Never send your old lady out here to be genetically modified if shes pure hearted.
Also having a woman stay at home can save you money. And she can make money as well,just shouldnt be going to work. But most of you dont view a woman as anything to preserve. Yall allow your woman out in the world to be damaged and weathered. But will go to great lengths to protect your sneaker collections from scuff marks. Goes to show where we place our values as black men in this country
give a grown adult who has a job a monthly allowance brehs
This,an investment is the best way to look at it. But most of us dont see money for what it is and worship it. When in reality its fake and should be used as monopoly money to help you beat the game.
If you dont value a woman and her womb as asset to help you advance in this life. I dont know what can be said. We all certainly know a woman and her womb can set you back. Or even send you straight to jail,dont collect 200$.
Righteous black men arent dealing with Baltic Aves
.But when you land on a valuable asset that can help you win the game. You get you a BoardWalk or a Park Place. And you put houses on it so to speak with no shame
Everywhere I turn, be it dating TV shows or social media posts about relationships, it seems like this shyt is a thing were a man is supposed to be giving his girl a "girlfriend allowance"
It's Simp Propaganda.
And women's willingness to support this shyt is why we see a rise in "red pill" men's spaces...not "radicalization" or whatever horseshyt Democrats got ya'll believing...they need to deal with their son's killing random ppl.
If men had common sense conversations with women about this, it wouldn't be a need for a manosphere.
DID THAT ONCE AND IT WAS A DISASTER.
I WAS YOUNG AND STUPID. I GAVE AN EX MY PAY CARD FROM WORK. I SET UP 50 BUCKS A WEEK TO GO TO THAT CARD FOR LUNCH. I GAVE IT TO HER FOR AN EMERGENCY. SHE WENT TO GIVE IT BACK AND I TOLD HER TO HOLD ON TO IT. I COMPLETELY FORGOT ABOUT IT.
FAST FORWARD 6 MONTHS AND I'M WORKING SOMEWHERE ELSE. ABOUT A MONTH IN ON THE NEW JOB AND THIS BISH HAD THE NERVE TO CONFRONT ME ABOUT CUTTING HER OFF. I'M CONFUSED AS shyt. SHE MAD BECAUSE NO NEW MONEY HAS BEEN LOADING TO THE CARD. I BUST OUT LAUGHING AND EXPLAINED THAT THE CARD WAS A PAY CARD FROM THAT EMPLOYER SO IT WOULDN'T CARRY OVER TO A NEW JOB. SHE WAS STILL MAD. I BROKE UP WITH HER GOOFY ASS THAT WEEKEND.
I WAS YOUNG AND STUPID. I GAVE AN EX MY PAY CARD FROM WORK. I SET UP 50 BUCKS A WEEK TO GO TO THAT CARD FOR LUNCH. I GAVE IT TO HER FOR AN EMERGENCY. SHE WENT TO GIVE IT BACK AND I TOLD HER TO HOLD ON TO IT. I COMPLETELY FORGOT ABOUT IT.
FAST FORWARD 6 MONTHS AND I'M WORKING SOMEWHERE ELSE. ABOUT A MONTH IN ON THE NEW JOB AND THIS BISH HAD THE NERVE TO CONFRONT ME ABOUT CUTTING HER OFF. I'M CONFUSED AS shyt. SHE MAD BECAUSE NO NEW MONEY HAS BEEN LOADING TO THE CARD. I BUST OUT LAUGHING AND EXPLAINED THAT THE CARD WAS A PAY CARD FROM THAT EMPLOYER SO IT WOULDN'T CARRY OVER TO A NEW JOB. SHE WAS STILL MAD. I BROKE UP WITH HER GOOFY ASS THAT WEEKEND.
This,an investment is the best way to look at it. But most of us dont see money for what it is and worship it. When in reality its fake and should be used as monopoly money to help you beat the game.
If you dont value a woman and her womb as asset to help you advance in this life. I dont know what can be said. We all certainly know a woman and her womb can set you back. Or even send you straight to jail,dont collect 200$.
Righteous black men arent dealing with Baltic Aves
But when you land on a valuable asset that can help you win the game. You get you a BoardWalk or a Park Place. And you put houses on it so to speak with no shame
If you are going to be doing all that extra shyt, you should marry her and make it official.
Spending those kinds of resources on a woman who is not legally tied to is hustling backwards.
Tribal Outkast
Veteran
The wife yes. A girlfriend?? Ehhhh…Wait y’all really don’t give y’all gfs/wives money.
Every serious bf I’ve had has given me money for hair/nails/clothes/daily coffees. My husband and my ex both paid my rent in addition to that. Do y’all even like y’all gfs/wives?
dr. pill biden
All Star
all our money is ours
but we budget an allowance for my own play money so i don’t have to feel bad about spending on frivolous shyt for me
it’s not that complicated..unmarried people be in their imagination making stuff harder than it is in real life smh
but we budget an allowance for my own play money so i don’t have to feel bad about spending on frivolous shyt for me
it’s not that complicated..unmarried people be in their imagination making stuff harder than it is in real life smh
