For the dudes that actually consumed Red/Black pill content when and why did you stop?

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

I used to watch a lot of those videos of some "dating expert" telling off a woman and be living vicariously through all the rejection I faced.
Like

"Yea you tell her! She aint getting no man making 100k"

Meanwhile I'm alone and watching content of women being "put in their place" for enjoyment.

Sometimes it takes a hard look in the mirror to figure out what's up with life, what makes you unhappy and what you can actually do about it.

A lot of those guys have actual decent advice men should be listening to, but there's a reason the clips that go viral are of someone arguing statistical facts against a woman.

Most of the men consuming that content are not looking for solutions.

I stopped a while ago. It does no good being in an echo chamber of like-minded men constantly blaming the opposite gender for the shortcomings they face in life.

How about y'all? Have you stopped? If so, why or why not?

I know some of y'all never watched that stuff at all and were very aware of the bullshyt that's talked about amongst those worlds. Salute to y'all.

What most of these content pushers don't get is that what you attract is a reflection of who you are.

If you're attracting toxicity then you are also toxic.

No one wants to take accountability for their lives it's always someone else's fault. People love that. That's why so many hated Kevin Samuel's. He held people accountable.

You want a good mate become a good mate. Period.

But that's not sexy and won't generate views

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Lol you need youtubers to put you on game on how to talk to a bytch

Your father deserved a son worth a damn and ended up with you smfh he’s in my prayers

This isn't funny at all.

Unfortunately a lot of men AND women didn't have fathers growing up....I don't get what's the problem with learning from someone on youtube....they are as subject to be full of shyt as your father might be...you take everything with a grain of salt and use what resonates with you. Simple.

Learning NEVER ends. Even if you had a father do you think whatever he taught you I'd the end of that particular subject? That's all the knowledge on that subject? No.

You continue to live and learn.

I don't know where yall get the idea that learning stops in life. That's ridiculous

 

[RickyDiBiase]

This isn't funny at all.

Unfortunately a lot of men AND women didn't have fathers growing up....I don't get what's the problem with learning from someone on youtube....they are as subject to be full of shyt as your father might be...you take everything with a grain of salt and use what resonates with you. Simple.

Learning NEVER ends. Even if you had a father do you think whatever he taught you I'd the end of that particular subject? That's all the knowledge on that subject? No.

You continue to live and learn.

I don't know where yall get the idea that learning stops in life. That's ridiculous

We don’t give c00ns grace.

 

[Fill Collins]

A lot of that content is just dreadful, they're right about improving and focusing on yourself but are ppl who consume that all the time actually working on that?

The older males in your family should've gave you *some* of that "advice", you're supposed to fukk and KIM w/ hoodrats, instead nikkas are actually letting them get on their nerves

Red/blackpill shyt ain't gonna get you a whole girlfriend or a wife, even if you're overseas

Women are adults who can do whatever they want and NO ONE is entitled to give YOU anything, the few ppl I know who fw that shyt IRL are dusty, , and/or some kind of spectrum

 

[Fill Collins]

This isn't funny at all.

Unfortunately a lot of men AND women didn't have fathers growing up....I don't get what's the problem with learning from someone on youtube....they are as subject to be full of shyt as your father might be...you take everything with a grain of salt and use what resonates with you. Simple.

Learning NEVER ends. Even if you had a father do you think whatever he taught you I'd the end of that particular subject? That's all the knowledge on that subject? No.

You continue to live and learn.

I don't know where yall get the idea that learning stops in life. That's ridiculous

It's worthy of ridicule when you have brehs pushing 40 and listening to other adults like that tbh with you

I don't want to be forty and spend hours watching another man denigrate women or tell me I should be paranoid of other men because it's alpha

If you wanna get somewhere in life, you got to turn the other head off sometimes; these redpill nikkas just wanna fukk but feel entitled to women who ain't the female equivalent of them

 

[egsteel]

I stopped when Kevin Samuels died. These other dudes aren't balanced enough to hold my attention.

 

[Dont@Me]

When JustPearlyThings played many Black manosphere people like fools I realized it was a joke. And when I realized many of these "gurus" were grifters and far right adjacent types.

I never really bought into as anything other than entertainment anyways. Just something to listen to when I clean my apartment or when I'm at work.

But real talk...I am sooooo done with the manosphere.

I've been seein you post some very relatable shyt consistently, especially regarding race. You're a real one

 

[UpNext]

lol the goal is just to fukk them and not highlight where they might be going wrong? OK fair play. If you want to fukk stupid hos with no substance for the rest of your life then I suppose this makes sense.

A lot of these dudes tell on themselves and are very clearly posturing. It's crazy.

 

[Shadow King]

Maybe you don't care but it was entertaining to a lot of people and a lot of women had never been told it straight like that before becuase they get pandered to so much in everyday life.

As for a solution... there is no solution. Its a way of thinking and a generational issue with modern women. Men having higher standards for themselves may help to correct the dating market and balance things out for future generations.

I do hear you on some points though.

Unfortunately it won't.

 

[Traveler]

Most of it is dumb. The basics of it is good in premise. However, they go so far past normalcy its crazy. Take Fresh and Fit for example. They showcase women mainly from Miami that are into a very niche lifestyle and they try to portray it as the norm. 99.9999% of women are no where near what these miami girls they are interviewing are into. All of these content creators recuit specific type guests for their show to portray their narrative. Not to mention they are overtly racists towards black women in general. I think I saw it on here where they had some only fans woman that gained 1200 subscriptions overnight while being berated on fresh and fit. That's the selling point that they use to bring on some of these women. Fresh and Fit know it and the onlyfans girls knew it. Its a huge grift. They know how to suck money from their audience.

My personal views are all about family and building strong families. That's the path to success and making sure your bloodline is successful. Being a man of good character, morales and values will attract women who are similar and want the same things. Stop worrying about what women are doing. Set your own standards and goals and find a woman who thinks the same way. Why you would want a woman who thinks different than you about family and rasing kids is crazy to me. personally I think men should lead their families. That is what works for me. However, I have to acknowledge their are other paths to success as far as how families are constructed. But it still comes back to having a strong family background.

All this BS about building your money and status and screwing as many women as you possibly can is really just loser talk from dudes got rejected constantly. Its the only way they can get women is with their money and precieved status.

Kevin was a bit different because he was showing women how what they wanted was not matching with what they were offering and he was absolutely right. People have b*stardized his content, which is really sad. Kevin was all about marriages, especially black marriages. That's something that was lost in his message.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

Yeah, he'd only be like the 2 millionth person to come to the conclusion that modern women were delusional. Nothing groundbreaking about that shyt.

It wasn't solution oriented at all. Not for men or women. Nobody was getting laid or married from his generic ass "get more money! Pull your pants up! Get a haircut! " type advice. Dudes were seeking out his content because they found it cathartic to see a woman being shytted on. Thats hella pathetic to me, like what is the goal here?? Do you want women & harmonious relationships with them or do you want to make them feel bad for being fat/single but still being attracted to men most women find attractive? Meanwhile the same guys who be 300 pound shut ins lust over big booty ig models & pornstars.

I don't care about seeing them get told off for being delusional, that nikka wasn't changing anybody's mind. Just arguing with women about her preferences, which will never be practical or cool

Entertainment at best, but he did offer tangible solutions tho. Bro had a WHOLE private Facebook matchmaking group, called 'The Mix'. The sole purpose was to get single marriage minded black folks together, and it worked for the most part. We gotta atleast give him that

 

[Fillerguy]

I realized most of it was filled with anti black followers, or the speakers were anti black. Their messages were anti black too. It was a very easy decision to makes.

Also, took a while for me to realize this, but being miserable isn't really fun... once you actually start enjoying life. Ppl who've managed to make it out a low point in life know what I'm talking about. Wallowing in misery with others weirdly feels good.

 

[JamesJabdi]

The whole red pill and black pill content is gay....they want you to ultimately join MGTOW which stands for Men Going Their Own Way....and i was like going where? to the other side?

 

[⠀X ⠀]

A while back. I just have better things to fill my mind with. I’m fully aware of how women are.

I’ll only listen to Rom Wills and Jason Black’s The Business podcast, when I’m riding my bike or Working or something. They’re more focused on becoming the man you want to be, as opposed to whining about women all day.

 

[The Fade]

Years ago, before Kevin Samuels. I heard about mgtow and thought it sounded cool at first but all they did was complain about women when I thought it was gonna teach men to focus and get into Philosophy. And then those losers spread into Red pill and I was out before the racism got big.

I got in when it was about being confident, looking good, calling yourself out,
Passing shyt-tests and when it was more seduction oriented—the spinning plates and having rosters era. Back when the subreddit was super small