For the Fellas currently in a relationship

[marcuz]

90% of this is truth.gov

you let her know early on. get rid of the background dudes. dont tell me "we just friends" i aint buying it. get rid of ALL background buddies. dont have any more back n forths with past flings, exs, etc. if he hits you up on FB. do not friend him. if you were friends. unfriend him. if he keeps asking why you wont accept his friend invite. dont respond to that either. EVENTUALLY he'll get the hint. it takes some dudes longer then others. i tell him, hey dude will tell you how he messed up when yall use to date/be together, etc. but now he sees the error in his ways. he may not even mention hooking back up again. he just throws that out there to see if he can catch a fish. sure there are the 1 out of a zillion dudes that actually mean that but dont want a relationship with your chick. but we're not talking about those one off scenarios. we're talking usual situations.

once old girl clears her old dudes out. then yall start a relationship. if you find out she's still going back n forth. you end it.

if yall married, exchange passwords to all digital websites, phone voice mails etc. neither party should ever have anything to hide. and occassionally check up on each other. not to satisfy your own crazy self. but to keep them on their toes. cause the way the net is nowadays its way to easy to have a casual convo with your EX. "hey just seeing how you were doing?"

dont worry how i'm doing. dont worry how my current wife is doing. if you're that worried. pray for us and keep it moving.

but at the end of the day, if yall are married. its between your chick and God what she decides to do. and let her know that from the jump. you wont go running around trying to find out. you are holding her accountable and she does the same for you. thats why yall have each others user names/ passwords etc. beyond that. thats all that needs to be done. if you have a stealth chick for a wife. and she gotta it going like that behind the scenes. it is what it is. you share that girl and you dont even know it. so who cares. again thats between her and jesus. let her live with that understanding.

this possessive advice you're giving is part of the reason why so many women rebel and end up cheating. if you don't trust the bytch, don't get serious with the bytch. simple as that

 

[Mr. Somebody]

first off, good luck finding an adult virgin in this day and age. second, go ahead and wife a girl with who you consider fresh meat. chick will eventually want to explore her sexuality with other men.

I disagree with this post im sorry friend. I just laid it out for you. I gave you the Blueprint like KRS-One. There are only 2 ways to do this. One of them, is the best way, the other is making good with a bad situation. Its up to you to choose which path you will go down. Ultimately, you cant help who makes you feel all inside so please dont close the door on the virgins out of some insecurity that hasnt even happened. Do not think that just because the world is polluted with filth that you have to conform to wife a promisuous woman just to find happiness or that anything you touch that is pure will turn into trash. Worrying about things that havnt happened, is a sign of insanity and thats so demonic, friend.

 

[Binary]

I disagree with this post im sorry friend. I just laid it out for you. I gave you the Blueprint like KRS-One. There are only 2 ways to do this. One of them, is the best way, the other is making good with a bad situation. Its up to you to choose which path you will go down. Ultimately, you cant help who makes you feel all inside so please dont close the door on the virgins out of some insecurity that hasnt even happened. Worrying about things that havnt happened, is a sign of insanity and thats so demonic, friend.

Do you have a girlfriend or have you had one?

 

[xd21]

do you know for a fact that your gf stop talking to all the dudes she was sleeping with before the 2 of you got together or do you think they still communicate or facebook/text/ etc

Do you even care as long as they are fooling around with each other

She stopped talking to any nikka once we got together. I don't allow that flirting shyt, she'd get thrown to the bushes fast.

 

[marcuz]

I disagree with this post im sorry friend. I just laid it out for you. I gave you the Blueprint like KRS-One. There are only 2 ways to do this. One of them, is the best way, the other is making good with a bad situation. Its up to you to choose which path you will go down. Ultimately, you cant help who makes you feel all inside so please dont close the door on the virgins out of some insecurity that hasnt even happened. Worrying about things that havnt happened, is a sign of insanity and thats so demonic, friend.

i haven't seen a grown virgin, i doubt they exist @

but i have seen older men try to strong arm 18-21 yr olds while they were fresh. only for the girls to end up exploring what they missed out on. clubs, partying, drugs, sex with various men; all while their possessive man at home, checking her dummy accounts for any clues to her infidelity

 

[marcuz]

Do you have a girlfriend or have you had one?

:notsure: some how i doubt it

 

[Mr. Somebody]

i haven't seen a grown virgin, i doubt they exist @

but i have seen older men try to strong arm 18-21 yr olds while they were fresh. only for the girls to end up exploring what they missed out on. clubs, partying, drugs, sex with various men; all while their possessive man at home, checking her dummy accounts for any clues to her infidelity

Well perhaps its wise to stay in your age range so you can relate to your significant other culturally. The culture of the youth and the culture of an older man are 2 different things. If you can only relate to the beauty of your significant other then i dont know, maybe shes not the one for you, friend.

Still, i have seen these relationships work. Its a lot more difficult to make it work in the city where the influence of demons is so prevalent in destroying things that God puts a stamp on.

 

[Binary]

:notsure: some how i doubt it

Yeah, he sounds like he has no female experience at all and copping out by "taking the righteous path"

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Do you have a girlfriend or have you had one?

I am one flesh with my woman.

We're here

Thinking about her you know, it just makes me want to frolic somewhere on some tra la la type stuff you know, friend?

 

[newworldafro]

North Carolina Excellence.............

Just realized I posted this in the wrong thread...:snoop...was supposed to be for the "Everything 70s Thread"

 

[BellaVenus]

Lame.

Insecurity in both men & women are bound to lead to all kinds of issues in the relationship.
Trust is everything!

If you can't trust them, leave them.

& if you can't trust anybody then be prepared to have a lonely life with your 10 cats

 

[marcuz]

Lame.

Insecurity in both men & women are bound to lead to all kinds of issues in the relationship.
Trust is everything!

If you can't trust them, leave them.

& if you can't trust anybody then be prepared to have a lonely life with your 10 cats

you don't have to leave them, just don't put yourself in a situation where you've left yourself open for heart ache. hell, piss on the girl. spit in her mouth. do ass to mouth, have her suck ya toes.

i do some far out shyt to where if i get cheated on, i'm lookin at the next nikka like

edit: i just realized how demonic i sound

 

[TrapHouse Rock]

you don't have to leave them, just don't put yourself in a situation where you've left yourself open for heart ache. hell, piss on the girl. spit in her mouth. do ass to mouth, have her suck ya toes.

i do some far out shyt to where if i get cheated on, i'm lookin at the next nikka like

edit: i just realized how demonic i sound

 

[serial]

I have female friends so if she still talks to male friends I could care less. If a woman wants to slob another nigra down she gonna do it aint no way around it.

Why worry about something you have no control over.

 

[marcuz]

I have female friends so if she still talks to male friends I could care less. If a woman wants to slob another nigra down she gonna do it aint no way around it.

Why worry about something you have no control over.

these dudes thinkin mexican pimpin is the solution