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Neither have I. This thread is hilarious but some of yall trying to make it about something it aint lmao. I ain't thinking about random cats, but when you run across a black men who either prefers white women or predominately or exclusively date them, its like, "this nikka can't handle a black woman sexually"....

Rather, its over time you notice certain traits outwardly about brothers who prefer white women. There are oft-repeated rumors about white women that I think most adult men heard somewhere along the way. Then when you actually jump in one, you recognize these rumors are crazy exaggerated...

White women are easier to sexually dominate than black women, so it brings the question that if dudes who parrot much of the mantras on white women, what does that say about them? With most white women, provided you are sexually skilled as a man, you don't even have to put major stroke on em, sometimes don't have to give them full dikk, and for sure if you give them full dikk and full, complete sex, they are quick to tap out because they can't handle it...

You have brothers out here saluting conquests of white women, but the head ain't as dope as a sister who gives head, the p*ssy is not as deep/closer to the g spot? I dont know g, but alota dudes, even here in the past, who complain about sex with sisters, can't tap sisters out...

@Booksnrain give me a woman's thought on this. Have you dated or slept with white dudes? What's your observation on the sect of black women, who predominately or exclusively date white men?

it's not about the sex breh, it's just about the culture and nuances of white and black america. For example my female cousin is like this, she's skinny and doesn't have the typical black woman frame of being thick and having a big ass. She's also into activities that usually have a lot of white people present, she likes built brothers but they usually don't pay attention to her and get with a white chick or a typical black woman. So she dates white, because that's where she can get in where she fits in.
 

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I for one appreciate the thread. The site is better when people share their personal experiences and view points.

I think that our rhythm and coordination plays a large part in our sexual prowess. Of course there are black people with two left feet so to speak but in general we are the most coordinated people on the planet. That's why we dominate physical activities and the way we dance is a pleasure to watch.

anyways dapped + repped
 
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:pachaha: At my mans @murksiderock posting the thread like

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Neither have I. This thread is hilarious but some of yall trying to make it about something it aint lmao. I ain't thinking about random cats, but when you run across a black men who either prefers white women or predominately or exclusively date them, its like, "this nikka can't handle a black woman sexually"....

Rather, its over time you notice certain traits outwardly about brothers who prefer white women. There are oft-repeated rumors about white women that I think most adult men heard somewhere along the way. Then when you actually jump in one, you recognize these rumors are crazy exaggerated...

White women are easier to sexually dominate than black women, so it brings the question that if dudes who parrot much of the mantras on white women, what does that say about them? With most white women, provided you are sexually skilled as a man, you don't even have to put major stroke on em, sometimes don't have to give them full dikk, and for sure if you give them full dikk and full, complete sex, they are quick to tap out because they can't handle it...

You have brothers out here saluting conquests of white women, but the head ain't as dope as a sister who gives head, the p*ssy is not as deep/closer to the g spot? I dont know g, but alota dudes, even here in the past, who complain about sex with sisters, can't tap sisters out...

@Booksnrain give me a woman's thought on this. Have you dated or slept with white dudes? What's your observation on the sect of black women, who predominately or exclusively date white men?
Yeah whites aren’t my thing.:yeshrug: Society fukks people over with them saturating the media looking like one thing. But then you interact with them and it’s :scust:
I’ve never dated or been sexually active with a white guy. I grew up in all black k-12 schools. I had mostly black teachers. Any white teachers I had were actually very good and wanted to empower their students.

So you grow up in all black schools, with great multicultural but primarily black teachers. Everybody investing in our little student minds, no racist interactions. So you are lulled into a false sense of security and start thinking about people as individuals.

Then I went to a PWI. That was my first real interaction with whites. And I don’t know how people do it. I’m not saying every white is evil because I know some truly good individuals around the world, but there is a collective cultural sickness in them that they aren’t even aware of and fighting facets of that just to have normal human interactions is NOPE.

Then on top of that they don’t look ANYTHING like they portray themselves in media. Ain’t no campuses full of Jason Mamoas. White dudes hairlines be playing hide and seek with them before they turn 21. Whites chicks look like soccer moms by the 2nd semester of their junior year. They smell, they don’t wash or clean up behind themselves, no lips, hips, ass, ectomorph bodies, oily nasty skin, acne, and permanent cold sores. All wrapped up in a micro aggressive, passive aggressive, racist, ignorant, arrogant stupid cut throat packages. So many of them just don’t know how to act normal when a black person is around. And these are the so-called educated ones. It’s cringe worthy to witness how out of touch these people are.

To each their own, but I just can’t do it. Especially because I work with them and the shyt I have to deal with in higher Ed...:usure: I’m good. Whites will be casually racist even as they trying to get with you. I feel like something has to be wrong with blacks if they can just let shyt like that roll off their backs. If you find one that doesn’t have those issues, and doesn’t look like some washed out, translucent, I can see scalp when you get out of the water, lipless creature from the blue lagoon when they take off their make up, then I wish you well. Even their skin feels weird to me. :scust:
 

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Yeah whites aren’t my thing.:yeshrug: Society fukks people over with them saturating the media looking like one thing. But then you interact with them and it’s :scust:
I’ve never dated or been sexually active with a white guy. I grew up in all black k-12 schools. I had mostly black teachers. Any white teachers I had were actually very good and wanted to empower their students.

So you grow up in all black schools, with great multicultural but primarily black teachers. Everybody investing in our little student minds, no racist interactions. So you are lulled into a false sense of security and start thinking about people as individuals.

Then I went to a PWI. That was my first real interaction with whites. And I don’t know how people do it. I’m not saying every white is evil because I know some truly good individuals around the world, but there is a collective cultural sickness in them that they aren’t even aware of and fighting facets of that just to have normal human interactions is NOPE.

Then on top of that they don’t look ANYTHING like they portray themselves in media. Ain’t no campuses full of Jason Mamoas. White dudes hairlines be playing hide and seek with them before they turn 21. Whites chicks look like soccer moms by the 2nd semester of their junior year. They smell, they don’t wash or clean up behind themselves, no lips, hips, ass, ectomorph bodies, oily nasty skin, acne, and permanent cold sores. All wrapped up in a micro aggressive, passive aggressive, racist, ignorant, arrogant stupid cut throat packages. So many of them just don’t know how to act normal when a black person is around. And these are the so-called educated ones. It’s cringe worthy to witness how out of touch these people are.

To each their own, but I just can’t do it. Especially because I work with them and the shyt I have to deal with in higher Ed...:usure: I’m good. Whites will be casually racist even as they trying to get with you. I feel like something has to be wrong with blacks if they can just let shyt like that roll off their backs. If you find one that doesn’t have those issues, and doesn’t look like some washed out, translucent, I can see scalp when you get out of the water, lipless creature from the blue lagoon when they take off their make up, then I wish you well. Even their skin feels weird to me. :scust:

:huhldup:Jesus....not that you are wrong but....OoOOooF :damn:.
 

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:huhldup:Jesus....not that you are wrong but....OoOOooF :damn:.
I’m tired of people pretending like white power=white superiority.

Unfortunately we got people who put them on a pedestal. I just don’t see it.
:yeshrug:
I see a few attractive whites sometimes. But the grand majority of them I couldn’t pick out in a crowd at best, and look like hags away from the media at worst.
They just got a great PR propaganda machine that makes it seem like they poppin. :snooze:
 

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I’m tired of people pretending like white power=white superiority.

Unfortunately we got people who put them on a pedestal. I just don’t see it.
:yeshrug:
I see a few attractive whites sometimes. But the grand majority of them I couldn’t pick out in a crowd at best, and look like hags away from the media at worst.
They just got a great PR propaganda machine that makes it seem like they poppin. :snooze:

I'm not going to front, I had that moment a few times in my life. My whole thought process was white people have it so good, that long silky hair, and gorgeous blue eyes...then the grim reality hit me throughout my dating years and so forth:

  • Casual to upright racism
  • Cynical and passive aggressive
  • sighs..."that smell"
  • Mismanagement of money or overaggressive with being cheap
  • Overrated in the bed (bad head, alright kisser, lukewarm reception)

Now this isn't a knock to my fellow Coli brehs that so happens to be white, if you know you know, but this is the grim reality to those that have this illusion of white=right. Hell, there was a point where I had a phase of white woman= "OH LAWD" (Uncle Ruckus voice)., but it dawned on me. My wife may be a pain in the ass, but she gives me something that a white woman will never grasp...the strength of a black woman. It is comforting and fulfilling compared to the whole "yes darling" shyt.

Its a beautiful thing when you experience black love for what it is, and just let it grow despite the issues both parties may have. If you PAWGset, right on "love is love", but black women just hit different breh:noah:
 

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I'm not going to front, I had that moment a few times in my life. My whole thought process was white people have it so good, that long silky hair, and gorgeous blue eyes...then the grim reality hit me throughout my dating years and so forth:

  • Casual to upright racism
  • Cynical and passive aggressive
  • sighs..."that smell"
  • Mismanagement of money or overaggressive with being cheap
  • Overrated in the bed (bad head, alright kisser, lukewarm reception)

Now this isn't a knock to my fellow Coli brehs that so happens to be white, if you know you know, but this is the grim reality to those that have this illusion of white=right. Hell, there was a point where I had a phase of white woman= "OH LAWD" (Uncle Ruckus voice)., but it dawned on me. My wife may be a pain in the ass, but she gives me something that a white woman will never grasp...the strength of a black woman. It is comforting and fulfilling compared to the whole "yes darling" shyt.

Its a beautiful thing when you experience black love for what it is, and just let it grow despite the issues both parties may have. If you PAWGset, right on "love is love", but black women just hit different breh:noah:
Dude the fact that you can even ADMIT to being a victim of social conditioning puts you LIGHTYEARS ahead of most PAWGers. Many become incensed at the mere possibility of being impacted by white=right media, all while ignoring anything bad about whites and vilifying their own race if they breathe hard. Some are even protective of access to them and will lash out in defense of them when you are honest about white reality. I respect your honesty and I’m glad you and your queen found one another!:hug:
 

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I couldn’t get past the first sentence. You really made a thread about smashing a cave beast after a 7 year hiatus. :russ::russ::russ::russ::russ::russ::russ::russ::russ:
Edit: yo, this nikka wrote a long ass caveat too: “I smashed a white woman but I’m not a PAWGer and here’s why.” I can’t :dead:
 

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I’m tired of people pretending like white power=white superiority.

And though the main topic of my thread centered around sex with white women, my point correlates with this---->the idea that sex with a white woman is superior or deserving of specific note...

Appreciate the honest and transparent responses!

My whole thought process was white people have it so good, that long silky hair, and gorgeous blue eyes
  • Overrated in the bed (bad head, alright kisser, lukewarm reception)

Hell, there was a point where I had a phase of white woman= "OH LAWD" (Uncle Ruckus voice)

The sex is crazy overrated...

And while I know that black people with this train of mind exist, I can never personally relate. I never saw anyone white as a standard of beauty nor had the thought of how good they have it, and I'm not really sure why that is. I wasn't raised in true black areas, although I guess when I lived in LA at that time the neighborhood was around 50% black but we're going back to the 90s. None of the neighborhoods I grew up in Sacramento or Virginia or even the part of Memphis I lived in, were majority or even halfway black, and I didn't live in any majority black neighborhoods until an adult in North Carolina...

I wasn't raised by "militants", actually probably the opposites of what would be considered militants but short of the extremes of "c00ning" or fethishizing whites----->my grandmother was quiet on speaking about other races period, and on educating blackness; my mom didn't have time to really discuss anything relevant to me; my aunt and uncle had an open disdain for Mexicans but never any strong words about anyone else or black education; and my stepdad was militarized in the way most black people who serve are, speaking about everyone as if we're all the same and not crossing any figurative lines on criticizing anything; the funny thing with him is as he's retired a decade ago and gotten older he's a lot more comfortable with expressing himself on all kinds of racial awareness, so my guess is he was the ultimate company man who was probably the way he is now, before he joined, but of course I dont know that...

These are all the people I lived with growing up. My stepmother probably had the most profound impact, in that she wasn't afraid to talk about race, and I remember her telling me once at a young age to be proud of my blackness. But that was it, never anything criticizing whites or highlighting the benefits of blackness...

I'm saying all that to illustrate, I never had these militant blacks as guardians, so I'm not sure where it comes from that I didn't deify whites, but while I got older and couldn't notice characteristics in blacks who thought highly of them, they were never a standard of beauty or excellence to me at any point in my life...

and don't have to feel they have to act hood or gangsta when dealing with a black woman, also ww don't get attitudes.

I agree with every part of your statement except this quote. Cats who stereotype black women as wanting tough guys or stereotype their attitudes, are copouts to me, the same as black women who stereotype most black men as "hood" or uneducated. Those are the talking points of all nonblacks, and ignorant as it is, you learn that nonblacks are conditioned within said communities to think of us this way...

We know better about ourselves so those of us that fuel the stereotypes have emotional issues...

And white women very much get attitudes, but it manifests differently. Again though, my theory is once you've been with white women, to your point on "easy", its easy to sexually please them and easy to emotionally or mentally control them, so alot of these brothers really just have control issues they can't fulfill to the same degree with white women. You can't just slap halfway dikk on the average black woman, and typically you can't just "force" a black woman to "fall in line", but I think what these type of brothers miss is black women are conditioned and maybe even naturally so, to be led by black men...

it's not about the sex breh, it's just about the culture and nuances of white and black america. For example my female cousin is like this, she's skinny and doesn't have the typical black woman frame of being thick and having a big ass. She's also into activities that usually have a lot of white people present, she likes built brothers but they usually don't pay attention to her and get with a white chick or a typical black woman. So she dates white, because that's where she can get in where she fits in.

100, I dig!

Yeah whites aren’t my thing.:yeshrug: Society fukks people over with them saturating the media looking like one thing. But then you interact with them and it’s :scust:
I’ve never dated or been sexually active with a white guy. I grew up in all black k-12 schools. I had mostly black teachers. Any white teachers I had were actually very good and wanted to empower their students.

So you grow up in all black schools, with great multicultural but primarily black teachers. Everybody investing in our little student minds, no racist interactions. So you are lulled into a false sense of security and start thinking about people as individuals.

Then I went to a PWI. That was my first real interaction with whites. And I don’t know how people do it. I’m not saying every white is evil because I know some truly good individuals around the world, but there is a collective cultural sickness in them that they aren’t even aware of and fighting facets of that just to have normal human interactions is NOPE.

Then on top of that they don’t look ANYTHING like they portray themselves in media. Ain’t no campuses full of Jason Mamoas. White dudes hairlines be playing hide and seek with them before they turn 21. Whites chicks look like soccer moms by the 2nd semester of their junior year. They smell, they don’t wash or clean up behind themselves, no lips, hips, ass, ectomorph bodies, oily nasty skin, acne, and permanent cold sores. All wrapped up in a micro aggressive, passive aggressive, racist, ignorant, arrogant stupid cut throat packages. So many of them just don’t know how to act normal when a black person is around. And these are the so-called educated ones. It’s cringe worthy to witness how out of touch these people are.

To each their own, but I just can’t do it. Especially because I work with them and the shyt I have to deal with in higher Ed...:usure: I’m good. Whites will be casually racist even as they trying to get with you. I feel like something has to be wrong with blacks if they can just let shyt like that roll off their backs. If you find one that doesn’t have those issues, and doesn’t look like some washed out, translucent, I can see scalp when you get out of the water, lipless creature from the blue lagoon when they take off their make up, then I wish you well. Even their skin feels weird to me. :scust:

The casual racism is a huge thing, and while I tend to give people benefit of doubt, many, many times I've been shown these aren't racist sayings or doings by accident, it goes back to the conditioning...

Case in point, white girl at work saw my daughters about 5 months ago, and asked to see a picture of them last week on some, "how are your girls, they are so adorable" kick...

Showed her a picture, and the only thing she has to say is they have really good hair, they are so beautiful...

Thats racist. All black people have good hair, and while its cringeworthy when we shyt on each others features (ie the "you must have good hair because you're mixed"), i can tolerate that differently. No one who isn't black has any room to say how good someone black's hair is or not, but again I'm gonna be 32 this year. I've learned alot of them are conditioned this way, and while there are a rare few who dont realize their errors, a whole lot more if them aren't saying these things accidentally and are pushing the boundaries of what's acceptable to say or do to black "friends" or associates...

I've found they don't all have that scent but alot of them do, and its an adjustment. Sometimes it isnt even "bad" necessarily but its distinctive and something you only smell on white ethnicities. That, as well as everything else you said, make it apparent the profile of brothers who prefer dealing with this sum of characteristics...
 
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