For the men on this new age relationship tip...

[KinksandCoils]

Women shouldn't feel guilty about wanting men to pay on dates, spring for an engagement ring or valentines day gift.
My thing is...just admit that you want those material and financial things.

If a woman is gonna look at a man all sideways because he wants to split the check, then the man can look at his woman sideways when she doesn't want to cook him a meal.

Women love to talk about what men have to do to improve and make a relationship better, but women NEVER have the courage to do any sort of self-reflection on what SHE needs to do in order to be a better girlfriend or spouse. ....or rather, women never ADMIT that they have to do any sort of self-reflection.

And any time a man points out that bullshyt, women want to throw out those lame shots like he hates women. Or "what woman hurt you"

bytch please....

all of the coli ladies are good women and have given reasons on how they are good. These questions, maybe not yours are really just to call women gold diggers etc. Its like the paying for first date threads. As soon as I say I want the man to pay I get attacked. Or as soon as I ask men what qualities they have, they ask me what qualties I have like its supposed to be a male vs female thread lol.

 

[88m3]

Are the ladies you date, in a relationship with, and or married to cool with it? Or are they hoping you change?
Examples:

Is she down with the fact that you think a ring is not needed or that you want to chill at the crib and never go out?
???
Is she cool with you never paying on dates?
Yes
Or how about u not wanting to get married?
meh depends on the girl and her visa status

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

I told her what I thought about marriage as an institution and she was like



I don't care about paying for shyt (I actually prefer it), but I don't like entitlement. Bishes outchea making lists and treating dating like interviews

 

[Flash Thunderton]

I plan on marrying my girlfriend in a few years and getting her the best ring I can


She been thru it with me and by the time I'm set in my life and she is in hers I wanna start our family off right.

 

[HoloGraphic]

Are the ladies you date, in a relationship with, and or married to cool with it? Or are they hoping you change?
Examples:

Is she down with the fact that you think a ring is not needed or that you want to chill at the crib and never go out?

Is she cool with you never paying on dates?

Or how about u not wanting to get married?
Etc.

Speak on it.

For me its a soul level connection. I've always been looking for the women who would compliment my tattoo lifestyle and I found her. Its like every little nuance I have wanted her to have, she has.

The connection is deeply empathic. Almost telepathic. We have bonded deeply beyond words. In fact the silent and emotional understanding between us is better than words. I haven't spoken in days.

After realizing that this is actually the girl I've always been looking for, the ring doesn't matter. The world doesn't matter. Finding her, and the timing of us falling for each other is nothing short of a miracle.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Are the ladies you date, in a relationship with, and or married to cool with it? Or are they hoping you change?
Examples:

Is she down with the fact that you think a ring is not needed or that you want to chill at the crib and never go out?

Is she cool with you never paying on dates?

Or how about u not wanting to get married?
Etc.

Speak on it.

besides the paying thing (i've always paid), i've been in all these situations... a woman, who likes a man, already fukking him, dating, together, whatever.... is gonna sit around and accept whatever you give her... FOR YEARS before shyt hits the fan


so yes... they are ok with it.. they don't stop coming over... they don't stop fukking me any less... they don't complain really....


what they will do, is drop subtle hints.... hey i want to go see that movie... hey i want to go out to eat... hey i'd like to have a family one day... hey i'd like to get married

but with good convo, you can shut that down... by just agreeing with whatever they say, but never doing it.... or just brushing it off... either will work. point is, she'll stop asking about it


now depending on the woman, will depend on how long she's gonna put up wit it.. i've had woman i've slept with for years... constantly asking when we'll be more and do more... and yet never actually stopping herself from coming over and doing exactly what i want.. which is sex with no relationship


then you have those who will catch on to what you are doing, cut your ass off, and move on....


a person is only gonna do to you, what you allow them to do... and while men have scaled back the relationships and chivalry... women have allowed us to do it, by not demanding more, and still giving up the sex, even when they aren't getting what they want



i mean it's 2015... bytches are BRAGGING online like "yea he might fukk you, but he comes home to me"

bytch are you bragging about being cheated on just so you can prove you got a man?? women will do anything for any semblance of love or a relationship... no matter if its a fukk buddy, real relationship, cheating marriage or whatever else


edit: and this is in reference to a jump off... if it was an actual woman i WANTED to date and be with, then i'd take her out and do things... not all the time.. but it's a give and take.. i might want to stay in, she stays... she might want to go out, i go... i might pay for the movie, she might pay for the popcorn.. i might take her to the beach, she might take me to the bar... give and take


but a jump off... if i don't feel like i want to actually date this woman, it'd be stupid for me to spend money and time on her, knowing i have no wishes to do so

just like it's dumb for her to give me sex, knowing want she really wants is a relationship

now why do y'all do that? cause i can't figure out for the life of me, what y'all expect to happen by giving up free booty and getting nothing in return on your wishes

 

[KinksandCoils]

besides the paying thing (i've always paid), i've been in all these situations... a woman, who likes a man, already fukking him, dating, together, whatever.... is gonna sit around and accept whatever you give her... FOR YEARS before shyt hits the fan


so yes... they are ok with it.. they don't stop coming over... they don't stop fukking me any less... they don't complain really....


what they will do, is drop subtle hints.... hey i want to go see that movie... hey i want to go out to eat... hey i'd like to have a family one day... hey i'd like to get married

but with good convo, you can shut that down... by just agreeing with whatever they say, but never doing it.... or just brushing it off... either will work. point is, she'll stop asking about it


now depending on the woman, will depend on how long she's gonna put up wit it.. i've had woman i've slept with for years... constantly asking when we'll be more and do more... and yet never actually stopping herself from coming over and doing exactly what i want.. which is sex with no relationship


then you have those who will catch on to what you are doing, cut your ass off, and move on....


a person is only gonna do to you, what you allow them to do... and while men have scaled back the relationships and chivalry... women have allowed us to do it, by not demanding more, and still giving up the sex, even when they aren't getting what they want



i mean it's 2015... bytches are BRAGGING online like "yea he might fukk you, but he comes home to me"

bytch are you bragging about being cheated on just so you can prove you got a man?? women will do anything for any semblance of love or a relationship... no matter if its a fukk buddy, real relationship, cheating marriage or whatever else


edit: and this is in reference to a jump off... if it was an actual woman i WANTED to date and be with, then i'd take her out and do things... not all the time.. but it's a give and take.. i might want to stay in, she stays... she might want to go out, i go... i might pay for the movie, she might pay for the popcorn.. i might take her to the beach, she might take me to the bar... give and take


but a jump off... if i don't feel like i want to actually date this woman, it'd be stupid for me to spend money and time on her, knowing i have no wishes to do so

just like it's dumb for her to give me sex, knowing want she really wants is a relationship

now why do y'all do that? cause i can't figure out for the life of me, what y'all expect to happen by giving up free booty and getting nothing in return on your wishes

true shyt. Thanks for your quality post man

 

[Johnny Vulture]

Are the ladies you date, in a relationship with, and or married to cool with it? Or are they hoping you change?
Examples:

Is she down with the fact that you think a ring is not needed or that you want to chill at the crib and never go out?

Is she cool with you never paying on dates?

Or how about u not wanting to get married?
Etc.

Speak on it.

This is the "new-age relationship"?

Just sounds like you're dating a bum

 

[KinksandCoils]

This is the "new-age relationship"?

Just sounds like you're dating a bum

it seems like this is common with men now. And im single.

 

[Blackout]

Ain't nothing wrong with chilling at his crib but he better have a PlayStation or Xbox to keep me occupied

I do.

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

all of the coli ladies are good women and have given reasons on how they are good. These questions, maybe not yours are really just to call women gold diggers etc. Its like the paying for first date threads. As soon as I say I want the man to pay I get attacked. Or as soon as I ask men what qualities they have, they ask me what qualties I have like its supposed to be a male vs female thread lol.

Nah yall bytches should pay on the first date, not us

if you dont like it then stay in the kitchen

 

[KinksandCoils]

Nah yall bytches should pay on the first date, not us

if you dont like it then stay in the kitchen

be a cheap ass loser bum nikka brehs

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

be a cheap ass loser bum nikka brehs

be a useless fat white woman brehettes

do you even cook?

 

[KinksandCoils]

be a useless fat white woman brehettes

do you even cook?

Of course I cook.

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

Of course I cook.

then make me a sandwich