Friendzoned or put on a roster. At my age, friendzoned is fine, if she truly wants to be a legit friend. But that roster sh*t is no bueno.
You can have rapport with a chick, but if she's got 3-4 other dudes trying to spit, it ain't gonna necessarily end up in your favor.
That's the way the game goes, I ain't mad at it. But it's not a simple as some people make it out to be, especially if you are looking for a long term partner.
I'm not thinking about those nikkas. I'm worried about me.
My young self would think: "This is just one broad out of many. I will crack her without trying".
It works. That's what I think off gate. "I will crack her without trying".
Hence the being easy to talk to part. A "friend" rapport is different from "she's tryna fukk" rapport.
Y'all are complicating this too much.
Either that or it's a: "You got IT or you don't" situation.
Y'all already have a negative attitude, talmbat 3-4 imaginary nikkas.
Why are they your concern? Aren't you supposed to be THAT nikka?
If you're THAT nikka you should only focus on what y'all gonna do...and even then, it's not a thing to focus on.