For Those Who Don't Approach...

Henri Christophe

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On some real shyt.... I just be landing in p*ssy.

I probably approached one time in my whole life..

Other times, it was just a natural progression.

One time, I had a chick in my class DM me on twitter.... Lol ... So sometimes girls do shoot their shot

Im introverted but somehow... I've landed in situations.

Some dudes are always chasing p*ssy.... I just be ignoring bytches..... I guess thats worked in my favor.

Not saying it works for everybody...
 

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Approaching is fukking dead. Why don't yall get it through your thick fukking skulls?

  • Cold approaching has the smallest success rate percentage.
  • You will have more success using social media.
  • Get accused of street harrasment by bothering random strangers
  • Get #MeToo'ed cause you using old methods that rarely work
  • Most of you approach with the sex being the most evident reason, everyone has caught on and now you look thirsty.
  • Most people meet partners through friends, work, and shared environments.

When I see nikkas cold approach in real life I always observe, then smh. Never works, and it always looks embarrassing. I don't think brehs are brave, I pity them.
 

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This predator hunting prey mentality is why we have this metoo movement.

Also, The idea that women are incapable of doing certain things causes men to underestimate them and they end up getting played imo
Bro, if your gonna sit around waiting for women to initiate and approach , be prepared to order one of those sex dolls.

You are the man, you are the hunter. Stop letting the internet scare you. Men have approached women since forever and will continue to.

Stay on the sidelines if you want while the rest of us are out here in the field.

I've personally cold approached dozens of females in my life and I've never been accused of anything or arrested.

Be respectable and you ain't got shyt to worry about.
 

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All the time.

U dont always have to just approach women on some AYO BABY! Type shyt

If ur like me u make small talk with a lot of strangers so approaching women is just a part of the groove

Ive met some really cool people just making small talk and its helped my game with cold approaching too

Now its got my mind trained that if I got turned down its nothing cuz I do it all day versus going from 0 to 60 and ending up lowering my self esteem off one rejection
 

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Why did you neg me?

I never said approaching women is the only way to get p*ssy. I asked if guys don't approach how are they getting it in?

You can also approach at work, and shared environments. And you can also get embarrassed in these same environments too.


Approaching is fukking dead. Why don't yall get it through your thick fukking skulls?

  • Cold approaching has the smallest success rate percentage.
  • You will have more success using social media.
  • Get accused of street harrasment by bothering random strangers
  • Get #MeToo'ed cause you using old methods that rarely work
  • Most of you approach with the sex being the most evident reason, everyone has caught on and now you look thirsty.
  • Most people meet partners through friends, work, and shared environments.

When I see nikkas cold approach in real life I always observe, then smh. Never works, and it always looks embarrassing. I don't think brehs are brave, I pity them.
 

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Bro, if your gonna sit around waiting for women to initiate and approach , be prepared to order one of those sex dolls.

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Listen bro, I’m definitely the type of brotha that shoots his shot on the regular, no issues with that.

My issue is when dudes think seeing someone you find attractive and Sparking a convo is a big deal that women can’t do

This society allows women to not do it, it’s not that they don’t have the mental capacity,
to initiate something.

Also back to your men are the hunters comment: Man the game of men vs women is not a predator vs prey or cat and mouse game. It’s a predator vs. predator game.

Women have just as much skills and resources to have dudes looking like a straight clown if you underestimate them.
 

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I have lately been waiting for choosing signs. I used to hear brothas say this alot and I didn't understand until someone explained it to me. Basically women send subtle choosing signs. Like getting close to you, staring at you,smiling at you etc. In the women gems thread there has been plenty brehs who talked about this. And the thing with cold approach is your mind state and physical appearance has to be on point because a women will know the moment she lays on you that she wants to fukk. If you go to the gym,get in shape,develop a style and get your paper up it will improve your mindstate. Build your confidence by developing a swagger about you. I am not saying that is the be all end all. But it greatly boost your chances. Going around cold approaching while you have low confidence and not getting your shyt in order is basically like working out with no structure and just going the motions. You will have less success and be stuck in a rut.
 

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Social circle i.e. friends and associates introducing me to women.
Women who visit the same places I do weekly and build rapport out of habit.
They approach.
Work.
Online.

:yeshrug:
 

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:mjlol:. Approach women, brehs.
 

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Approaching is fukking dead. Why don't yall get it through your thick fukking skulls?

  • Cold approaching has the smallest success rate percentage.
  • You will have more success using social media.
  • Get accused of street harrasment by bothering random strangers
  • Get #MeToo'ed cause you using old methods that rarely work
  • Most of you approach with the sex being the most evident reason, everyone has caught on and now you look thirsty.
  • Most people meet partners through friends, work, and shared environments.

When I see nikkas cold approach in real life I always observe, then smh. Never works, and it always looks embarrassing. I don't think brehs are brave, I pity them.

 

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Listen bro, I’m definitely the type of brotha that shoots his shot on the regular, no issues with that.

My issue is when dudes think seeing someone you find attractive and Sparking a convo is a big deal that women can’t do

This society allows women to not do it,
it’s not that they don’t have the mental capacity,
to initiate something.

Also back to your men are the hunters comment: Man the game of men vs women is not a predator vs prey or cat and mouse game. It’s a predator vs. predator game.

Women have just as much skills and resources to have dudes looking like a straight clown if you underestimate them.

Well I gues that's where the disagreement lies. You think its society and I literally think its due to the differences in the biological makeup in men & women.

When I say that its not in a woman's DNA to approach, I mean that LITERALLY.

Men are the stronger sex for a reason. We are the hunters , the go-getters, the providers, the warriors, the aggressors.

Its literally not in a woman's makeup to go out and be the aggressors in relationships. Its mens role to pursue. Not women's.

Just my opinion.
 

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Its not in a woman's DNA to approach men nor should men expect it.

You are the man. Men are hunters. Go after what you want.

No man should EVER think to himself "why can't women approach" :mjcry:

That thought should never even enter into your realm of consciousness.

I honestly never thought that guys thought like this until I started posting here.

It's also not in a woman's DNA to work. Women are nurturers and home-makers. Why should we have women in the work place, as ceos, e.t.c?
 
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