Found a short man appreciation on LSA via Google.

[Neuromancer]

Not being funny, but have you ever thought of seeking therapy. Or are you seeing a therapist who specializes in the issues you are trying to heal? Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) could be very helpful. A forum is not the best way to deal with trauma and unresolved wounds.

You are actually opening them up with the potential to wound yourself even more.

Been in CBT for three years since my dad died. I don't reveal anything on here that I am not ready to talk about. Anyone who knows me knows how calculated I am.

 

[Neuromancer]

Not being funny, but have you ever thought of seeking therapy. Or are you seeing a therapist who specializes in the issues you are trying to heal? Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) could be very helpful. A forum is not the best way to deal with trauma and unresolved wounds.

You are actually opening them up with the potential to wound yourself even more.

Weird post to reply with this to.

 

[xoxodede]

Been in CBT for three years since my dad died. I don't reveal anything on here that I am not ready to talk about. Anyone who knows me knows how calculated I am.

Ditto. I started therapy when my daddy died. I am happy you are getting help.

I am not sure what your last statement means - but you should talk to your therapist about your issues with your height. I know that EFT and EMDR are also helpful for emotional trauma. Best of luck.

 

[Barnett114]

All I wear is boots

Short nikka but my dikk tall

 

[idonttouchgrass]

She said I was too short to date her, she wanted a taller guy so she could feel safe. In the middle of class.

good thing there's plenty more women in the world

 

[xoxodede]

Weird post to reply with this to.

If you say so....

I see you like you question and second guess everything -- even when it's a genuine statement and gesture.

You should also check out: The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom -- I really think it would be helpful.

 

[Neuromancer]

If you say so....

I see you like you question and second guess everything -- even when it's a genuine statement and gesture.

You should also check out: The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom -- I really think it would be helpful.

I don't think you're genuine. I already made that clear.

 

[Neuromancer]

Ditto. I started therapy when my daddy died. I am happy you are getting help.

I am not sure what your last statement means - but you should talk to your therapist about your issues with your height. I know that EFT and EMDR are also helpful for emotional trauma. Best of luck.

Noted.

 

[xoxodede]

I don't think you're genuine. I already made that clear.

Welp. Understood.

 

[paperbag]

Heightism Exposed (@heightismxposed) on Twitter

Okay
Didn't know short !men actually took this to heart

 

[Neuromancer]

Okay
Didn't know short !men actually took this to heart

I guess it's the same way darkskinned girls take insults about their skin color to heart, no real diff.

 

[hayesc0]

That site makes me think all women are raging psychopaths.

Toxic.

I never been on and plan to keep it that way but I do think all females are nuts lol.

 

[Shadow King]

Thanks! How u? And I think Dede is cool. Lol!
I think most people here are straight. Except for that pedobear stranger danger ass dude in that other thread. I forgot his username.


@The Hierophant
Is male height a real big issue amongst men? I never really thot about it. Everybody in my family is uber tall and I'm the lone hobbit so I tend to not really place a lot of stock in it.

I do know a couple of chicks that associate height with protection. As women we tend to want men to be bigger than us to feel protected too.

Never really considered it. My mom is actually taller than my dad. Lol.
Also growing up it was always known that nobody should think height was gonna win a fight. I've seen Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyy too many tall dudes get fukking wiped by short dudes to assume height had anything to do with it. Most short dudes I know seem to do pretty well.

What's been ur experiences? I won't discount them or accuse you of actually being ugly instead of acknowledging ur struggle the way some people do with dark skinned chicks.

In any case I think people just need to grow up and out of their limited preferences.

You didn't ask me but its somewhat of an issue for men because like you said height is associated with protection. Men are expected to have unconditional confidence coupled and/or A1 social skills and resources so we wont express displeasure with out height but we know where female hearts are.

Ironically (or maybe fittingly) short women are most vocal about preferring height. Women in the average range of 5'4"-5"7" tend to be more lax and only ask that a man is taller than them, even if it's 2 or so inches. Once chicks hit like 5'8" they start to demand height again but they actually are warranted in that. Some brehs will testify to tall female-short male couples but I think that's usually for outrageously tall women (6'0"+) who can't afford to limit their dating pool to 6'4" cats.

I think 5'7" is the safety net for a breh being reasonably short in the eyes of women, lower than that and he may start to encounter some flack.

 

[paperbag]

I guess it's the same way darkskinned girls take insults about their skin color to heart, no real diff.

I never saw it as the same thing, but obviously it's negatively impacted you.

 

[Jean Jacket]

Not anti-woman, but I think the hive mind at that site is diabolical.