real talk my friends from high school and college are no longer what I consider friends, most of my high school friends and I grew apart once we went away to college or others to the military. over the years are contact was more and more infrequent. My college friends some I still contact but its like every couple of months, because I live in a different city than most of them, i have a lot of acquaintances and associates, but no one I really consider a friend