Friendships - Simple (Men) vs Complex (Women)?

[JustRegularBlack]

Saw this brief interaction and found it hilarious but interesting, especially the older we get where school isn't the main source of friendship.

I don't believe in absolutes for men or women but have seen this dynamic quite often. Men become cool with each other based on the simplest common interest and can let that be the basis of friendship. Women also become cool with each other based on the simplest common interest, BUT may not consider it a true friendship until they get a carfax, credit report, zodiac reading and family history on the chick.

Friendship can be surface level or have depth, but ultimately is defined by the people in it right? Wrong?

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

Right. Although I think theirs pros and cons to both. We as men, load alot on the front end of a friendship, where as women put alot on the backend.

 

[JP_614]

Somewhat agree I feel men connect on things we can relate on. Moving to Hawaii I met oje of my good friends through work but playing ball. Then it evolved into something more.

I think women connect on the same things but in terms of friendship depends on the individual relationship between them. They can’t just connect on we do the same thing it has to be more than that.

 

[Ohene]

That is one ugly ass woman

I met a dude at the gym about a year ago, offering him to work in the squat track i was using

Fast forward to now and we play ball together, grab dinner together, go for walks etc. I’m going to he and his wife’s place for a games night tonight even

When my ex moved to Toronto from Paris i tried to get her to encourage her to meet women similarly or whenever we were at friends places but she would just make every excuse and act like i was pressuring her

lol i think women are just coddled and afraid of rejection. Everything is also about “ vibes” And “energy” where as for men it’s simply about that commonality and you take it from there

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

That is one ugly ass woman

I met a dude at the gym about a year ago, offering him to work in the squat track i was using

Fast forward to now and we play ball together, grab dinner together, go for walks etc. I’m going to her and his wife’s place for a games night tonight even

When my ex moved to Toronto from Paris i tried to get her to encourage her to meet women similarly or whenever we were at friends places but she would just make every excuse and act like i was pressuring her

lol i think women are just coddled and afraid of rejection. Everything is also about “ vibes” And “energy” where as for men it’s simply about that commonality and you take it from there

 

[Ohene]

She ugly
her demanor wack
and her voice ugly as well

 

[Ohene]

i've known my best friend for almost 20 years now
he's met my parents cause my parents crib used to be the link up spot
but i've never met his. shyt is irrelevant; who cares

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

She ugly
her demanor wack
and her voice ugly as well

That ain’t got shyt to do with shyt though…

 

[The God Poster]

That is one ugly ass woman

I met a dude at the gym about a year ago, offering him to work in the squat track i was using

Fast forward to now and we play ball together, grab dinner together, go for walks etc. I’m going to her and his wife’s place for a games night tonight even

When my ex moved to Toronto from Paris i tried to get her to encourage her to meet women similarly or whenever we were at friends places but she would just make every excuse and act like i was pressuring her

lol i think women are just coddled and afraid of rejection. Everything is also about “ vibes” And “energy” where as for men it’s simply about that commonality and you take it from there

I think it’s because on a dating level women are used to being courted. That goes into other parts of life as far as meeting new friends imo

We as men are typically on the hunt per se lol and generally need to be ready to jump into a convo.

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Lol I can’t think of any more women to give Insight

I’ll say people do use the term friend too loosely. I can see you daily for years & just be an associate

 

[Ohene]

That ain’t got shyt to do with shyt though…

it does though

you got a woman who appears insufferable trying to critique the way in which men choose their friendships

it low key tells you just how ridiculous these woman are and why so many of them are miserable.

youre fat, youre ugly, you have an ugly voice and your whole demeanor is off and negative. Why would anyone even want to be her friend except to make themselves look better while going out? Like damn, be friendly, easy going and open minded and your life would surely improve. She could learn a lot from the very man she is disagreeing with.

 

[The God Poster]

i've known my best friend for almost 20 years now
he's met my parents cause my parents crib used to be the link up spot
but i've never met his. shyt is irrelevant; who cares

You’ve done more than just hoop tho? You’ve had intimate convos about life etc
Kicked it In Multiple situations

 

[Ohene]

You’ve done more than just hoop tho? You’ve had intimate convos about life etc
Kicked it In Multiple situations

my best friend? of course man. ive known him since high school.
we talk to each other about relationships, work, and generally just support eachother mentally/emotionally in this fukked up shyt we call life.
i have met his sister and brother but not his parents.

i was a groomsman at one dude's wedding this yr, great friend i met through another friend. he hasnt met my parents, and only met one of my brothers cause i lived with my brother at one pt. in fact i am the reason he met his now wife. women approach friendships and relationships like auditions/job applications. its dumb as fukk and only blocks them from growing as people.

 

[SupaHotIce]

All that and their friendships still be hanging by a thread

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

it does though

you got a woman who appears insufferable trying to critique the way in which men choose their friendships

it low key tells you just how ridiculous these woman are and why so many of them are miserable.

youre fat, youre ugly, you have an ugly voice and your whole demeanor is off and negative. Why would anyone even want to be her friend except to make themselves look better while going out? Like damn, be friendly, easy going and open minded and your life would surely improve. She could learn a lot from the very man she is disagreeing with.

You don’t get all dat from looking that 30 second video.

You just wanted to call her ugly for no damn reason.

 

[Ohene]

we got women out here using shyt like Bumble BFF to find friends , yet she scoffing at a man calling a nikka he plays basketball with frequently a friend