fukk it. I'm sure solid advice has been found in stranger places.

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I want to change my situation, everything else just needed a little tweaking .

I've never been lazy or unmotivated. I'm in this predicament now because of my ambition and also an aversion to authority.:manny:

I tried to go around the system and I fell on my face. That doesn't mean that my mind or soul isn't right, it just means I failed. I do admit that I have to conform a bit to make myself into a success. I had it in my head that school was for suckers and now I know how foolish that was. I'm going to be in school soon, working on becoming a radiologic technologist, so in two years I'll have a financial safety net. Soon after that I'll be working on ways to flip my discretionary income. I'd say my head is on straight.




How does it make me less of a man to play a broad? People use other people all the time; anyone that say's they've never used someone is a liar.

I'll never deny the fact that I'm not the best guy and I'll be an all out bad guy if it benefits me, like now. Also, I don't believe in karma, there's plenty of women who do men way worse and have great lives afterward. Earlier in this thread I talked about how she's a good girl but just not my type, so it would never work anyway. Am I supposed to be bored and unhappy for the rest of my life because she helped me for 21/2 years? I'll be damned.

She deserves someone who's truly into her and loves her for who she is anyway. She was in two long relationships back to back before me, with dudes she called "kind of boring". They were most likely dudes who were good matches for her and she just couldn't see it for looking at the green grass on the other side. So when I'm done with her, she's going to really appreciate men who really appreciate her and find someone to live a long, happy, boring life with.

If you really think about it, I'm doing her big a favor and only asking for room and board in return.


I'm not saying conform though. I stopped college with 1 semester to go because I felt I was doing it for other people and didn't want to get a degree just because society says so. Carve out your own path no matter what.

But your mindset? It's gonna lead you somewhere you don't want to be eventually.

You don't have to conform but don't think you're so ambitious that it led you to scams. Your own greed did that. Stop flipping negatives into positives to avoid facing the demons you openly welcome into your life...and how does what other people do (use girls) make what you do better? Other men's actions don't define your manhood yours do.
 

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I'm not saying conform though. I stopped college with 1 semester to go because I felt I was doing it for other people and didn't want to get a degree just because society says so. Carve out your own path no matter what.

But your mindset? It's gonna lead you somewhere you don't want to be eventually.

You don't have to conform but don't think you're so ambitious that it led you to scams. Your own greed did that. Stop flipping negatives into positives to avoid facing the demons you openly welcome into your life...and how does what other people do (use girls) make what you do better? Other men's actions don't define your manhood yours do.

I’m glad to see someone shares the same sentiments as me about doing what’s expected of you instead of what you want. I also respect what you’re saying about everything else but you do have some things wrong.

Finding ways to flip negatives into positives is the only reason I had a chance to be successful in the first place. As far my demons go, no invitations are needed. When you’re exposed to certain things, you just have them. Also, I didn’t bring up other people’s actions to excuse my own. I just wanted it to be known that some of the slime ball moves I’m pulling aren’t uncommon, some people seemed liked they were in the dark.

As long as I don’t breakdown and try to make a play for quick, big money; I’m pretty sure my mindset will lead me into prosperity. I don’t get why you see misfortune in my cards.
 

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Well, you definitely fukked up by dropping out but it sounds like you've got a good amount of hustle in you so maybe learn carpentry or plumbing or electrician work or how to work on cars and there's no reason you can't own your own business in a few years time.

You'll be eating ramen for a while but as long as you don't quit I think you'll be aight.
 

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+25 years old, bad record, no job, goldiggin on your woman, scammin people for a quick buck, and no degree?
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Just give up and sell coke to the inner city youth.
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Well, you definitely fukked up by dropping out but it sounds like you've got a good amount of hustle in you so maybe learn carpentry or plumbing or electrician work or how to work on cars and there's no reason you can't own your own business in a few years time.

You'll be eating ramen for a while but as long as you don't quit I think you'll be aight.

Nah I'm good off anything like that. I've already decided on becoming a radiologic technologist. It's something I wont mind doing and at 55k, I'll have just enough money to create other streams of revenue.

Thankfully I'm in a situation where I'll be able to eat a little better than top ramen, while saving most of the money I hustle up over the next 2 years.

+25 years old, bad record, no job, goldiggin on your woman, scammin people for a quick buck, and no degree?
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Just give up and sell coke to the inner city youth.
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That's pretty funny but two years isn't that long, so I think I'll hold off.
 

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@KOOL-AID Found it, breh.


Well, you definitely fukked up by dropping out but it sounds like you've got a good amount of hustle in you so maybe learn carpentry or plumbing or electrician work or how to work on cars and there's no reason you can't own your own business in a few years time.

You'll be eating ramen for a while but as long as you don't quit I think you'll be aight.

Just realized this nikka tried to play me.:patrice:
 

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This shyts depressing af

If it makes you feel any better, now I'm pulling in around $5000/mo, still have a free ride as far as rent and bills go, and I've gotten real cool with a manager at the company I'll be working for, and he's guaranteed, not only the position I'm going for, but a transfer to whatever location I want when I get out of school.

I'm good, breh.:smugdraper:
 
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Hey OP. fukk these nikkas I'm going back to school this summer and I'm 30. I done seen and been thru a shyt load of fukkkery and crazy shyt. Make it happen bruh. Some folks
don't EVER get right, so fukk it, it just gonna take you a little longer.

You get where you suppose to be when you suppose to get there.
 

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You told that nikka carpentry and being an electrician was his only choices. He's 25 not 55.







Hey OP. fukk these nikkas I'm going back to school this summer and I'm 30. I done seen and been thru a shyt load of fukkkery and crazy shyt. Make it happen bruh. Some folks
don't EVER get right, so fukk it, it just gonna take you a little longer.

You get where you suppose to be when you suppose to get there.

:salute:, breh.

I was able to pull myself up off of my dikk and now I'm on track to put myself in a position to start making 6 figures in 5-7 years or so. You can't keep a huslter down for too long.

I wish you much success with all your endeavors. You already know what we both have to do.

 
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:salute:, breh.

I was able to pull myself up off of my dikk and now I'm on track to put myself in a position to start making 6 figures in 5-7 years or so. You can't keep a huslter down for too long.

I wish you much success with all your endeavors. You all ready know what we both have to do.




Same here bruh.
 

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get a trade a cert.... go back to school get a degree... ( but get a trade or certs first to hold urself down)

or go army or navy.

fukk drugs that shyt is a lie.
 
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