Personally, I have no problem with a wealthy and powerful black person making a white person jump through hoops.
If you ever saw her behind the scenes show, she was very firm and strict with all her employees. They did that camping trip with Gayle, and were supposed to be recording her and Gayle talking in the car. But the crew forgot to turn the camera on for that segment, and one of the producer’s wanted them to put the same clothes back on, and reenact the scene. Oprah just

“You’ve hit your head. You’ve fallen and hit your head, because you’re out of your mind. We’re not faking it?”
Then in the interview, she said, “My life is sensational. If you missed something, stay tuned, because another sensational moment is coming up.”
I have to like that sense of extreme confidence and arrogance when it comes to black people. That’s the mentality you need to get to that level.