People really (and ONLY) expect black men to be boxed in on this giant ass planet to deal with one type of woman, live in one certain kind of area, or have one or the same preference in lifestyles.
Thats policing.
When you criticize or try to shame people from doing something that is so fundamentally basic and irrelevant to their own lives, it’s policing.
World is too big to not search for what you want if you haven’t found it.
Are these men shytting on black american women? Are they shytting on women in general? Do women not have “girl trips” where they go to countries like Jamaica and treat men like sex toys? Are these type of men even wanted in the community? Have white men not done these kind of things for decades if not longer without complaints?
Call them what you like, but if they have the money to pursue what they want and are generally interested in leaving the country for a better life, then whats the issue?
And everyone complaining about men going over there for the sex workers and I say well at least you KNOW they are sex workers. You know what they are there for and so do they.
It’s the ones here that look up to sex workers, try to imitate, imitate the style of dress, the talk, the BBL, the makeup, the hair, the look, their behaviors, the attitudes, etc., but yet want to be respected as bosses and want a HVM despite thinking that they are better than most men in general, all while helping to ruin the optics for dating out here within our culture.