Gender reveal disappointment.. anyone else been through it?

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If they grow up to be a lesbian, you can still do all of these things with them. Also, I would be wary of assigning a gender to your child, who hasn’t even been born yet. Let them decide and then they’ll reveal their gender to you. Please be careful.
Ayo man this fukking dude right here :russ:

Dog I had 3 daughter's and then finally got the boy on round 4

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Congrats homie!


Pretty much went through the same. We both wanted a boy; she ended up having a girl. Any disappointment I had went away when I seen her for the first time. That’s my baby girl, my spitting image. She’s got me wrapped around her finger. She’s a blessing, and I wouldn’t change a thing.

Still want a boy, and for a lot of the reasons you name. Got the name picked out already, lol. We’ll try again at some point. 3 kids is the most id want, so I still got 2 more tries lol
 

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Congrats homie!


Pretty much went through the same. We both wanted a boy; she ended up having a girl. Any disappointment I had went away when I seen her for the first time. That’s my baby girl, my spitting image. She’s got me wrapped around her finger. She’s a blessing, and I wouldn’t change a thing.

Still want a boy, and for a lot of the reasons you name. Got the name picked out already, lol. We’ll try again at some point. 3 kids is the most id want, so I still got 2 more tries lol

It all depends on your wife's lineage. If she has a lot of male siblings, the (much)higher probability of having a boy. Your wife came from a family tree where many males don't be born.
 

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I only have a daughter and honestly really is the best for a dad. My girl is a huge daddy's girl. to the point where she'll come in our room in the morning and say good morning to me and not my wife lol I had to get on her about being rude.
 

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Ya'll want it to turn into India where there's almost 50 more million men than women running around with dry dikk or raping cause it ain't enough women to go around.
Y'all always gotta go to the extreme

But 50 million is less than I expected for a country with 1.5 billion people and a reputation for gender imbalance.
 

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You may be a bit disappointed now, but once you see her you will love her immensely. Girls have their own special sort of relationship with their fathers, so make sure you are a good father to her. Also, you can talk all of that stuff about sports to your daughter that you would to a son. She may not play football, but she can definitely learn to enjoy watching it with her dad.

You will find that you can bind with your daughter over a lot of things that are your hobbies. Just expose her to them and see which ones she may find interesting.
 

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You may be a bit disappointed now, but once you see her you will love her immensely. Girls have their own special sort of relationship with their fathers, so make sure you are a good father to her. Also, you can talk all of that stuff about sports to your daughter that you would to a son. She may not play football, but she can definitely learn to enjoy watching it with her dad.

You will find that you can bind with your daughter over a lot of things that are your hobbies. Just expose her to them and see which ones she may find interesting.
That's true.. everyone knew I wanted a boy so when it was pink people did say I can do all the same things with a girl I can do with a boy.

Always gonna love my child, but I guess this was the first lesson in "don't get your hopes up" for a specific thing with your child.
 

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If they grow up to be a lesbian, you can still do all of these things with them. Also, I would be wary of assigning a gender to your child, who hasn’t even been born yet. Let them decide and then they’ll reveal their gender to you. Please be careful.
this a god damn shame!
 
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