Gentlemen, why do we discourage each other when it comes to dating?

[JudgeJoeForilla]

I've noticed that men these days put limits on men's dating options.... They usually go by physical standards like height weight looks and whatever else. I remember a time when it wasn't like that. But I think young men coming up have been taught to bring down the competition. I'll say this once and I'll say it again. Women like good looking ugly tall short muscular fat bald hairy and even skinny or big guys. It's not about shyt you can't control its about what you can control, your attitude. They like a dominant mother fukker who will whoop another dudes ass for the right cause. They like a man who won't take shyt from them. They like a man who marches to the beat of his own drum. So fellas, instead of trying to put a restrain on the competition why not school dudes on why they can get any type of chick with the right mentality. Oh Yeah and #HOH.

 

[Taadow]

I don't do that, life does it.

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

I don't do that, life does it.

No dudes do it especially compared to back in the day when hommies tried to put you on game, now these young guys try and discourage dudes from going after the p*ssy they want. It's some bytch shyt.

 

[Freedman]

Honestly I don't think I've ever seen this and I'll usually try to my best to put you on the bytch if she not mine or I don't think I can fukk

 

[KravenMorehead™]

I've noticed that men these days put limits on men's dating options.... They usually go by physical standards like height weight looks and whatever else. I remember a time when it wasn't like that. But I think young men coming up have been taught to bring down the competition. I'll say this once and I'll say it again. Women like good looking ugly tall short muscular fat bald hairy and even skinny or big guys. It's not about shyt you can't control its about what you can control, your attitude. They like a dominant mother fukker who will whoop another dudes ass for the right cause. They like a man who won't take shyt from them. They like a man who marches to the beat of his own drum. So fellas, instead of trying to put a restrain on the competition why not school dudes on why they can get any type of chick with the right mentality. Oh Yeah and #HOH.

No they don't, they're more picky. But they'll date them nikkas for whatever they're good for, And marry one if the quality of commitment they can get from that nikka is high quality and rare. Doesn't mean he's the most valued man in her dating history. nikka's like a lemon. "it ain't a ferrarri, but it gets me from A to B"

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

No they don't. But they'll date them nikkas for whatever they're good for, And marry one if the quality of commitment they can get from that nikka is rare and high quality. Doesn't mean he's the most valued man in her dating history. nikka's like a lemon. "it ain't a ferrarri, but it gets me from A to B"

They like any nikka with the right mentality not some p*ssy ass self cautious nikka. If I was a short fat Gary Coleman ass nikka I'd have a bytch sucking them titties, maybe the sucking man t*ts thing is a bit extreme but you don't hear me. Any nikka could pull any type of broad out here with the right game plan. I see that shyt all the time and dudes won't realize this until they get out that damn self cautious defeated slump and start making moves on these ho's.

 

[Taadow]

No dudes do it especially compared to back in the day when hommies tried to put you on game, now these young guys try and discourage dudes from going after the p*ssy they want. It's some bytch shyt.

I'll let you tell it because I've never seen that.

What I have seen is that the hardest person on a dude is himself, and what
he perceives as his own shortcomings.

 

[Lo-Co]

I'll let you tell it because I've never seen that.

What I have seen is that the hardest person on a dude is himself, and what
he perceives as his own shortcomings.

This was me. i was my biggest critic and just was hard on myself and i used to believe i wasnt shyt to this dating scene. but its the opposite now. i feel like its harder to date because i dont have a solid circle of friends that i hang out with. just friends i rarely see.