George Will: Single Moms ‘Biggest Impediment’ to Black Progress

[Ashley Banks]

Where are the fathers?

Don't you know, the deadbeat dads aren't the problem. The person that is taking care of the kid is the problem, not the one that abandoned the kid.

Wait..

 

[marcuz]

Tired of these CACs and their unsolicited advice on how to "fix" black people. Its not like they care. Its just mock concern and patronizing outrage. If they want to be helpful, do something about their own white on white violence, meth use and the fact that young white men cant stop going to schools and malls and shooting up shyt.

yeah, shyt is tiring. they create the problem then blame us for it. i agree single mothers are fukking up the community with their perpetual cycle of bullshyt, but the real issue is lack of business ownership and sustainable wages in the black community for BLACK MEN.

 

[Chris.B]

Don't you know, the deadbeat dads aren't the problem. The person that is taking of the kid is the problem, not the one that abandoned the kid.

Wait..

I have never seen a man pregnant before

 

[mozichrome]

anything to push personal agendas huh

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

but if these women decide to sleep with bums how can we blame the men?

Whose fault is it that they are bums?

 

[Ashley Banks]

when

but if these women decide to sleep with bums how can we blame the men?

How do you know if these men were always bums? Maybe they acted as if they were good men then after the kid came, they changed.

According to you people can change overnight:

marriage in 2013 is lottery....a woman can change on you overnight.

Keep dreaming

or is this only true for women?

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

but when was the last time you saw a man pregnant for 9 months?

He has a HUGE point. At the end of the day, women ultimately make the decision to lay down with the partners they chose to lay down with. Many people will say well, dude's are flipping and changing when XYZ starts to happen and blah blah blah. FINE, I will grant you that will occasionally happen, but the majority of women are laying up with some flaw ass nikkas and THEY KNOW they are flaw ass nikkas. I despise women who use abortion as a form of birth control, but some of these kids are being set up to fail from the JUMP because mommy got a thing for bad boys.

 

[bl2k8]

I would say the majority of these single moms knew about the man before they chose him, that's the problem. There's moms out there that got the script flipped to, I've seen it, but they are in the minority.

 

[keond]

yeah, shyt is tiring. they create the problem then blame us for it. i agree single mothers are fukking up the community with their perpetual cycle of bullshyt, but the real issue is lack of business ownership and sustainable wages in the black community for BLACK MEN.

Yea all they ever do is state the problem. They not going to the root of the issue which is the impact of drugs and the loss of good paying jobs such as factories in the midwest etc etc.....they just want to grandstand. To attack the root of the problem would be an indictment of the very system of white supremacy that they benefit from. The cycle of the black broken family is rooted in pain and misery which is inflicted by white supremacy

 

[Data-Hawk]

Not going to get into who to blame more( that will only make this thread go on and on ). But anybody who is a father to a son, knows that they look to you for direction on everything.. I mean *EVERYTHING*, so imagine that kid cannot find that direction...who is he going to look to for it?

 

[Chris.B]

How do you know if these men were always bums? Maybe they acted as if they were good men then after the kid came, they changed.

According to you people can change overnight:



or is this only true for women?

90% of divorces are initiated by women

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Excuses, excuses.

So men get a pass because they chose to be deadbeats?

Everyone has a choice so to exclude one party from any blame because of their choices doesn't absolve them of shyt. They still contributed to the situation and therefore do not deserve a pass.

 

[151_Pr00f]

fathers magically appearing w/o careers and strong moral fiber wont help anything. sometimes it's better that the nikka she laid up with aint in the picture.

I swear yall can't make up your minds on the issue

 

[Chris.B]

Whose fault is it that they are bums?

It's their fault they are bums..why does the woman want any part of that

 

[marcuz]

How do you know if these men were always bums? Maybe they acted as if they were good men then after the kid came, they changed.

i cant even cosign that cus these women know exactly what type of men they're laying up with. it's not these men are walking around in suits, pretending to obama; only to bust up in them, snatch off the mask, and it's really a chief keef lookin nikka