Sheesh, this tough.
First off, her ex/child's father or whatever's I said super hoe-made...that's a definite lame move. Shorty was young dumb and impressionable, and you did that to her, THEN kept the videos for a decade? Like dude was just TRYING to mess her life up. At what point as a man does HE move on? 10 years tho? Smh, he's controlling and def manipulative. That karma will be a real B to him. Why try to ruin her life? She moved on and seemed happy but here he come to simply ruin it for no reason other than to dog her out.
That is, if she's being honest. I know you can't believe words, only actions. I ne'er stand this now more than ever after some things in my past happened. I was naive but not anymore...
I get her fiancé reaction tho. Although, he should at least have a talk with her. I mean this was a woman you were going to marry, got close to her child etc. she deserves a conversation at the very least. Not saying he hast to take her back, those images can be hard to erase whether they should've been seen or not, can't put toothpaste back in the tube.
I don't know I'm torn. I feel like people don't have the concept of love down. Love SHOULD be stronger than a decade old video, if it was true and pure from the beginning. Not like she lied (assuming she's telling the truth) nobody should be dogged for the past especially with that kind of upbringing. We all make bad decisions. He was going to marry that...I see his side as well, but idk, I've seen a a LOT of the relationships around me survive some truly wild stuff...again, where's the true love?
This tough all around. Feel bad for shorty, and the fiancé. Terrible situation all around. Her child suffers in this too. Basically losing his real pops and the one that actually treated him like a son as well...