Right, right...I hear you. I'm just saying that it's only her part of the story. How do you know her Mom committed suicide because of the abuse? Maybe she had a severe mental issue. That just seems to be extremely conveniently placed in there - almost like: "I'm not making an excuse, but here is my excuse." For all you know the gangbang was her idea and she was basically neutering the ex. Let's say that she left him after they had a kid, broke his heart, and wouldn't let him see him because she was trying to move on to a new sucker...would you still feel bad for her? I'm not saying that she's lying, but I've seen it before...I'm just saying.