HE_Pennypacker
Superstar
Yikes 
Get Gangbanged On Camera And Wonder Why You're Unwifeable :update: video was 4 dudes
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PartyHeart
All Star
Did he know about her messed up childhood? In a way, that's the key element to this story. If he didn't know, his reaction makes sense. He really had no idea of the type of woman he was getting into a relationship with or the type of damage she'd had done to her early in her life. Its not nice obviously and I feel bad for her, but I think it makes sense that he left and there's nothing bad you can say about him. They wouldn't have made it anyway, because he didn't sign up for and wasn't prepared to deal with someone who had the kind of familial background where they had been emotionally and possibly sexually abused.
Now if he did know about her childhood, I think it does make the ex pretty callous to leave like that. No he didn't know about the specific sexual act that scumbag ex sent her. But if someone has bared their soul to you about how their father abused their mother till she killed herself right before their eyes, chances are they acted out in some ways they regret and are trying to get past. And even if not that, that they have some emotional issues you'll have to be sensitive to and work through with them in your relationship. So if he did know, while I still understand him not being able to see her the same, to leave seems really messed up and callous to me. Cause it means he knew she had it rough past in theory and was okay with that, but dealing with it in reality he bolted at the first sign of trouble.
Either way they clearly wouldn't have worked though.
Now if he did know about her childhood, I think it does make the ex pretty callous to leave like that. No he didn't know about the specific sexual act that scumbag ex sent her. But if someone has bared their soul to you about how their father abused their mother till she killed herself right before their eyes, chances are they acted out in some ways they regret and are trying to get past. And even if not that, that they have some emotional issues you'll have to be sensitive to and work through with them in your relationship. So if he did know, while I still understand him not being able to see her the same, to leave seems really messed up and callous to me. Cause it means he knew she had it rough past in theory and was okay with that, but dealing with it in reality he bolted at the first sign of trouble.
Either way they clearly wouldn't have worked though.
Dorian Breh
Veteran
Not to mention, this isn't her PAST, really, she's trailing this bullshyt with her everywhere she goes. She got a son with her ex and potential custody fukkery from what she said. Also, you should never put yourself in a position where your wife's ex can pull your card like that, the way this dude did by sending him that video. That was shots fired, no two ways of looking at it. That's waaay too much leverage for a random stranger to have over you, especially if it's someone else's poor life choices or misfortune or whatever. I can easily see a situation where the ex boyfriend amps up the drama just because he sees the bytch in ole boy. Then ole boy can either be miserable and keep getting his hoe card pulled, or wind up doing something stupid and end up in prison doing 25 to life because he got pushed too far and snapped. He did the right thing bailing 
Mirin4rmfar
Superstar
I don't really blame him. I honestly don't get why women want to hide some of that shyt from the men they are dating. Yes, there is a chance he will move on but there is a guy willing to accept it. Once a woman have a train ran on them, I no longer see her as a potential wife or girlfriend. I don't want the mother of my kids and the woman I wife to be promiscuous and trust I am all for women doing whatever they please with their body.
I like women with self control, as a man, I will lose way more if I marry a woman and she divorces me or cheat. So I can't marry a loose women lol
I like women with self control, as a man, I will lose way more if I marry a woman and she divorces me or cheat. So I can't marry a loose women lol
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
Na brehette bold my shyt out that is contradictory, i didnt read that ramble you posted
nikkaall them damn hoops you jumping through to justify her wanting to be a lil thot
and if you don't do all to please your husband/bf another chick will
Well, here you say that I am jumping through hoops attempting to justify her being a "thot" because she was trying to make her man happy and then said that If I don't do what she did, another woman will. Implying that she did the right thing and the only reason why you think it's wrong is because the relationship ended, something you told me I was "silly" for thinking to could happen to me.
nikka...you can't sex up your husband? you a square chick
Better yet, you probably can't do all that nasty sexual shyt anyways so
And here, you called me a square for not being a thot and praised thots, yet you're in here mad because this chick is a thot.
But let me guess, it's not the same because they were only teenagers.
I think it's about time for another body count thread
Didnt read the entire thread, but...
The only thing i think she did wrong was tell a bunch of strangers the truth about her past instead of telling her fiance. What she explained seemed perfectly understandable. Doesnt mean i would wife her. However, why couldnt you have said all this to him in the first place?? Then let him decide if he wants to continue on with you... You and your ex are linked the rest of your lives via kid. You think the fiance wouldn't eventually find out?? She should've come out ahead of it.
Gotta admit, having actual video puts an exclamation on the whole thing... I could understand how at face value, he views her as a lying snake cause she "let" him believe she was pure and innocent, instead of being real and pumping the brakes, like hold up, theres some things you need to know about me. It aint easy admitting all that, but its the best thing to do.
For some reason, im surrouded by this scenario in real life. Girl i know who's marriage is about to end cause the nikka found out stuff she did before they got together. Granted, theres no reason to hide shyt, but i stand by not judging a woman for what she did before y'all got together, before yall got married. Within the marriage, its ball game if you try some shyt... But before we met??? I mean, cmon dog... shyt really aint fair when she being judged during a time where the both of you didnt even know yall existed. Yall havent even met yet.
If the fiance were to leave, he's leaving on the merit of how she was being represented from a damn decade ago. In ten years, shorty couldve turned her whole life around and be a completely different person... Most of yall nikkas wives have done shyt just as disgusting as this woman and yall will never know about it..
The only thing i think she did wrong was tell a bunch of strangers the truth about her past instead of telling her fiance. What she explained seemed perfectly understandable. Doesnt mean i would wife her. However, why couldnt you have said all this to him in the first place?? Then let him decide if he wants to continue on with you... You and your ex are linked the rest of your lives via kid. You think the fiance wouldn't eventually find out?? She should've come out ahead of it.
Gotta admit, having actual video puts an exclamation on the whole thing... I could understand how at face value, he views her as a lying snake cause she "let" him believe she was pure and innocent, instead of being real and pumping the brakes, like hold up, theres some things you need to know about me. It aint easy admitting all that, but its the best thing to do.
For some reason, im surrouded by this scenario in real life. Girl i know who's marriage is about to end cause the nikka found out stuff she did before they got together. Granted, theres no reason to hide shyt, but i stand by not judging a woman for what she did before y'all got together, before yall got married. Within the marriage, its ball game if you try some shyt... But before we met??? I mean, cmon dog... shyt really aint fair when she being judged during a time where the both of you didnt even know yall existed. Yall havent even met yet.
If the fiance were to leave, he's leaving on the merit of how she was being represented from a damn decade ago. In ten years, shorty couldve turned her whole life around and be a completely different person... Most of yall nikkas wives have done shyt just as disgusting as this woman and yall will never know about it..
Ole boy cant even get some backshots in?
Always talking bout ''if i get divorced'' something else must be goin on that ya aint saying..
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
Ole boy cant even get some backshots in?
Always talking bout ''if i get divorced'' something else must be goin on that ya aint saying..
I never stated what I was and wasn't willing to do with my husband, I just said I don't believe you should always be willing to do anything because it always backfires on the woman. @RetiredTroll just let his imagination run wild and I didn't correct him.
Also, I like to prepare myself for the worst. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong. But relationships end, I'd be dumb to think I'm totally safe.
Damn that's sad asf.
Single mothers 
Another one saved by #GMB. 
I hope he gets that ring back.
I hope he gets that ring back.
Greenhornet
A God Among Kings
fukk these tramps
Kenny West
Veteran
You worried about the wrong thing if your first thought is "what if i get divorced and my future husband finds out".
silly Asshow old are you
she's so goofy it's lowkey endearing
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
she's so goofy it's lowkey endearing
If the chick in the op would have been "goofy" like me, she wouldn't be in this position now, would she?
Marriages end, can't be out here making myself worthless by trying to make my current man happy. I'm just learning from the girl in the ops mistakes. I should get some points for that. Lets say I get divorced and start dating you and my ex tried to shyt on me like hers did, what is he gonna say? She made me wait until we got married to have sex and never did any crazy shyt with me? 
anyways, im done with my essay, it's been fun. goodnight.