People who keep secrets from their fiances/wifes/husbands just don't value marriage like they should. Two people becoming one is not something that should be taken lightly.
I promise long before I ever get down on one knee, my wife is going to know everything about my past... everything.
From there she can make an
informed decision to stay or leave.
But when you want to keep secrets (especially big ones like this), then you're just living in fear that one day you'll get exposed and whole thing will come crashing down.
I can't live like that, honesty is the best policy.
She doesn't need to be marrying anyone that she doesn't feel comfortable enough sharing this with honestly
