Get Gangbanged On Camera And Wonder Why You're Unwifeable :update: video was 4 dudes

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This. I don't think anyone logically wishes for her to die alone because she slutted it out in high school. (And btw, I know PLENTY of chicks who did and their husbands know too and their married.)
However, u can't build on a foundation of lies. Also counseling has to happen.
As a nikka who's job it was to "look after" women (no more details)...I can see right through that generic ass trauma framing she used to pre emptively garner sympathy.
White women most definitely have a playbook for social strategy, similar to fail ass "sistagurl" advice passed from single granny to single mama.
These white hoes have learned how to conceal legit independent prostitution careers from boyfriends and husbands...4 years worth of athletic black dikk (she paid for) in college, and mr charlie has NO IDEA.
Bish was so dishonest she couldn't even give agency to the soul of her mother. The hype up story was too generic and did not match up with my database of real life horror stories, from real life HOES.
shyt like a mama PIMPING her son and daughter for crack money. I've met the grown result of that.
I've heard the real story, and her words and timing aren't adding up.
Plus: those videos aren't that old. Whole story is a mary poppins attempt to shift blame...
Naw.
I'm not buying it. I know the truth is in the middle.
 

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Moral of the story . Never participate in a gang bang and especially if it's being videotaped. and she said she didn't even want to do it, but if the tape showed her going to town like a pro then she just a lying hoe. and it was supposedly 10 yrs prior but who knows how many more whorish escapades she participated in that wasn't on film to come back and haunt her. hard to feel sorry for her but her ex is a fagget too. if I was her fiance I would drop her then drop him.
 

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I actually brought this topic up at work (i work in an ER with a bunch of women), and they were all saying the dude should have forgiven her because plenty of women forgive their mates for cheating. They blamed the male ego on this failure of the union. I brought up the fact the girl was being shady about her past from jump, but they insisted he likely did somethings he isn't proud of that he hasn't told her.

Only a true square or teatoataler would have the moral authority to judge the woman in this case. Anyone else that engaged in similar freaky behaviour and decides to judge this woman would be a hypocrite.

As long as she hasn't been freaking around on her current mate, i think he should for give him. But she needs to come clean about her past and be truthful.
 

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People who keep secrets from their fiances/wifes/husbands just don't value marriage like they should. Two people becoming one is not something that should be taken lightly.

I promise long before I ever get down on one knee, my wife is going to know everything about my past... everything.
From there she can make an informed decision to stay or leave.

But when you want to keep secrets (especially big ones like this), then you're just living in fear that one day you'll get exposed and whole thing will come crashing down.

I can't live like that, honesty is the best policy.

She doesn't need to be marrying anyone that she doesn't feel comfortable enough sharing this with honestly :francis:

So you'll tell her that you never use condoms and happily go raw into perfect strangers? Also that you broke someone's vagina?
 

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Not like old girl was out there just being a hoe. She was participating in sexual acts with her then significant other, manipulated or not. The ex actively, and from the story encouraged, these acts, she did these things for him and now he uses it to destroy her life. He a fukk nikka for that.

The fiancee appeared to take a "don't ask, don't tell" approach to both of their histories. Not sure she is totally at fault for a "lie by omission" when according to the story he told her he didn't care about her number. And let's not act like 18 is outrageous most girls top that number by the age of 21, so good luck to him finding another women for him to want to marry at his age with a number that low.

If it was me, seeing the visual would have been a hard pill to swallow, but considering he was ready to marry her I'd assume their wasn't any infidelity issues apparent, and they had a normal sex life. The past should have stayed in the past, and if her story is accurate she got through a lot and was on the brink of probably having her ideal life only for it to come crashing down at the hands of a bitter ex.
 
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I actually brought this topic up at work (i work in an ER with a bunch of women), and they were all saying the dude should have forgiven her because plenty of women forgive their mates for cheating. They blamed the male ego on this failure of the union. I brought up the fact the girl was being shady about her past from jump, but they insisted he likely did somethings he isn't proud of that he hasn't told her.

Only a true square or teatoataler would have the moral authority to judge the woman in this case. Anyone else that engaged in similar freaky behaviour and decides to judge this woman would be a hypocrite.

As long as she hasn't been freaking around on her current mate, i think he should for give him. But she needs to come clean about her past and be truthful.
Nah.
You're just a bit of a simp.
This is a taped train.
It was on tape (allegedly) in an era where most people didn't tape everything.
Dummies didn't read the rest where the dude's friends were clowning him...one said he hit before.
So trains getting run, the homies smashing, and that's your wife.
 

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however many guys a woman has been with before you, if you satisfy her sexually, she won't go out searching for other dikk

unless of course she wants to spite you, in which case you just cut her off or/and go fukk other hoes
I don't think this is about her body count at all, I think it's more that her fiancé peeped game and realized her baby daddy was vindictive enough to hold this over her (and his) head forever and that he would eventually have to kill him or keep taking Ls, probably, because those types of guys are addicted to fukkery and don't usually go away. I also think it isn't his responsibility to deal with her demons. Any girl who's had to deal with her boyfriend's crazy exes will tell you they lose all respect for the guy because the guy couldn't even keep his own house clean and weakness is a turn off for men and women both.
 

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#1 This is the problem of trying to project a image being "perfect." If she slept with 20 people and knows he thinks it's about 2-3, of course a video of you having group sex with be jarring.

Yes, it was a long time ago and she was young. And I don't even think it makes her a "bad person."

But, dude is entitled to be shocked. And her ex is foul.

But, that's life; your past catches up with you.
 

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That woman has gone through much fukkery early on.. doing gang bangs and shyt at 14? Why ain't she mention the age of her boyfriend when they met? Seems like he as much older.

She will eventually start having sex with her ex again. Marrying her is a huge L no matter how you spin it.
 
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