Get Married Breh...

[Colicat]

Ettes ....

My husband will not confess to cheating
First I will give an outline of my situation and I will end with my question. I discovered five days ago that my husband has been having an affair for about two years.

This is what I discovered:

• three love letters and a 5x7 photo of her in his laptop case.
• a photo memory card with about 10 photos of her—taken with my professional studio equipment in my home in the middle of the day when I was out of town at a conference.
• cell phone records indicating an enormous amount of calls to her—including calls while he was on vacation with his family.

He has admitted:

• They had frequent lunch dates.
• He met her "for just a minute" while he was on his way home from a business trip.
• they kissed once—several months ago.

He is asking me to believe:

• They are just friends.

He explains himself on my discoveries in the following way:

• love letters: At one point she wanted "more," he said this could never be. She got over it and they are buds.
• 5x7 photo of her: Why shouldn’t I have a photo of her?
• Phone calls: Friends talk.
• Photos on memory card: She stopped by. My photo equipment is kept in storage on the third floor of my house. She is drinking a glass of red wine and looking deliriously happy in some photos—in others she is wearing a kimono. Explanation? She brought some costumes over to try on (they met in community theater).

Of course I don’t believe his story. I recognize that he is in complete denial; however, until we can face the truth together there can be no resolution or rebuilding. He is very stubborn and I can almost see him taking the stance of "It’s my story and I’m sticking to it.

Truth About Deception


Ladies: Should she believe her husband and chalk it up to her being insecure?

Fellas: Is this dude telling ? A half truth is better than a whole lie?

Should they stay together or should the wife pull the plug?

 

[wickedsm]

nope. nope. nope.
Im offended that he couldnt even come with better lies actually.

pictures of a bytch chillin in my house with my husband while i was gone?
doing costume changes and drinking wine?
fukk that

 

[iBrowse]

#GMB also applies to women

 

[Colicat]

#GMB also applies to women

Where is the scorecard? @At30wecashout

 

[Colicat]

nope. nope. nope.
Im offended that he couldnt even come with better lies actually.

pictures of a bytch chillin in my house with my husband while i was gone?
doing costume changes and drinking wine?
fukk that

Should she leave? Kick him out? Fight the cos play c*nt?

 

[King Poetic]

I recognize that he is in complete denial; however, until we can face the truth together there can be no resolution or rebuilding

bytch u the one in denial.. nikka cheating on u and u waiting on him to tell u

 

[aXiom]

Why is she still giving this nikka the time of day.. ??? ol self esteem lacking ass... Be a dumb brehette, brehettes

 

[Arithmetic]

 

[intruder]

Sharing is caring. If she was in a polyAmorous relationship it wouldn't be a problem. Switch lifestyles.

 

[havoc]

Brehettes, you either join forces with your male counterparts of GMB movement or get caught up in a marriage that is compromised of lies and cheating.

 

[Colicat]

Brehettes, you either join forces with your male counterparts of GMB movement or get caught up in a marriage that is compromised of lies and cheating.

.... Why so you guys can say women are damaged cat ladies if they aren't married by the time they are 30?

 

[XII]

Of course I don’t believe his story. I recognize that he is in complete denial; however, until we can face the truth together there can be no resolution or rebuilding.

Don't save him

He don't wanna be saved

 

[PeridotPuss]

• Photos on memory card: She stopped by. My photo equipment is kept in storage on the third floor of my house. She is drinking a glass of red wine and looking deliriously happy in some photos—in others she is wearing a kimono. Explanation? She brought some costumes over to try on (they met in community theater).

 

[AtomicUse]

Don't save him

He don't wanna be saved

 

[Kenyan West]

We've all seen this before. Women like that aint going nowhere.