I talk to family all the time, aunts/uncles/first cousins on a monthly basis. Second and third cousins on the other hand may only get seen once a year. Facebook allows you to be dialed in to family you don't get to see as often.
so does a phone.. by dialed in, you mean you can see pics and like shyt and talk randomly on comments.. i'm not saying you're wrong for doing so. or that facebook cannot be used for that
what i'm saying is, i grew up in the 80s... was a teen in the 90s... i lived a perfectly happy life, not caring if 2nd and 3rd cousins was having a party in california next tuesday.. circles was smaller... even family. you had family and you had close family.. you had people you know and you had REAL friends. and none of it required basically spying on someone's life from afar. if you wanted to know more, if you cared, if you wanted updates, you actually put some effort into picking up a phone and talking to them. you had to actually work at relationships with people or watch them die off
i'm not a fan of the 1500-5k "friends" and halfway caring about your problems, issues and life. needing to know everytime you shyt... or what you think of every damn thing.
just deactivate for a day.. i'd like to see everyone do it just to try.. or don't and still do this:
notice how much time you spend on FB alone. every alert you check.. everytime you sign in to message.. all the messenging all day.. how many times you scroll your timeline.. stop to like.. stop to comment.. stop to laugh at someone.. get upset at someone else's thoughts.. go look at pics... every time you upload a pic.. make a status... go back to read comments on your status... sit there and comment back and forth... groups... pages.... watch a video.. watch a live feed.... etc etc etc etc
all that to keep up with some people i reaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaally don't care about.. and i know this, cause without facebook, i don't hear from them and they don't hear for me.. so the only reason i even care, is cause they in my face (book) at the moment.. then i log off and forget they exist until next time