Get turned down for a 2nd date and ask for your $6.80 in drinks back brehs

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i see why she dumped this broke loser after the first date

Seriously, what next? Will he ask for reimbursement on cell phone bill for text message/data plan overage? I hope she blocks his number after transferring the money.
 

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I am struggling to see what is so wrong with what the guy did.

I have never bought a drink for a woman in my life.

Chicks have bought me drinks though. I'd laugh in their face if their if they asked me to lay them back for anything.
 

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My question is if she wasnt feeling him from jump then why did she agree to the date tho?!?!
:why: that just shows you she was out to use the nikka in the first place... :why:

People acting like he's in the wrong but she's the fukked up one. You expect to go out and let a man pay for everything and at the end, he wants a second date but you tell him you not interested?!?! WTF... sounds like some trifling bytch shyt.

Maybe she thought he was cute but then decided he was a lame ass Fukk boi.

Do nikkas think that chicks ain't allowed go change their mind? Just because she decided to go on a date with him might mean she was somewhat interested and then she realized he wasn't really her type. How is that fukking problem?

She didn't try to string him along not was she was rude afterwards.

Women can't accept dates and then say they're not interested, they can't say they're not interested from the get go or they're being bytches, or be cordial or nice.

Chicks can't win on the Coli. If you even agree to a date or make eye contact, you're fukking obligated to keep going on dates until the men makes a choice, huh?
 

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She realized they weren't "right" for each other on the same night AFTER he bought her a drink and got the number :comeon: He shouldn't have even got that far. Women who don't want anything to do with a man act like it.

And don't mistake my post as co-signing dude acting like a kid and wanting his drink back. He's a fukkboy too. That's what the dating game is now full of shyt broads and fukkboys.

So it's not possible that she thought he was kinda cute and was willing to give him a shot but decided it against it after interacting with him more?

You can't think a chick seems like she's a good fit for you but then realize she ain't shyt?
 

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So it's not possible that she thought he was kinda cute and was willing to give him a shot but decided it against it after interacting with him more?

You can't think a chick seems like she's a good fit for you but then realize she ain't shyt?

Some of these posters are projecting. This thread reminds them of that cutie they took out to Applebees who realized he wasn't the man for her.

In their eyes, she used him for a cheap ass date, or in the case, a Happy Hour drink special. It COULDN'T have been because it was something he said or did. Or that she realized they weren't looking for the same things. No...... Because he is handsome, makes 6 figures, and has a 10 inch penis. How can she not want him? So it has to be that she planned to used him for a free meal. Or in this case, a free drink from the Happy Hour list. I wish somebody would expect sex from me just because they bought me something I can already afford.

She clearly made the right decision because he sure showed his ass. Her mistake was entertaining that text conversation for too long. I would have simply let him know I was not interested, wished him the best and not further respond. He is probably one of those 'men' who refers to himself as a nice guy.
 
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Time he spent trying to pursue her after that could have been better spent taking a walk, renting a damn dog for an hour and picking up another bytch. Probably for that same 7 Pounds spent. :martin:
 
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Some of these posters are projecting. This thread reminds them of that cutie they took out to Applebees who realized he wasn't the man for her.

In their eyes, she used him for a cheap ass date, or in the case, a Happy Hour drink special. It COULDN'T have been because it was something he said or did. Or that she realized they weren't looking for the same things. No...... Because he is handsome, makes 6 figures, and has a 10 inch penis. How can she not want him? So it has to be that she planned to used him for a free meal. Or in this case, a free drink from the Happy Hour list. I wish somebody would expect sex from me just because they bought me something I can already afford.

She clearly made the right decision because he sure showed his ass. Her mistake was entertaining that text conversation for too long. I would have simply let him know I was not interested, wished him the best and not further respond. He is probably one of those 'men' who refers to himself as a nice guy.

1) This is why I am a promoter of coffee and park dates at first. If the bytch hasn't kissed you and grabbed your dikk she's not worth the shrimp scampi at Olive Garden. If she has a problem with that she can kick rocks because some bytch will be ecstatic you are even talking to her at all and happily accept.

2) Yes he has all the qualities you Women want on paper but you are still not satisfied. This is the real reason most American Women are "stuck" being "single" and having sex with multiple Men.

3) If you can already afford it - Why expect the Man to pay just because he is courting you? It's 2015 and everything is supposed to be equal with all this gender equality BS. Only when it's convenient for Women. This example shows Men are fighting back and righteously so off the double standard hypocrisy. It's a dirty job but some guy's gotta do it so these bytches can change:manny:.

4) He is a nice guy. He was being polite and she wasn't really giving him a "real" reason why it wasn't working out. Just be real and say "Your breath stinks" or whatever. Just say it respectfully though. "I didn't think you took the date seriously because your hygiene was not up to par". Since it seems they are British I'm sure that is an acceptable way to put it. "Our interests didn't align" etc. Giving these wishy washy reasons makes most Men frustrated not just these Jekyll and Hyde "Nice Guys".
 

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1) This is why I am a promoter of coffee and park dates at first. If the bytch hasn't kissed you and grabbed your dikk she's not worth the shrimp scampi at Olive Garden. If she has a problem with that she can kick rocks because some bytch will be ecstatic you are even talking to her at all and happily accept.

2) Yes he has all the qualities you Women want on paper but you are still not satisfied. This is the real reason most American Women are "stuck" being "single" and having sex with multiple Men.

3) If you can already afford it - Why expect the Man to pay just because he is courting you? It's 2015 and everything is supposed to be equal with all this gender equality BS. Only when it's convenient for Women. This example shows Men are fighting back and righteously so off the double standard hypocrisy. It's a dirty job but some guy's gotta do it so these bytches can change:manny:.

4) He is a nice guy. He was being polite and she wasn't really giving him a "real" reason why it wasn't working out. Just be real and say "Your breath stinks" or whatever. Just say it respectfully though. "I didn't think you took the date seriously because your hygiene was not up to par". Since it seems they are British I'm sure that is an acceptable way to put it. "Our interests didn't align" etc. Giving these wishy washy reasons makes most Men frustrated not just these Jekyll and Hyde "Nice Guys".

Olive Garden? Oh please.

What qualities did this guy display? I must have missed that part.

Men on the internet are fighting back. (However, I believe most aren't getting women in the first place). I don't experience this in my reality.

And she doesn't need to give a reason why she is not interested. She just isn't and he needs to accept that. She was polite in the way that she rejected him. He should have taken the L and kept it moving. It's not like they were together for a year. It was one date.
 

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Why did he keep trying it even though she turned him down like 3 times
cause the dating game is skewed like a motherfukker..

women have it so easy.. take tinder for example... if you're a bytch every swipe is a match..

if you're a man.. unless you're in the top 5% you'll barely get shyt.. except whales and fake profiles

so as a man, if you manage to get a date and the bytch don't flake.. it can make you a lil thirsty
 
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