Closest I had to this was a chick I worked with a couple years. We took breaks together, sat next to each other, I showed her my songs, we flirted & all that. She got promoted to supervisor so things slowed a little Cause she had to be at the desk.
When me & my BM broke up we started fukking. Since we had the type of chemistry for so long most people didn't notice anything. We kept it mostly on the low cause by policy she wasn't supposed to be fukking me.
I don't think she ever actually told any other chick to stay away from me. A couple newer chicks did tell me they wanted to fukk but wouldn't because they knew about us. She was a boss but also an Amazon & them office chicks wanted no smoke whatsoever.