Getting a Divorce Brehs...

[Ziggiy]

So if a woman disrespects you by blowing another dude, it's okay to divorce her.

But not if she disrespects your life/career decisions after you've supported her financially/emotionally for nearly a decade? yeah,ok.

Now if this dude stayed with the chick- who clearly don't respect him enough to respect his decision and not mouth off in the way she did- started fukking around on him, y'all would start yellin about how "she ain't respect you homey".

This dude saw the signs early and got out.

Dudes really suggesting to stay with disrespectful women until they do shyt that can cripple your life and mental well being, just because other people are doing it too.

Hah!

Exactly. Some of these dudes are shock me with that bytch made "How could you treat her like this" bullshyt. They put a woman over their OWN sense of self worth and self respect

 

[Ziggiy]

Been married since I was 24. (28 now). I or my wife would have been filing for divorce the day we got married if simple shyt like that came between us. I hole heartedly disagree with the op. All you weak minded trolls probably never had a successful relationship in your lives. If your wife is wrong for putting in your place. Don't get married brehs

My "place"? nikka LISTEN to yourself. My only "place" to be after such utter and complete disrepect was the first divorce office I could find. Weak minded? Again, most of you are too ignorant and full of false judgment towards your percieved inferiority of the job to see that a woman who doesn't respect you is NOT a woman to stay married too. ANY of you who would have taken such a disrespectful comment in stride or as being "put in your place" have a problem. A problem WAY beyond what you think is an odd career choice. If I was weak minded I wouldn't have made manager in 5 months. If I was weak minded I would've allowed her disrespectful attitude to fester in a number of different ways. If a woman thinks she can say WHATEVER th fukk she wants to you despite how you have treated and respected HER throughout the years then there is a clear and present underlying issue of her lack of faith in you. I chose NOT to allow myself to be disrepected, degraded, or diminished.


"Respect all fear none/my pride is everything"

 

[*Angel*]

This is so sad. I feel sorry for your wife. At least she's free to find a better man. Good luck to you too OP.

 

[CoolCappy]

My "place"? nikka LISTEN to yourself. My only "place" to be after such utter and complete disrepect was the first divorce office I could find. Weak minded? Again, most of you are too ignorant and full of false judgment towards your percieved inferiority of the job to see that a woman who doesn't respect you is NOT a woman to stay married too. ANY of you who would have taken such a disrespectful comment in stride or as being "put in your place" have a problem. A problem WAY beyond what you think is an odd career choice. If I was weak minded I wouldn't have made manager in 5 months. If I was weak minded I would've allowed her disrespectful attitude to fester in a number of different ways. If a woman thinks she can say WHATEVER th fukk she wants to you despite how you have treated and respected HER throughout the years then there is a clear and present underlying issue of her lack of faith in you. I chose NOT to allow myself to be disrepected, degraded, or diminished.


"Respect all fear none/my pride is everything"

Breh I'm still married with a great marriage that I'm willing to work for and I can admit when I'm being an egotistical maniac. You'll see when you're 35 breh.

No pun intended

 

[Family Man]

Breh, extend some mercy. You are out looking for justice because you feel wronged. The next time she tries to apologize, call her out, open your heart, and tell her everything you feel to the point of complete vulnerability, if she downplays it or belittles you, then you will have a good idea of where to go from there. I know you really don't want to divorce her.

It's too late for that. The nikka done made an ass of himself in front of her, her family, and everybody in her life. All he can do now is hang on to his "principles" for dear life and dig deeper in that hole that he's in.

Going forward how can that woman truly respect and honor a man that revealed himself to be a passive aggressive, scheming, conniving little bytch? Homie held on to that slight for months and wasn't even man enough address it with his wife. I'm still over that part. As a man I can't respect any nikka that demonstrates bytch-nikka tendencies. Men aren't supposed to operate that way. He's showing everybody in his life and the wife life that he's not solid. Hopefully the wife lands on her feet and move on and leave that nikka to cling to his misguided notion of respect and what it means to be a man.

My advice to homie is to never reveal to anyone the real reason he divorced his wife.

 

[CHILLL]

Exactly. Some of these dudes are shock me with that bytch made "How could you treat her like this" bullshyt. They put a woman over their OWN sense of self worth and self respect

i honestly think thecoli fukked your brains up
emporer reincar fukked you up
you think you gon be 30 fukking young models cause you got a baby face
you made the the thread "getting divorced brehs" thinking you'd get a standing ovation for being HOH

thecoli ruining lives

 

[CHILLL]

It's too late for that. The nikka done made an ass of himself in front of her, her family, and everybody in her life. All he can do now is hang on to his "principles" for dear life and dig deeper in that hole that he's in.

Going forward how can that woman truly respect and honor a man that revealed himself to be a passive aggressive, scheming, conniving little bytch? Homie held on to that slight for months and wasn't even man enough address it with his wife. I'm still over that part. As a man I can't respect any nikka that demonstrates bytch-nikka tendencies. Men aren't supposed to operate that way. He's showing everybody in his life and the wife life that he's not solid. Hopefully the wife lands on her feet and move on and leave that nikka to cling to his misguided notion of respect and what it means to be a man.

My advice to homie is to never reveal to anyone the real reason he divorced his wife.

imma follow this nikka he spittin dat real

 

[The ADD]

Did someone already mention that may she was down on the idea because of the time he had to invest in moving up the ranks was time for them as couple?

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Exactly. Some of these dudes are shock me with that bytch made "How could you treat her like this" bullshyt. They put a woman over their OWN sense of self worth and self respect

I can understand why youd feel a certain type of way. Y'all don't even have kids and you're a vet yet she's caring about money, some made up currency that's presented to us in paper form

 

[Soundbwoy]

i honestly think thecoli fukked your brains up
emporer reincar fukked you up
you think you gon be 30 fukking young models cause you got a baby face
you made the the thread "getting divorced brehs" thinking you'd get a standing ovation for being HOH

thecoli ruining lives

the way I see it they are both young no kids , if there was any doubt in the relationship it was the perfect time to cut their losses and go their separate ways. You don't have to agree with the reason why op did it at the end of the day he will have to deal with his decision.

 

[RealAssanova]

Can we get a tally of the bytch made men in this thread???

to op

They've know each other for a decade plus... He's has supported her through that time.... He wants to take a new road which he is familiar with and grow from there... His chic comes with that dumb entitled bytch non sense so many of you 3 dollar hoes encompass...

Ain't shyt to workout....

For you young nikkas out there, watch every word n action of the bytch you dumping in and keeping around...

This ain't 1960...

gospel shyt right here breh.

 

[Taadow]

Come to think about it. How was her statement emasculating? I would understand if she's humiliating you in front of others, or talking shii questioning your manhood but that's not the case.

Yeah. I mean, she asked him a question.

Your mate should be able to ask you a question.

I mean, I think he did a good job breaking down his plan of attack as to why he wanted to do it...
seems to me that was all he had to tell her when she asked this. But, as was mentioned, i'm not
married so i'll just sit here and sip dis Henn.

 

[OG Talk]

Exactly. Some of these dudes are shock me with that bytch made "How could you treat her like this" bullshyt. They put a woman over their OWN sense of self worth and self respect

You keep saying "a woman" like she's some chicken you met at the club last week.. That's your wife dawg.. She should be the most important woman in your entire life.. She's supposed to be literally half of your being.. Marriage is a selfless endeavor...The fact that you've kept a tally on the things you've done for her shows you probably weren't doing them for the right reasons...

 

[Goat poster]

My "place"? nikka LISTEN to yourself. My only "place" to be after such utter and complete disrepect was the first divorce office I could find. Weak minded? Again, most of you are too ignorant and full of false judgment towards your percieved inferiority of the job to see that a woman who doesn't respect you is NOT a woman to stay married too. ANY of you who would have taken such a disrespectful comment in stride or as being "put in your place" have a problem. A problem WAY beyond what you think is an odd career choice. If I was weak minded I wouldn't have made manager in 5 months. If I was weak minded I would've allowed her disrespectful attitude to fester in a number of different ways. If a woman thinks she can say WHATEVER th fukk she wants to you despite how you have treated and respected HER throughout the years then there is a clear and present underlying issue of her lack of faith in you. I chose NOT to allow myself to be disrepected, degraded, or diminished.


"Respect all fear none/my pride is everything"

My nikka, just admit you wasn't feeling being married anymore. You would look a lot less lame if you just came out and said "I wasn't feeling being married anymore brehs, that shyt just wasn't for me"

I guarantee nikkas wouldn't be going as hard on you as they are right now, cause for real you sounding like a real egotistical maniac and all the lame trolls on here that agreeing with you only makes it look worse.

I don't look down on working at Best Buy AT ALL, and a can't do nothing but respect the way you rose through the ranks so quick . But as has been stated before that shyt was VERY IMPROBABLE, And ANY nikkas wife would have been concerned. You should have just CHECKED HER ON THE DISRESPECT, THEN EDUCATED HER ON YOUR PLAN.

she could of left your ass right then and there but she didn't.
I could see if she spit in your face EVERYDAY and told you that you would never be shyt, But obviously thats not the case.

A REAL man ain't gonna hold a grudge with his WIFE for months over ONE petty comment, plot and scheme, then abandon her on some " I told you so" shyt. Marriage is about communication NOT HOLDING PETTY GRUDGES.

THANK GOD yall didn't have kids .

 

[Goat poster]

You keep saying "a woman" like she's some chicken you met at the club last week.. That's your wife dawg.. She should be the most important woman in your entire life.. She's supposed to be literally half of your being.. Marriage is a selfless endeavor...The fact that you've kept a tally on the things you've done for her shows you probably weren't doing them for the right reasons...

It's obvious that nikka wasn't built for marriage.
Watch this nikka get married again in the next couple years and then divorce his next wife cause she questioned what kind of pizza toppings he ordered