Getting a Hug from a dude you like unappreciation thread

[Milk N Cookies]

He does have unlimited access to them

You ain't fooling nobody but yourself

No he don't, he can't grab nothing but his dikk while looking at his phone. Had he not fukked up he could do all the things that guys enjoy doing to a nice pair of breast. ( oh God what that may consist of... )

And although I just said that above im very open minded, if we're in a relationship I'm open to a lot of things. But right now we aren't so he'll never know.

 

[Blackout]

But anyway, it still sucks. @Regine Hunter I'm in the same boat with the dude at my job I mentioned in the ask a man thread....

Lucky guy....

 

[Steve Piffler]

You not freaky enough then

That's why he got with the other girl

She probably does things in the bedroom that you won't

she knows damn well she LUH the attention....

 

[mamba]

He chose to keep in touch that way. Everytime he'd send a message I'd hit him with 'oh your girl ain't around so it's safe to talk?'

Doesn't mean you had to agree to it.

That's why I always give chicks the when they try to play the victim card when dealing with nikkas in relationships.

You all know exactly what you all are doing.

You should establish boundaries if you are serious about being a moral person.

Yet, here you are exchanging pics with a nikka in a relationship and video messaging him, trying to show him your ashy cleavage.

How about you go out there and get your own man as opposed to invading another woman's territory?

 

[Mr.Forte]

No he don't, he can't grab nothing but his dikk while looking at his phone. Had he not fukked up he could do all the things that guys enjoy doing to a nice pair of breast. ( oh God what that may consist of... )

Yeah, when a woman is fed up

It's over

But if y'all still friendly

He can still fukk you

Very Easily too

 

[Milk N Cookies]

Doesn't mean you had to agree to it.

That's why I always give chicks the when they try to play the victim card when dealing with nikkas in relationships.

You all know exactly what you all are doing.

You should establish boundaries if you are serious about being a moral person.

Yet, here you are exchanging pics with a nikka in a relationship and video messaging him, trying to show him your ashy cleavage.

How about you go out there and get your own man as opposed to invading another woman's territory?

So, according to you I should have just thrown him in the bushes... I prolly should have... You have a piont there. But I would be in his girl's territory IF I wanted him. I don't want that dude. He's riding the bench & he ain't even the 3rd string. And for ur info I keep vaseline & baby oil on my body my cleavage is never ashy

 

[muse]

Get his number you have a p*ssy doesn't mean you have to be one.

Y'all funny for real. Preciate the pep talk, I will actually use that, but I can't. If we were sitting at the bar, i would approach him, no questions asked. I can't fukk with this dude at all, we work together.

My friend asked me "you fukk with anybody at your job?" And i told her i cant. Its a lot of unattractive mfers there, but a nice amount of good looking ones and with my hoish ass, its all or nothing. I cant be fukking with magic and people like "muse and magic dating" then we end that and i fukk with mystery and people like "she was just fukking with magic!" Dont mix business and pleasure. Now my job contracts out, I'll do that. But direct employees, no no no. I already said he an a$$hole, me asking for his number would make me look too smitten. We playing a game with each other, i cant let him think he ahead. fukk that. I fukked up liking an a$$hole anyway

 

[Milk N Cookies]

Y'all funny for real. Preciate the pep talk, I will actually use that, but I can't. If we were sitting at the bar, i would approach him, no questions asked. I can't fukk with this dude at all, we work together.

My friend asked me "you fukk with anybody at your job?" And i told her i cant. Its a lot of unattractive mfers there, but a nice amount of good looking ones and with my hoish ass, its all or nothing. I cant be fukking with magic and people like "muse and magic dating" then we end that and i fukk with mystery and people like "she was just fukking with magic!" Dont mix business and pleasure. Now my job contracts out, I'll do that. But direct employees, no no no. I already said he an a$$hole, me asking for his number would make me look too smitten. We playing a game with each other, i cant let him think he ahead. fukk that. I fukked up liking an a$$hole anyway

This is exactly what my sister told me I fukked up with the dude at my job. I shoulda just kept my mouth shut instead of feeling myself & going to him letting him kno I was interested.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

He's riding the bench & he ain't even the 3rd string.

So in other words, he's still in the game? :holup: :udgoraw: :scumbag: :yadontsay:

The fukk are you doing having one on one chat sessions with an engaged man who wants to fukk you

Wait no need to answer that was a rhetorical question.

And Im not trying to get at women here.... yall are just showing out today and its very entertaining

 

[Squirtle]

Freaking the fukk out every time he text you, but being too scared/nervous to text back

Girls don't really do this do they?

 

[Milk N Cookies]

So in other words, he's still in the game? :holup: :udgoraw: :scumbag: :yadontsay:

The fukk are you doing having one on one chat sessions with an engaged man who wants to fukk you

Wait no need to answer that was a rhetorical question.

no I meant that he has no chance of getting in the game. He's sitting on the side watchin, he may suit up but he's not leaving that bench. He's going back to the locker room with a clean, sweat free uniform.

 

[muse]

This is exactly what my sister told me I fukked up with the dude at my job. I shoulda just kept my mouth shut instead of feeling myself & going to him letting him kno I was interested.

And thats a hard part. You get impatient, cuz you're not sure if he knows, so you like "i got this" and the shyt end up backfiring now you gotta embarrassing situation that could fukk with your money and/or reputation. fukk that shoulda woulda coulda. Keep your mouth shut. If its meant to be... it'll be

Now one thing i've learned about myself, its so much easier to start something new when you dont want it. When your feelings are into something you act off emotions instead of logically which is why rejection hurts. You can have the same "pickup" line for someone you like and someone you don't. And when that someone you don't rejects you, you come back with a witty response and boom you in there. That someone you like rejects you and you thrown off don't know how to come back. So don't even like nobody NOBODY. Just initiate a platonic friendship first and let nature run its course. But I wasn't tryna preach. Y'all was spitting in here

 

[mamba]

So, according to you I should have just thrown him in the bushes... I prolly should have... You have a piont there. But I would be in his girl's territory IF I wanted him. I don't want that dude. He's riding the bench & he ain't even the 3rd string. And for ur info I keep vaseline & baby oil on my body my cleavage is never ashy

No. Not throw him in the bushes. But, keep it professionally friendly. An email here and there is fine. Maybe a text ever so often. But, video chats, exchanging pics, etc.? That's beyond a friendship, brehette.

That type of shyt eventually leads to an emotional affair, which will certainly result in something physical if geography isn't a factor.

If I know (emphasis on KNOW) a girl is in a relationship, I'm not going to be over here sending her pics, having regular video chats with her, etc. That shyt is foul. I wouldn't want that to happen to me.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

no I meant that he has no chance of getting in the game. He's sitting on the side watchin, he may suit up but he's not leaving that bench. He's going back to the locker room with a clean, sweat free uniform.

No

Someone w/no chance of getting in the game.... is someone watching the game... via satellite... from the moon

If hes on the bench.......................................................................................................................theres pretty good chance. :scumbag: Way higher than the dude on the moon, or even one of the referees or someone watching courtside

It was a good analogy for all the wrong reasons. Imma let u tell it tho :mido: Damn this tea is so crisp.

 

[Milk N Cookies]

No. Not throw him in the bushes. But, keep it professionally friendly. An email here and there is fine. Maybe a text ever so often. But, video chats, exchanging pics, etc.? That's beyond a friendship, brehette.

That type of shyt eventually leads to an emotional affair, which will certainly result in something physical if geography isn't a factor.

If I know a girl is in a relationship, I'm not going to be over here sending her pics, having regular video chats with her, etc. That shyt is foul. I wouldn't want that to happen to me.

Welp I guess I'll just have to distance myself... I never wanted to come off as foul. & that's why I stayed throwing his girlfriend in his face to remind him that he can't call me 'lil baby' or 'chickadee' (yes he did a NUMBER of times). I did that because I know if it were the other way around I would cut my boyfriend the fukk up if I found out he was calling his friend that is a girl such names.