Getting a Hug from a dude you like unappreciation thread

[Londilon]

A guy I was sharing (but I didn't know it) would call me all types of names. They broke up & I found out about his engagement months later while they were still broken up. Fast foward to the last few months, they're dating again. I've completely friendzoned because hes a fukking filthy rat b*stard. However during these months (since June to be accurate) he's still calling me these names that are for his girlfriend only. The other night I video messaged him & accidentally showed my clevage (honestly I didn't do it on purpose) he asked to see more. I tell him I'm not his girl, therefore that ain't his privilege anymore. Then he finally tells me they broke up. I wanted to be a bytch and laugh so hard because he fukked up so badly by playing me the way he did. These chicks ain't loyal now & days but I am & I would have done right by him. Everything but give up the Coli, lol.

You messed up by allowing yourself to be a side hoe. You knew he was taken and you still flirted and wtf are you doing video messaging him when he will never main you? you did it to yourself and I dont feel sorry.

 

[Londilon]

no I meant that he has no chance of getting in the game. He's sitting on the side watchin, he may suit up but he's not leaving that bench. He's going back to the locker room with a clean, sweat free uniform.

If you had those many options then you would never be video chatting an engaged man.

 

[Ohene]

You messed up by allowing yourself to be a side hoe. You knew he was taken and you still flirted and wtf are you doing video messaging him when he will never main you? you did it to yourself and I dont feel sorry.

Meanwhile there's probably dudes who are single that she curves on a weekly basis lol

 

[Hyperion]

Can't tell that nikka how you feel since he got a fiancée

Always having to stop yourself from looking at his beautiful face for too long

Freaking the fukk out every time he text you, but being too scared/nervous to text back

If my brehettes can relate let me know

Did somebody's husband get a boner after you gave him a hug too?

 

[Elle Driver]

 

[Londilon]

.... I was too nervous to enjoy but damn he sucked my t*ts like a champ...

accidental titty flash? surrrre

 

[MrFettuccinnePockets]

And thats a hard part. You get impatient, cuz you're not sure if he knows, so you like "i got this" and the shyt end up backfiring now you gotta embarrassing situation that could fukk with your money and/or reputation. fukk that shoulda woulda coulda. Keep your mouth shut. If its meant to be... it'll be

Now one thing i've learned about myself, its so much easier to start something new when you dont want it. When your feelings are into something you act off emotions instead of logically which is why rejection hurts. You can have the same "pickup" line for someone you like and someone you don't. And when that someone you don't rejects you, you come back with a witty response and boom you in there. That someone you like rejects you and you thrown off don't know how to come back. So don't even like nobody NOBODY. Just initiate a platonic friendship first and let nature run its course. But I wasn't tryna preach. Y'all was spitting in here

Good post

 

[Elle Driver]

Reading through this, what the fukk is wrong with you? That's disrespectful as fukk.

 

[Turbulent]

we need to up that "quick lil gems on dealing with men" thread. some of y'all females need help for real. and some of y'all actually deluded yourself enough to actually believe your own BS

 

[KravenMorehead™]

I cant be fukking with magic and people like "muse and magic dating" then we end that and i fukk with mystery and people like "she was just fukking with magic!"

 

[Turbulent]

Reading through this, what the fukk is wrong with you? That's disrespectful as fukk.

i don't even mind the disrespect. if you're a grimey individual and you own it, it is what it is. you can still respect it on some level. but it's when people are being grimy and doing mental gymnastics to justify their griminess like they are innocent...

 

[Elle Driver]

i don't even mind the disrespect. if you're a grimey individual and you own it, it is what it is. you can still respect it on some level. but it's when people are being grimy and doing mental gymnastics to justify their griminess like they are innocent...

It's disrespectful as fukk considering he's engaged to be MARRIED to his FIANCEE. I don't give a fukk if it's upfront or not, it's just bad taste. It's too much free flowing dikk around for that.

 

[Milk N Cookies]

You messed up by allowing yourself to be a side hoe. You knew he was taken and you still flirted and wtf are you doing video messaging him when he will never main you? you did it to yourself and I dont feel sorry.

There was no flirting involved just regular talking. I wasn't focused on him getting with me making me main chick. He wanted to be my friend so that's where I left things. I don't care if u feel sorry for me or not.

If you had those many options then you would never be video chatting an engaged man.

At the time I didn't know he was engaged. When I found out it has been over.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

If you had those many options then you would never be video chatting an engaged man.

This is supposed to be friendly

 

[Londilon]

This is supposed to be friendly