its kinda tough not for a parent to look at you beyond being the kid...
think about it...they birthed you, that's it, took care of your, when you was a baby, that's it, took care of you when you a child and you still growing...
they demand more respect, but more so they gotta get past their parental sense of entitlement and give more respect...
but even so you gotta be the bigger person, even when dealing with parents, when it gets to fighting thats when the banter back and forth has exceeded just talking...and while yall a father son, yall dont respect each other and act like strangers...or more so one person relies on the other...
thats why you gotta be the bigger person, talk it out...throw him off because he expecting some aggression, but families should not be fighting its a bad look.