Getting out the Friend Zone

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You have to determine what you value and be consistent. That puts you in control of any situation that may arise. Just because society places such a high value on one night stands doesn't mean that has to be what you value in every situation. On the other side, if a girl turns you down sexually not many men are going to value being vulnerable and chasing after that girl. People in general are drawn towards anyone that makes their own decisions and doesn't compromise on what they value. If you have that level of self confidence you don't have to worry about all this shyt because you know that you're never going to hang around in a situation where you feel that you're getting fukked over.
 

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Woman do not care for you unless you have other women who jock you. It's a cold game out there. If a chick ain't giving me free money or free food, then she is worthless to me. Women use their male friends as free meal tickets.
 

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Me and my best friend have sexual tension. We greet each other on the lips. I hold her, wrap my arms around her, you'd think we were a couple, but have never had sex. We known each for a decade. It's the timing I think, but at this point there's mutual respect at this point that neither want to make the first move, but while we're buzzed and wrapped around each other we're looking at each others lips like uh oh. but none makes the move hahaha. the most awkward stall mate ever.

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It's one thing if you just want to be friends with a bish (I got a couple female friends they koo bytches to kick it with but I ain't trying to get with them on any level)

But if you trying to fukk and fail but stick around with that hoe it's your fault you got into the friendzone to begin with :laff:

Most zoned mufakkkas never make their intentions "fully" known and stay in that shyt like the happy-go-lucky homo simp they are.

Maybe zoned dudes might get the puccy once everyone else used the bish up, she's out of her prime and her clock is ticking watching all her homegirls get wife'd up. She gon try to choose any motherfukker with some resources and ain't gonnah do her up like everybody else which is usually a chump (which is a good spot to keep a zoned mafukka). Your zoned because your the "in case shyt happens, I'll have this boy in check" guy or your gay.

Anyway you want to get out? Hit the bish up and let her know "I've known your for a min, we're koo, and i'm trying to get with you, what's up?". If you get rejected, you should keep it moving because your wasting energy on somebody your trying to be with that don't want no part of you.
 

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never ever let a woman know who you are emotionally, until she let you know who she is physically

if you in the friend zone, you are an emotional whore....

she fukked you emotionally before you fukked her physically...

be the video game she cant seem to beat instead of the video game she beat within 2 hours of buying.

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Unfortunately, unless she really... I mean REALLY has a change of heart, it's hard to get out of the friend zone. She already sized you up and figured ya'll should be friends.


Maybe if you stick around, she might develop feelings for you, that's where a lot of guys fukk up, They get friend zoned and they're gone faster than speed of light. :umad:

Lol @ stick around... nah I'm gone fukk that. shyt is self ether hanging out with a chick u into just cuz she like u but not "that" way. Women will take all the attention they can get and nothing good will of this... also waiting for her to change her mind puts all the control in her hands.

The only time I get out of the zone is when I go after her friend or just introduce another girl into the equation. Don't underestimate jealousy and the overall competitive nature of women. Let them see and know u got options instead of having them thinking u just specially simping on em. shyt works like a charm.
 

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Lol @ stick around... nah I'm gone fukk that. shyt is self ether hanging out with a chick u into just cuz she like u but not "that" way. Women will take all the attention they can get and nothing good will of this... also waiting for her to change her mind puts all the control in her hands.

The only time I get out of the zone is when I go after her friend or just introduce another girl into the equation. Don't underestimate jealousy and the overall competitive nature of women. Let them see and know u got options instead of having them thinking u just specially simping on em. shyt works like a charm.

So true, I had a woman take me to the mall just to showcase me and see if she got attention drawn myself. :childplease: All I wanted was to see a movie and kick it at her place. I think the younger the woman is, the more she cares about that kind of stuff.
 

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He ain't "stop" being your friend he never wuz is what we sayin....its a ego thing where nikkas think they can eventually talk they way into it....I think a lot of us can't even imagine a female wanting to be friends with us and not wanting to fuk a little bit bcuz we can't....and I think in most cases the females too have sum level of attraction but the sexual attraction just ain't there to take it to the next level.

nikkas don't have that problem:mjpls: we don't care about no emotional or physical connection:childplease: if u cute we fukin,bottomline.


Once the ego gives in and nikkas realize she ain't givin it up we usually make our exit.:lolbron:....I got female friends that put me in the friendzone I'm still cool with,but its very few females that have that cool of a personality to maintain a "platonic friendship"...men and women usally don't vibe on that level....make no mistake id still fuk the shyt outta these women and still take cracks from time to time:lolbron:...I definitly ain't hangin with them like I do with my nikkas though,more like accuantinces...bein best friens with a woman I can't even imagine that:mindblown:

Ask yourr homeboys if they wanna fuk and see what happens if that would be offensive to you:mjpls:...bet they all say yeah:lolbron:...don't see why that would be seen as offensive to find out male friends wanna fuk...I still would fuk my female friends but don't wanna be they man and ain't trippin if I never do.

I get what you're saying but I was talking about someone were cool with for like yrs... They tell you how they feel and then they *POOF* disappear, not say hi to you anymore, even delete you from Facebook.. I'm speaking from a woman's point of view. I mean if we were cool for a while why be fake? Musta had a different ulterior :scheme: That tripped me out about a lot of dudes after a while. I quickly learned not to characterize all guys after that. I have some guy friends that tried me at first then were like :yeshrug: .. N also guy friends that never even tried me, just knew them since 8th grade n shyt :pachaha:
 

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i been chillin with this younger bytch (22) fukking and what not and she changed her fb to in a relationship, my boy called and asked me about it and I was like :what: , she a nice girl and all but too nice for me, i prolly lead her on to much staying at the crib and what not but i told her straight up I'm not trying to date.

damn always getting caught up but the puss is so :win:

Back on point tho- Are friend zone nikkas getting no play at ALL? If you do makeout and what not is that friend zone shyt (no p*ssy play)? I can't be friends with women they just are meat toa wolf.
 
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