Need to use a bit of common sense with it.
If you have not spoken to someone in years after fukking them, they might feel some type of way about you not contacting them.
Trying to shoot your shot provides them the opportunity of being able to look back at whatever you had going on and be the one to call it off.
Ypu want to pick from memory lane, your ego needs to accept providing people with the win they were looking for or, quite probably, being in a different place in their life.
If you have not spoken to someone in years after fukking them, they might feel some type of way about you not contacting them.
Trying to shoot your shot provides them the opportunity of being able to look back at whatever you had going on and be the one to call it off.
Ypu want to pick from memory lane, your ego needs to accept providing people with the win they were looking for or, quite probably, being in a different place in their life.