Damn OP
You just gotta keep improving
Save money (the more money you have the less fukks you give. Which equals confidence)
Dress better , keep your hygiene up, focus on your hobbie
And just keep shooting your shot.
Not to even be argumentative. None of that is relevant with regard to what OP said.
Self respect and self love goes well beyond all of what you are saying. You can easily take a no when none of those things are available.
Saying stuff like this is how ridiculously unattractive (physically and personally) people get humongous egos, thinking because they have things, they deserve things.
I understand that "easily taking a no" is relative. But the reaction to a no can change when the perspective of self changes.
But I do want to say, for a man to give himself more options, what you mentioned are things that can absolutely help. But they aren't necessities. nikkas just gotta play the field, AS THEMSELVES, and let the chips fall as they may. Fail nikka, and get up, fail some more and then find the one that's for you, but you gotta keep trying and possibly keep failing with the attitude that its going to come to you. It's that elementary. In the meantime while you are on your search (or if you are just cooling) work on self and get your paper and personal relationships in order. I can say this as an old nikka that's been through strife.
Trust the process and enjoy the journey of your personal up and downs.
The ugliest, trashiest, broke ass nikkas find their match and can have healthy, loving relationships and families. And it required nothing more than just being who they were born as. No top job. No fancy clothes. No perfect cologne. No perfect hair cut or style. No horse meat. Not being 6'4+. No gym rat with crazy muscles. None of it.
BE YOU nikkaS! Stop being afraid of failing with women or taking it so personally. Stop worrying about the money in your pocket as if its a golden ticket to a happy relationship. Recognize what you like, what you want and go from there. Disregard the worldstar/baller allert type talk, the movies and shows that embellish and be real with yourself and others. Just fukking be real nikka.
Wooooosah.
Apologies to you breh, I quoted you but this is more of a general rant than directed at you or what you said. It just sparked the thought. I'm tired of nikkas sounding like sad sacks because they refuse to buy into themselves and instead buy into what the world tells them they need to be or should be, then getting hurt by women who also follow that. Grow the fukk up.
