'getting spanked as a kid linked to dating violence today'

[Grand Conde]

shyt I make my kids do book reports and detailed ass cleaning around the house while also taking away tv and all electronics

Ass spankings only work for so long so I stopped

Kids need schedules, they need things to do, otherwise they turn into teens that do nothing but look at their phone.

 

[mortuus est]

Ass spankings only work for so long so I stopped

tell that to african parents , they stil try put hands on you when you're 16

 

[Rockstar Mom]

I’m I was a violent teen/young adult so

But, I try not to spank. I use it as a last resort. My son will probably get spanked twice a year. Taking away tv/electronics/toys/freedom gets way better results than a spanking.

Honestly A LOT of kids don’t get spanked. They get straight up abused. I cringe when people talk about getting beat with extension cords, hangers, metal rods etc as if thats some badge of honor. Ask yourself if you would ever hit your own child with a extension cord? So why did/do you think it was an acceptable punishment for you as a child?

 

[Free White & 21]

I got spanked like 3 times in my life

My moms emphasized critical thinking and having the confidence to use your words to express yourself

Don’t front. A few of you nikkas used to get beat with extension cords like my patnas

 

[DrBanneker]

I spank BUT

I never spank out of anger or frustration--it shouldn't be emotional. There are clear boundaries you set (like not doing as you are told 3x) and when they cross that line they know the punishment. Abuse stems from anger and frustration thinking hitting a kid more will make them behave. You can beat them but it has to be a last resort, not the standard.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

A team of researchers interviewed 758 19- and 20-year-olds in southeast Texas

758 people isn't enough to conclude anything. since they are probably white texas kids i'm not surprised with them beating their mates

You dont think brehs beat women

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

I make my boy do push-ups. Spankings do nothing.

 

[FSP]

that's actually a pretty fair statement

Most women who accept abuse were abused as kids I read somewhere. Then in turn so that to their kids. It’s like a vicious cycle

 

[AlainLocke]

My parents beating me just made me wanna kill them so...


Beating kids doesn't really prevent bad behavior...it just makes them hate their parents...

Also beating kids makes kids violent and it makes parents look dumb...

Also it makes kids grow up to be weak motherfukkers that think they deserve to be abused or makes them wanna abuse others when they don't listen to them...

But people are still just as violent no matter if they got their ass kicked or not as a kid by their parents...humans are just a violent species...

 

[DIMES]

There is no point in hitting a child, they just get acclimatised to it after a couple of times. Whenever I got hit with a wooden spoon I just

I used to never respect a rule until my parents got the belt on me


The ones I actually laughed at were the softies talking about "time out"

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

My parents beating me just made me wanna kill them so...


Beating kids doesn't really prevent bad behavior...it just makes them hate their parents...

Also beating kids that makes them violent and it makes parents look dumb...

Also it makes kids grow up to be weak motherfukkers that think they deserve to be abused or makes them wanna abuse others when they don't listen to them...

But people are still just as violent no matter if they got their ass kicked or not as a kid by their parents...humans are just a violent species...

nah

 

[Citi Trends]

i remember the first time i just laid there and didnt cry when getting a whooping

just looked back at my grandma like denzel in glory and she just walked out the room

goat feeling

 

[FSP]

My parents beating me just made me wanna kill them so...


Beating kids doesn't really prevent bad behavior...it just makes them hate their parents...

Also beating kids that makes them violent and it makes parents look dumb...

Also it makes kids grow up to be weak motherfukkers that think they deserve to be abused or makes them wanna abuse others when they don't listen to them...

But people are still just as violent no matter if they got their ass kicked or not as a kid by their parents...humans are just a violent species...

I always tell people the worst kids in my classes got the hardest whooping at home

So when they got to school nothing fazed them

Seems like it builds the wrong kind of character

I only put the hands on my girls if they are doing something that can potentially put them in danger

 

[Serious]

A team of researchers interviewed 758 19- and 20-year-olds in southeast Texas

758 people isn't enough to conclude anything. since they are probably white texas kids i'm not surprised with them beating their mates

@Call Me James more people who dont understand stats

 

[B86]

Beat children unconscious brehs.

shyt...I turned out pretty damn ok compared to the rest of the world. That nikka did something right raising me