Gf getting harassed by thirsty coworker

What should be the next course of action

  • Go to her work, give him a wedgie, and take his lunch money

    Votes: 7 70.0%
  • Let sleeping dogs lie

    Votes: 3 30.0%

  • Total voters
    10

Vandelay

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Why does he have her number?
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I’m about to have a Brad Pitt vs Weinstein moment. My gf works with this breh that is about 5’2’’, nothing against short brehs. A few days ago, she told me this guy has been harassing her. He texted her some simpy, flirty texts, while she incessantly rebuffed him, and told him she was not single. Also gave him a stern warning that she’ll go to HR if he doesn’t stop. shyt is most likely resolved, but a part of me seriously wants to give this manlet another reason to be angry at the world.

Let HR handle it.
 

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Assuming this is real... 🤣

Even "if" she left out the part about him texting her, even "if" you don't know anything about a phone, you never get involved with situations your woman has at work if it isn't physical. Ever. Be a man and encourage her following the proper steps and chain of command thru HR and senior management...

Why? Because you never know how these situations at work developed. Ever. And again I'm speaking from the premise of having no information shared, that there was phone communication. Doesn't matter. Your woman says she has a situation turning into harassment at work, listen to her, support her, do not make yourself a part of that story because YOU. DO. NOT. KNOW. THE. DETAILS.

Honestly you could apply this to any work scenario. Beefing with coworkers, beefing with management, struggling for acknowledgment, etc. Anything. Do not make yourself a part of that story. You don't really know why muhfukkas won't acknowledge your woman at work, maybe she doesn't do a good job. You don't know why that chick at her spot doesn't like her and shyts on her, maybe your woman initiated the bad blood...

The ONLY exception would be if he/someone physically puts their hands on your woman.......and in that scenario it's dicey to put yourself in it, for the simple fact if someone is genuinely touching your woman inappropriately (meaning without consent if sexual, or without provocation if violent--punch/slap/push) they've broken the law and your woman should have tge wherewithal to have reported that to both senior management and The Law if HR dragging ass about firing this person, your woman should already be ahead of this when she's telling you this and you're her support...

But I stress again, even if there's no physical contact, even if you have no reason to believe there was phone contact. You DO NOT get involved in your woman's work issues...
 

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If ya girl works at a call center you lost already. Just accept the consequences.
 
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