Gf lost her job

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I dont understand how the vacation is related. I saw you said you dont want bills to stack up... but that would suggest the vacation was ill advised to begin with. At the end of the day, yall live together. So this wont be the last time her issues become your issues. So now is a good time to regroup and make sure you're good for the storms ahead. I'd say go on the vacation and mark it as a turning point in your relationship.

And do y'all have an emergency fund? I'm not saying use it if you do but if you do.. that should be on her to replenish it when y'all get back if the bills are coming in hot. And she better be sucking it slow while yall in that hotel room. :ufdup:


Nah I'm playing breh but losing this job should be the best thing that happened to her looking back. Help her get there.
 

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Had one of the best days ive ever worked yesterday. Everything went smooth, had a good staff, good weather, made some extra cash dropping off some tile. Day was smooth af until i got off work and called my gf.

She told me she was pretty much fired as soon as she tried to clock in to work. Apparently her manager had her training her replacement:francis:.

Even worse we had a vacation lined up on November 3rd. 4 night stay in Orlando that i probably gotta cancel since i may have to help her out financial wise.
Take her on that vacation, canceling will make you look cheap and besides she's in a low place right now and it will help lift her spirits and probably motivate her
 

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Tell her to keep her head up. Plenty of jobs still out there. Getting laid off sucks…but it’s not the end of the world. Be sure to try to encourage her and keep her in good spirits.

Facts...

In this era, cats don't wanna work anyways so it's a influx of jobs out there.

If u get fired, charge to the game.

See where u went wrong at and try again.


After working in warehouses where they don't give enough hours, I'm grateful that my man's recommended for me to get into security..


Now I am able to get a weekly paycheck as well as having a guard card.
 

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Thats what i told her. Told her it may be a blessing in disguise but also told her to get out of the restaurant business for good.

Security>>>Restaurant Business..


Matter Of fact OP, ask her if she wants to be a CNA/GNA.

They make decent paper and the classes don't take long
 

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Had one of the best days ive ever worked yesterday. Everything went smooth, had a good staff, good weather, made some extra cash dropping off some tile. Day was smooth af until i got off work and called my gf.

She told me she was pretty much fired as soon as she tried to clock in to work. Apparently her manager had her training her replacement:francis:.

Even worse we had a vacation lined up on November 3rd. 4 night stay in Orlando that i probably gotta cancel since i may have to help her out financial wise.
Tell her to visit this site. Some of them pay you to get a skill: https://www.careeronestop.org/
 
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