Ghosting is the reality of the modern dating world

[Marezzy]

Idk breh. I used to think that with some chick that would forget shyt and respond 2 days later. She's legit bad at texting according to what her friends told me. I kept it cool cause her replies had at least a lot of content and were pretty fun. Couple months later now she's my girlfriend.

She still fukkin suck at texting though.I gotta snapchat her when I want a quick reply.

That's the reason why right there. She showed interest when she text you. It's easier to deal with it when your getting real detailed responses. Good for you man.

 

[Rawtid]

You got some serious problems with yourself if you cant simply say "Yeah, I dont think things are going to work out. you're a great person but we just dont click" instead of fukking people feelings up by dropping out of nowhere making it seem like theyre a horrible person.

They probably are a horrible person if they got ghosted. its apart of the game.

 

[Londilon]

I got it done to me once.
My first love...
After months of dating heavy and raw-dogging everywhere we went, she just up and disappeared.
Didn't hear from her for 2 months straight.
Was heartbroken and suicidal those 2 months.
Then...out of the blue...I get a call from a connecticut number I never seen before.
IT WAS HER!!
Turns out her family abducted her from manhattan to connecticut because they didn't want her with me. They had some other guy they wanted her to marry and apparently I was in the way. She loved me and refused to marry him but she was being held hostage in connecticut pretty much and had to call me from a payphone once she convinced her family she could be trusted to go out of the house.

fukked up shyt.
These foreigners have some fukked up tradidtions.
Needless to say, she was the first and LAST foreigner I ever dated/sexed/went out with.

did you ever meet back up with her?

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

did you ever meet back up with her?

Yep!
She's the only one I ever dumped whoever I was with when she came around. We just knew that we were meant for each other and sex was gonna happen. We dated again for about 2 months before I left NY to move south.
Then about two years later, she moved south to be with me. We lived down there together for about 5-6 months before we moved back up north but when we got settled down, it didn't last.
Her family started getting in the way again.

Here's a link to the whole sad story...

http://www.thecoli.com/posts/21444066/

 

[Malta]

You refuse to put #ImportGang teachings into practice, so this will be your theme song -

 

[Da King]

there is no such thing as dating anymore.

unless the girl got your ring, you sharing that

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

But when women do this.....they get called all types of names. And what is wrong about being single? Why are people always trying to make sure they have someone on deck? Reeks of insecurity, both men and women.

Nobody likes to feel disposable or to play second fiddle to another phone contact, but there's enough ppl that do this to make it pretty much idiotic to not have a backup plan for yourself. '

Take your beef up up with Nash - Zero-sum game - Wikipedia

As for your last question - really? Being single because you want to is one thing, but if guys are single because they've been rejected or ghosted multiple times for very dubious reasons this is supposed to feel good? Insecurity does not even factor into it. Guys just want to get a nut, and we are looking for the most efficient way to do so.

 

[iBrowse]

You refuse to put #ImportGang teachings into practice, so this will be your theme song -

Naw I was crying for the people who are dying alone breh its cold ouchea but I'm good .

 

[cocoabutter27]

so just cause you're single you shouldn't date or have fun with the opposite sex? don't you ever get horny?

Some people need to be single to get themselves together. They are no good for anyone at that moment. People don't have to jump from relationship to relationship, especially if they can't end one without ghosting someone.

 

[cocoabutter27]

Nobody likes to feel disposable or to play second fiddle to another phone contact, but there's enough ppl that do this to make it pretty much idiotic to not have a backup plan for yourself. '

Take your beef up up with Nash - Zero-sum game - Wikipedia

As for your last question - really? Being single because you want to is one thing, but if guys are single because they've been rejected or ghosted multiple times for very dubious reasons this is supposed to feel good? Insecurity does not even factor into it. Guys just want to get a nut, and we are looking for the most efficient way to do so.

Backup plan for what? Not having to spend a few nights alone? That's what most of these people need. If you are concerned about being ghosted then stop fukking unstable randoms (this goes for men and women). Date (just date) and then get into relationships with people that you trust more, they are less likely to ghost you.

 

[Collateral]

About to go ghost on this chick right now actually.

 

[DatBoiHawk]

About to go ghost on this chick right now actually.

Mr too. Met this bytch online and she showed up over weight

 

[fukkyalifestyle]

Mr too. Met this bytch online and she showed up over weight

I just face timed with a girl before we met because I had a feeling she was bigger than she let on. Didn't call her after face timning.

 

[At30wecashout]

Dunno why this was bumped, but im riding the same train: fukk a coward. I hate ghosting.

That is all.

 

[Ninjaz In Paris]

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