Girl agrees to hookup, later claims manipulation/coercion. What are your thoughts?

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Stop:rudy:

Women beg men to do all kinds of shyt we don't wanna do (spend time, spend money, get in fights with other nikkaz to defend her honor, help her friends & family) and what is our recourse?

If a broad talks me out of my money, then I just got got

If a I talk a broad out of her draws, then she just got got

Charge that shyt to the game.

We're all adults here.

All this "I felt uncomfortable
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" bullshyt goes out of the window once you become an adult.:gucci:
As a man you need to lead and do what is right. Have some principles.
If you're gonna live your life going tit for tat off what every woman has done to you...that's weakness.

Be better.

:coffee:
 

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he fukked up on the no condom part. If you a dude it's best to not object to anything that's being negotiated
She can now use that condom thing and the roughness of the sex to build the accusation around. Just go along with what the chick wants, fukk and dash. She can still lie even with that but at least she'd have to just blatantly be making shyt up so maybe you can push for lie detector if shyt hits the fan
 

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Everyone is the a$$hole here. She's carefully choosing her words so that she can say she's not technically accusing him of rape, but she basically is.

This guy needs to stop begging and trying to change womens minds behind closed doors. If you want to sweet talk her or convince her do it in public, but if a girl says no behind closed doors i hit the :hubie: and keep it moving. Truth is women know that one on one we can take what we want if we are wired that way. :patrice: better to avoid any gray areas.
See there's a gray area man....

Because to some women no doesn't mean no. They want you to beg in essence because it makes them feel wanted and they view it as assertive. I had an ex that I did this hot / cold shyt with, where I'd act uninterested when she wanted me to beg and be all over her. Even when I wasn't begging she'd get worried and think I didn't love her or something.

It's a tough call when women are insecure man.
 

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See there's a gray area man....

Because to some women no doesn't mean no. They want you to beg in essence because it makes them feel wanted and they view it as assertive. I had an ex that I did this hot / cold shyt with, where I'd act uninterested when she wanted me to beg and be all over her. Even when I wasn't begging she'd get worried and think I didn't love her or something.

It's a tough call when women are insecure man.
 

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She being disingenuous. She was fukkin for money and he probably didnt pay. This wasn’t rape.:camby:

As for him, why are so many dudes so fukked in the head sexually? I swear everybody needs therapy. If you get enjoyment outta hurting people non-consensually during sex, you need to be banned from sex for life.

Also if he wasn’t treating her right sexually, she should have communicated that right there. For some women, it seems unfathomable to stop these idiots and tell them to bounce if they not hitting it right or too rough or too quick. But they contributing to the amount of trash dikk in the world by not confronting this shyt.

This ain’t that silly ass porn they be watching. Pile driving and all that other shyt ain’t cute. Stop letting people fukk over you and crying on the internet. As soon as he tries some stupid shyt, cease and desist. Otherwise, if it’s not fun for you, why are women even having sex?:mindblown:
 
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This is fukking hoebable at its finest. She only upset cuz he did the smash n dash. Even if he wasn't rough and did the gentle thing she'd still be upset and feeling used. Dude sent her a dikk pick and she said lets hook up....what did she expect a fukking scholar and a gentleman. Try meeting dudes not on onlyfans you onlythot.
 

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Regretting having sex with someone is not being coerced. This is muddying the waters for people who are actually taken advantage of.
 
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