Girl agrees to hookup, later claims manipulation/coercion. What are your thoughts?

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Cuz 2020. Some women think moving reckless and stupid is cute.

Being very serious here this is some nonsense. Sometimes i wonder if some of these stories arent lowkeh humble brags. Not this one in particular but otherz
Gotta be, even with this post, not to sound harsh but it’s like what are we supposed to do? You the one that let him hit...
 

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If you're with a woman and she asks you to stop doing anything sexual and you use that moment to negotiate and continue what you're doing you're a fukking idiot and you opened yourself up to anything coming your way. It doesn't matter what stupid decisions she made to allow you into her home.

Some of you sound like the women y'all hate in here talking about what should happen while completely ignoring what actually happens.

What should happen is a women should be able to walk outside completely drunk and naked and not get sexually assaulted/rapped because being naked isn't consent. What actually happens is she's probably gonna get sexually assaulted at a minimum.

A guy should be able to have a conversation and come to an agreement in the heat of the moment and have that be enough for consent. What actually happens is the woman will write tweets about the encounter or send her story to a news outlet because she had second thoughts or maybe didn't feel safe enough to say no after she made a bunch of bad decisions that led to that moment. Word to guy in the story and Aziz Ansari.

It's really that simple guys. Good luck out there, some of y'all need it.
 

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If you're with a woman and she asks you to stop doing anything sexual and you use that moment to negotiate and continue what you're doing you're a fukking idiot and you opened yourself up to anything coming your way. It doesn't matter what stupid decisions she made to allow you into her home.

Some of you sound like the women y'all hate in here talking about what should happen while completely ignoring what actually happens.

What should happen is a women should be able to walk outside completely drunk and naked and not get sexually assaulted/rapped because being naked isn't consent. What actually happens is she's probably gonna get sexually assaulted at a minimum.

A guy should be able to have a conversation and come to an agreement in the heat of the moment and have that be enough for consent. What actually happens is the woman will write tweets about the encounter or send her story to a news outlet because she had second thoughts or maybe didn't feel safe enough to say no after she made a bunch of bad decisions that led to that moment. Word to guy in the story and Aziz Ansari.

It's really that simple guys. Good luck out there, some of y'all need it.


Communication is apart of good sex? Respect is something different.

The point of difference is a good dude will show his intent to be respectful from jump. Sending dikk pics and being pushing before you even know someone(even just a hookup) is a bad sign.

I mean dude told who he was from the jump but she was interested so let it pass and he knew he was in.
 
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If you're with a woman and she asks you to stop doing anything sexual and you use that moment to negotiate and continue what you're doing you're a fukking idiot and you opened yourself up to anything coming your way. It doesn't matter what stupid decisions she made to allow you into her home.

Some of you sound like the women y'all hate in here talking about what should happen while completely ignoring what actually happens.

What should happen is a women should be able to walk outside completely drunk and naked and not get sexually assaulted/rapped because being naked isn't consent. What actually happens is she's probably gonna get sexually assaulted at a minimum.

A guy should be able to have a conversation and come to an agreement in the heat of the moment and have that be enough for consent. What actually happens is the woman will write tweets about the encounter or send her story to a news outlet because she had second thoughts or maybe didn't feel safe enough to say no after she made a bunch of bad decisions that led to that moment. Word to guy in the story and Aziz Ansari.

It's really that simple guys. Good luck out there, some of y'all need it.
Stop with this shyt:mjlol:. Men expect grown women to have accountability for their actions. You know like men are expected to.:francis: Being an a$$hole isn't illegal.
 

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Communication is apart of good sex? Respect is something different.

The point of difference is a good dude will show his intent to be respectful from jump. Sending duck pics and being pushing before you even know someone(even just a hookup) is a bad sign.

I agree it's a bad sign but some people are stupid and ignore them. All I'm saying is the dude is equally as dumb because what I read exposed him to unnecessary bullshyt in his life when he could've zipped up and walked away or kept having wack sex :francis:
 

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He's a bad person because he ran through some whore?

:dead: You cats are so damn goofy man.
If a girl tells you she's uncomfortable with something like that and you press on....yeah, you're a bad person.
Your parents never taught you morals? You panty sniffing mufukka...
 

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Stop with this shyt:mjlol:. Men expect grown women to have accountability for their actions. You like men are expected to.:francis: Being an a$$hole isn't illegal.

If you think convincing someone to do something you know they might not want to do lets you off the hook you're a fukking idiot. If you don't read the news and know what the climate is you're a fukking idiot. If you want sex that bad that your defense is I got her to say yes you're a thirsty idiot. Good luck my man. If you had a son you'd be giving him my advice. Tell me I'm lying.
 

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I agree it's a bad sign but some people are stupid and ignore them. All I'm saying is the dude is equally as dumb because what I read exposed him to unnecessary bullshyt in his life when he could've zipped up and walked away or kept having wack sex :francis:
I think you are giving to much credit to an obvious predator( probably will escalate). Wack sex wasn’t what he cared about.

He follows her on several social media pages??? He wanted his fantasy and got it.
 

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Dude sounds like an a$$hole and needs karma to catch up with him, but she did invite him over.
 

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I think you are giving to much credit to an obvious predator( probably will escalate). Wack sex wasn’t what he cared about.

He follows her on several social media pages??? He wanted his fantasy and got it.

I agree with that too, she allowed a sexual predator in the house but you're making my point. So is she supposed to be rapped/sexualy assaulted or is that likely to happen. He gets a pass cuz he got in the house and got her to say yes? If this was some of these guys momma's they'd be Triple H mad :dead: and see it the other way.
 
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