Give a young breh some life advice

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Bruh all I know is congrats on making it to the finish line. I started college in 2009. It's 2018 and I don't even have an associates:russ:

Hopefully you are not in a ton of debt, but with that in mind, that might be your plan of attack. Whatever the major, leverage that into a job that can pay off whatever

debt you have. The real thing that gets people stuck into shyt they don't wanna do for the rest of their lives? Debt. People stay in jobs cause they have obligations they

took on before they realized what they wanted to do. Alternatively, they didn't figure out what they really want to do, but they are tied to their jobs now and have no room

to explore other shyt. Same reason folks don't like going to the doctor a lot, or dentist, etc. You accrue more bills and life becomes more about your obligations than your

passions. Figure out how to get to the money as quickly as possible, and marry your dearest hobbies so when you get off work, there is something you love to do that in an hour

or two can undo all the frustration you got from the 8+ hours of doing shyt you don't want to do. When you debt free, you can throw that shyt in the trash and move to something

else.
 

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I'm 24 about to be a college grad this year and I'm still clueless as fukk about what direction I want to go.
It's the uncertainty of committing to a career or profession not knowing it if it will all work out. I got big dreams and being uncertain about the future has been causing me major anxiety. To the point where I've missed opportunities because I feared committing to it. Me not choosing a path is making me not do anything at all and I'm ready to start on my path but I have no idea where to get started. I guess I thought after 4 and half years I would have had it all figured out. lol When I was a kid I thought 24 was a grown ass man but now I see I'm still young and just as unsure.


also I will take general advice for a young man in my position.

OP all of us human beings are finding our place in this world :smile: Life purpose and OP I am a college dropout at 23 years old :smile:
 

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You think I can do that with a basic AA?

Bruh all I know is congrats on making it to the finish line. I started college in 2009. It's 2018 and I don't even have an associates:russ:

Hopefully you are not in a ton of debt, but with that in mind, that might be your plan of attack. Whatever the major, leverage that into a job that can pay off whatever

debt you have. The real thing that gets people stuck into shyt they don't wanna do for the rest of their lives? Debt. People stay in jobs cause they have obligations they

took on before they realized what they wanted to do. Alternatively, they didn't figure out what they really want to do, but they are tied to their jobs now and have no room

to explore other shyt. Same reason folks don't like going to the doctor a lot, or dentist, etc. You accrue more bills and life becomes more about your obligations than your

passions. Figure out how to get to the money as quickly as possible, and marry your dearest hobbies so when you get off work, there is something you love to do that in an hour

or two can undo all the frustration you got from the 8+ hours of doing shyt you don't want to do. When you debt free, you can throw that shyt in the trash and move to something

else.
 

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You think I can do that with a basic AA?
:yeshrug:Depends what the debt looking like. Depends if you get lucky and hop into a career paying you them thangs. Depends. Only thing that is sure, is you can

say "Nah I don't need that, I need these bills gone."
 

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I'm 24 about to be a college grad this year and I'm still clueless as fukk about what direction I want to go.
It's the uncertainty of committing to a career or profession not knowing it if it will all work out. I got big dreams and being uncertain about the future has been causing me major anxiety. To the point where I've missed opportunities because I feared committing to it. Me not choosing a path is making me not do anything at all and I'm ready to start on my path but I have no idea where to get started. I guess I thought after 4 and half years I would have had it all figured out. lol When I was a kid I thought 24 was a grown ass man but now I see I'm still young and just as unsure.


also I will take general advice for a young man in my position.

1. Asking for advice on here :no:

2. Find an older man in REAL LIFE that has been in your position and has PROOF and seek counsel from him
 

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You really need to look into that officer program bruh...

You only 24 too? If you not out of shape, run that bullshyt 2 miles in like 18 minutes and become an Airforce officer

You wouldve learned, done, and seen so much shyt by 30.

Probably got a nestegg, a good chick, experience, connections, training, weapons training, furhered education, etc.

By the time you leave and get a military contract job or civilian job you would be on top of the world
 

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Nah I meant I have a basic ass AA can I do anything with that to get a higher paying job?

:yeshrug:Depends what the debt looking like. Depends if you get lucky and hop into a career paying you them thangs. Depends. Only thing that is sure, is you can

say "Nah I don't need that, I need these bills gone."
 

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Nah I meant I have a basic ass AA can I do anything with that to get a higher paying job?
Ah. I can't say for sure, but before I snagged my current job, my highest paying gag came through knowing the right people.

TBH, thats the best way.
 
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