Give me advice Brehs(SRS)

[TrapWard-$crewston-TX]

Having sex with 5 different girls every month won't give as much sexual experience as having 3 long term girlfriend/love who would be willing to try anything everyday. I've had 3 long term girlfriends. I ain't bragging but let's pretend fuccbois you know anything about shyt like this.

 

[Giselle]

It's probably my conservative upbringing which made me feel this way but for some reason I treat women are going through the "hoe" phase as unmarriageable/undate-able . Just thinking 50 other guys left their semen in her is too much of a turn off. I don't know how I'm going overcome as I understand most women go through that Hoe phase. I'm not even into fukking sloots myself, I'm too much of a clean freak And I ain't about that lifestyle. I need some advice to overcome my Ho-phobia. Most decent looking women are "sexually promiscuous"/on that Hoe game

There's nothing wrong with you. Most women do not have a "hoe phase". Some do & some don't. If you're not a hoe, you don't need to accept a hoe.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Not too many brehettes you meet are gonna be clocking anywhere near 50 bodies. Truth of the matter is you might have
to go to very specific places and cop you a socially awkward chick if this is that serious to you.

Don't worry about the past dikks, worry about being her last dikk. At least for the time being

It's the quiet ones you have to look out for. They just keep their business on the low-low.

 

[Couth]

Grow up. Everyone has a past. Past doesn't matter, only thing that matters is who they are now. If you can't realize and accept that then you'll never be happy.

And there is plenty of virgins and prudish girls out there waiting to get turned out. Especially if you're in college, you just gotta look for them

 

[At30wecashout]

It's the quiet ones you have to look out for. They just keep their business on the low-low.

THats why I said socially awkward. I'm not talking straight shy, I mean a functional dunce type chick who uses her
outside voice indoors and walks around with ketchup stains on her clothing. A real nutcase.

I hate to break it to you, breh, but you will never really know whether your girl is a hoe or not .



I want to know where in the hell are you guys meeting these broads. None of my friends are clocking anywhere near 50 bodies . These are women in their mid 20s to mid 30s. Damn .

He was exaggerating. However, lord knows shyt can be eye-opening. When I got my first nut, it was with a girl I thought was
2 bodies deep, cause she was in relationships for the longest and didn't seem the type.

She got comfortable and started spilling shyt about a mutual friend who hit in the back of a car, a cable guy(on the second meeting in HER crib),
a one-nighter from a guy in a bar, couple other people from school I didn't know hit...and I look at dudes and they weren't all bad guys,
but she had that "Well, im not proud of it, but it happened" attitude about it.

I thought about how much effort I put into pursuing her, the length of time, amongst other things and she was out "making mistakes" with
dudes who didn't put in nearly the work I did.

I don't begrudge her and I don't care bout bodycount much, afterall im getting older and now getting chose by single mothers , but
I don't blame a guy for being wary. If it isn't about her "purity" it at least implies something about how she operated.

Then you have to ask yourself, as a man, "If all this was going on, why do *I* get the 'privilege' of waiting?"

I don't ascribe to that, cept where these hood single mothers are concerned, but I understand him trying to get someone
who didn't throw it at everybody. Now he has to put in work to find a girl who won't lie about it that he can share in sexual learning and growth,
and not pick up where Jimmy, Jerome, Big Mike, and Ray-Ray left off. They got to hit and didn't
even know her last name.

 

[Dr. Narcisse]

There's nothing wrong with you. Most women do not have a "hoe phase". Some do & some don't. If you're not a hoe, you don't need to accept a hoe.

 

[CinnaSlim]

THats why I said socially awkward. I'm not talking straight shy, I mean a functional dunce type chick who uses her
outside voice indoors and walks around with ketchup stains on her clothing. A real nutcase.


He was exaggerating. However, lord knows shyt can be eye-opening. When I got my first nut, it was with a girl I thought was
2 bodies deep, cause she was in relationships for the longest and didn't seem the type.

She got comfortable and started spilling shyt about a mutual friend who hit in the back of a car, a cable guy(on the second meeting in HER crib),
a one-nighter from a guy in a bar, couple other people from school I didn't know hit...and I look at dudes and they weren't all bad guys,
but she had that "Well, im not proud of it, but it happened" attitude about it.

I thought about how much effort I put into pursuing her, the length of time, amongst other things and she was out "making mistakes" with
dudes who didn't put in nearly the work I did.

I don't begrudge her and I don't care bout bodycount much, afterall im getting older and now getting chose by single mothers , but
I don't blame a guy for being wary. If it isn't about her "purity" it at least implies something about how she operated.

Then you have to ask yourself, as a man, "If all this was going on, why do *I* get the 'privilege' of waiting?"

I don't ascribe to that, cept where these hood single mothers are concerned, but I understand him trying to get someone
who didn't throw it at everybody. Now he has to put in work to find a girl who won't lie about it that he can share in sexual learning and growth,
and not pick up where Jimmy, Jerome, Big Mike, and Ray-Ray left off. They got to hit and didn't
even know her last name.

I find it funny how guys are so sensitive to this stuff when girls are basically taught "boys will be boys, get used to it."

At least for that's how it was for me.

 

[At30wecashout]

I find it funny how guys are so sensitive to this stuff when girls are basically taught "boys will be boys, get used to it."

At least for that's how it was for me.

Because while "boys will be boys" there is rarely any talk of how many girls will run around conducting themselves.

Granted, teen pregnancy and general sex has seemed to have fallen over the decades, we just see the bad apples

in our faces all the time. Being a young man, though, it is damn near traumatizing to fall for a girl who turns out to be

a slut. It isn't even so much about giving it up as when you ask most girls, they aren't proud of it. It is a different ball when

you get a girl who accepts that she likes sex and she did her and makes no apologies, however most will go through the motions

to tell you how bad an idea it was, and any baggage she has usually comes straight from her sexual history, meanwhile

low-to-no body count dudes have a feeling of potential inadequacy. Like asking "She liked them enough to do anything and

everything with them, why am I waiting?"

It isn't logical at all, Brehette, but thats the thought process, especially magnified if the guys were mostly scumbags. Her value

plummets in a guys eyes. Not everyone can afford Gucci bags, so they are special (when not fake.) Nobody values

the Jansport backpack everyone *had*. Why don't they still rock them? Change the thinking to a guy, and young dudes will

drive themselves crazy with insecurity trying to make sense of how her history relates to his inadequacy.

All isn't lost, but some of us guys take extra care to look for girls who still have that "wet behind the ears" personality, and not

Ms. "Been there, done that and everybody else". Thank god they exist, but then you have to dig and find someone compatible.




TL:DR A man's ego can be a fragile fukking thing

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

Try and get at those women that cover everything except their eyes, or the ones that wear head dresses. Those women are very respectful and obviously don't fukk around.

 

[Dwolf]

Find a virgin dime

@Token

 

[old_timer]

Then you have to ask yourself, as a man, "If all this was going on, why do *I* get the 'privilege' of waiting?"

it's usually due a lack of explicit sex appeal
schemers make a lot of money selling men dreams of becoming desirable casanovas
i mean, why aren't there 10 million books trying to share the secrets of making it to the NFL as a tailback??

why isn't there a sticky thread for "quick tips to achieving breakthroughs in nuclear physics"??

yeah, with a lot of work and sweat and obsession, some guys might generate a relatively modest "body count"
then they can say "hey, wanna see the picture of the attractive woman i slept with 5 years ago??"
but their "results" are laughable compared to someone with explicit sex appeal

i guess you can console yourself by remembering it's really about trade-offs
men with explicit sex appeal get retaliated against something fierce in other areas of their life

 

[At30wecashout]

i guess you can console yourself by remembering it's really about trade-offs
men with explicit sex appeal get retaliated against something fierce in other areas of their life

I can imagine that not being enough since it doesn't affect the man currently going through a dilemma.
If a guy is to wait to have sex with a woman, there is intended value in building that relationship. However
if it comes out that she "had her fun" and now wants to take it slow, meanwhile Mr. Straight and narrow
did his due-diligence not to get caught up, he has to wonder what value is there in him waiting?

Maybe who she is now is a person who will wait until she builds something with a guy. Or just this guy.
Maybe his insecurities kill potential romance, and through the grapevine he finds out she went back
to her old ways, waiting for the next "good guy" to come around.

When a guy values this kinda stuff, the older her gets, the harder it is to find like-minded women who
didn't ride the cock carousel. She might be a sweetheart at the end of the day, but the baggage she
accumulated won't be his imagination.

The other guys who hit, assuming they were bad guys, whatever is happening to them doesn't heal
the wounds, insecurities, and baggage a man has to deal with present-day.

Which leads me back to the question "If they all hit early and dipped, why am I waiting?"
Again, this isn't logical, it is mostly ego-speak. Can't console men who are on that wave.

 

[TrapWard-$crewston-TX]

my momma always told me, if you want to meet a nice girl you should go to church more

 

[MikelArteta]

The dumbest thing ive read on the coli in a while

Grow up. Everyone has a past. Past doesn't matter, only thing that matters is who they are now. If you can't realize and accept that then you'll never be happy.

And there is plenty of virgins and prudish girls out there waiting to get turned out. Especially if you're in college, you just gotta look for them

 

[At30wecashout]

my momma always told me, if you want to meet a nice girl you should go to church more

Just what he needs, a ton of women who are ex-slores who now need a good man. They in their HEAVY.