GMB: I paid for my wife’s degree and vacations. I suggested we save for a house, but she left me

[mamba]

i don't understand how these dudes don't realize they're getting played

A lot of them do. But that societal and familial pressure of being the provider keeps them in check.

They don’t even realize that their conditioning has been conditioned.

 

[Tres Leches]

how you pay for her masters degree if she makes more than you?

 

[Tres Leches]

inlaws told me to "be a man" more like "keep being a sucker"

 

[Action Mike]

wow

A relationship is the biggest decision you can make as a man after your purpose, take your fukking time vetting these broads, especially on money.

Guard your peace like a nun guards sex.

 

[HARLEM AL]

i don't understand how these dudes don't realize they're getting played

Men have been indoctrinated since childhood that you are suppose to take care of a woman and that girls are sugar and spice and everything nice. When you been programmed with that for a long time you know nothing else.

Dude needs to pull his self together and divorce her. Be happy she did him a favor by doing that that early in the game. Leave her be, the streets don’t love nobody. The dating game is not in their favor.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

these are the submissive Asian women the coli talks about... foreign virgin exoticals

this is what traditional gender roles look like also for you nostalgic for the past ass nikkaz too

it's a lot of white men who find out the hard way about Asian women and money. Just because they not rapping and tweeting about birkins don't mean they not living the same... money is king.

 

[MikelArteta]

 

[ThrobbingHood]

My only philosophy:

Never build a bytch up, only break her down.

 

[Rawtid]

That’s why I say fukk love as being the sole or first reason you get married. You have to be on the same page about the money. If you’re dating someone for a couple years, you should be able to tell how they treat their finances.

 

[Henny and_ HotWings]

This is why nikkas need to keep secret bank accounts on the side.... men haven’t learned shyt from these females yet smh

 

[ThrobbingHood]

This is why nikkas need to keep secret bank accounts on the side.... men haven’t learned shyt from these females yet smh

I and other posters broke it all the way down in this thread.

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/be-...es-in-a-marriage-read-this-lsa-thread.758040/

 

[ORDER_66]

paid for her degree and she still left his ass... jesus christ this fool... I hope he learned his lesson... never take care of these women like that dont be suckers for no females...

 

[tuckgod]

So has this board always been a incel/nikkas that can’t keep a bytch satisfied board, and I’m just now realizing it?

Y’all don’t understand how pathetic you sound to normal people.

 

[ORDER_66]

So has this board always been a incel/nikkas that can’t keep a bytch satisfied board, and I’m just now realizing it?

Y’all don’t understand how pathetic you sound to normal people.

Can you please explain what you mean??? your saying it's ok for a woman to use and abuse you financially for years and get away with it, while we're left trying to rebuild mentally and financially???

 

[The Radiant One]

That’s why I say fukk love as being the sole or first reason you get married. You have to be on the same page about the money. If you’re dating someone for a couple years, you should be able to tell how they treat their finances.

This is true money is more important than religion. How a woman treats for money like if she spends everything as soon as she gets it, you’re not gonna have a really good relationship because she wants you to provide for her.

A lot of these modern woman especially The high earners want a man who pays all their bills. I’m on a doctor single Facebook group and the black women have run off all the men. Yep they’re chronically single